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  • The Best Food in Oaxaca—From Market Stalls to Michelin Stars

    The Best Food in Oaxaca—From Market Stalls to Michelin Stars

    Oaxaca is widely considered Mexico’s culinary capital thanks to its deep food traditions, vibrant markets, and complex regional dishes. From its seven varieties of mole and handmade corn tortillas to traditional drinks, and from its thriving restaurant scene that spans street stalls to Michelin-starred kitchens, the best food in Oaxaca reflects centuries of culture, craft, and pride.

    How Oaxaca has eluded me for so long is a mystery. Follow along and discover the culinary treasures of this vibrant city.


    It’s about 7pm. The sun has set, but the glow of a few well-placed street lamps guides us along a narrow, curved back street. The stucco-painted walls reveal the colors of the rainbow, despite near darkness. As we stroll, pint-sized dogs with outsized personalities yip, yelp, and howl from behind the bars of gated houses. 

    We round a corner, and I glance past a scuffed, black metal door plastered with flyers and a satin rainbow flag above it. I continue on.

    “Too bad it’s closed tonight,” my friend says.

    I look around. “What’s closed?” I ask.

    “That restaurant… Adamá,” Amy replies. “It’s supposed to be very good.”

    Adama door

    I turn back towards the battered door. Hanging discreetly beside the flag is a small red plaque. The unmistakable badge of culinary achievement: Michelin 2025.

    I’ve been in Oaxaca for less than two hours and have already stumbled upon one of the city’s epicurean treasures. With 23 Michelin-recognized restaurants, including six Bib Gourmands and two with a star, I wonder if five nights in Oaxaca will be more than my digestive system can bear.

    Challenge accepted. Bring on the stars.

    Chocolates

    Why wah-HAH-kah?

    Oaxaca feels like a city built on color. At sunset, the skies remind me of bottles of colored sand I’d fill on the Jersey boardwalk, with layers of blues, purples, and pinks. Vibrant displays of pottery, embroidered fabrics, ceramics, and wood block prints fill storefront windows. Even the chocolates are prismatic—each morsel wrapped like a shimmery, glittering gift.

    I’ve come to Oaxaca to visit a college friend and her husband. Each year, they choose a new destination to live and work remotely for six weeks. The last place I joined them was Mérida, a city I knew nothing about, but left completely enchanted by. So when Amy extended the invitation to Oaxaca, a destination I could barely pronounce, I didn’t hesitate. 

    Typically, I plan my visit about 2-3 weeks into their stay, a strategic way to tap into their favorite bakeries, coffee shops, boutiques, and restaurants. This time is no different. As she’s done in the past, Amy maps out a five-day tour of Oaxaca that would put Rick Steves to shame.

    For once, I get to be led rather than lead. 

    Wedding at church

    ¿Dónde está Oaxaca?

    Oaxaca, one of Mexico’s 32 states, is located in the southeastern part of the country. Covering more than 36,000 square miles, it has 300 miles of Pacific coastline, archaeological ruins, colonial architecture, mountains, and valleys. 

    Oaxaca City, officially Oaxaca de Juárez, is the state’s largest city and is confusingly referred to as just ‘Oaxaca.’ I learn this nuance quickly—much faster than I overcome other linguistic challenges. Why I say ‘Merci’ instead of ‘Gracias’ every time I’m served a drink is baffling. I don’t even speak French.

    Memelitas

    In Oaxaca, it’s all about the food

    Oaxaca may be known for its tropical climate, colorful buildings, captivating murals, and UNESCO World Heritage Site status, but one could argue these are all overshadowed by its cuisine. Nicknamed the Land of Seven Moles (and I don’t mean tiny subterranean mammals), Oaxaca is defined by seven regions, each with its own interpretation of this rich, complex, spicy sauce. 

    Mole is an acquired taste—one I acquire multiple times in Oaxaca. Like learning to identify the different notes in a red wine, I start to pinpoint characteristics of each style, which are a combination of chili peppers, spices, nuts, seeds, and occasionally chocolate or fruit. 

    A family will spend years perfecting their mole, guarding the recipe, then passing it on to the next generation like a precious heirloom. When we visit the markets, I see pride in grandmothers’ eyes as they offer us tastings. It’s their family’s past, present, and future wrapped up in a single bite.

    Mercado

    Oaxaca Food Tour: Party of Two

    John and Amy take a food tour of the city the week before I arrive. By the time I land in Oaxaca, Amy has narrowed down the tour highlights so that we can sample the city at our own pace. I tell my stomach, “You’ve got this,” and we start walking.

    I start my day with two things: coffee and The New York Times puzzles. No matter where in the world I wake up, these are constants. For any fellow puzzlers, my Wordle streak is 565 days strong. 

    Oaxaca coffee exceeds my expectations, and I enjoy the vibe and grounds at Café El Volador so much that I refuse to go anywhere else. Each morning, an elementary school class plays games on the plaza beside it, which only adds to my adoration of this lovable corner café. Cappuccinos in hand, we head outside and soak up the morning sun.

    Cafe el Volador

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    Tamales Cande

    Mercados and Memelitas

    Fully caffeinated, we stroll to Mercado Sánchez Pascuas for tamales. Minerva, the tour de force behind Tamales Cande, was taught her grandmother’s tamale recipe at 11 years old. When we arrive, Minerva is already serving a line of patrons at her small stall.

    Amy chooses sweet and savory tamales for us to sample, and at 930am, it’s clear a nap is in my future. I make a mental note to sample, not devour, every dish on the tour.

    Taco Truck in Oaxaca

    Our next stop finds us at a tented taco truck where three generations of women work the crowd like a well-practiced dance. One is minding the comal, a smooth, flat cast-iron griddle used for cooking tortillas. The other two are multitasking the orders, food prep, and payment. 

    We order tacos and memelitas, which are open-face fried corn tortillas topped with various fillings. Tacos del Carmen is legendary in Oaxaca, a street-corner fixture since 1974, with recipes passed down through the generations. I take my plastic plate to a nearby stoop and devour every last bite. So much for sampling.

    Chapulines, grasshoppers

    The Jewels of the Mercado

    Mercado Benito Juárez has existed since 1894, making it one of Oaxaca’s oldest and most famous markets. Here, locals rub elbows with tourists, buying everything from baked goods and regional sweets to flowers, footwear, and seafood. It’s a feast for the senses, and we walk the aisles, each named in honor of the state’s regions.

    As we wander, I notice woven baskets piled high with insects. I had already tried chapulines (grasshoppers) the night before, as Amy and John were keen to test my taste buds’ limits on arrival.

    Chapulines are a common snack, the unlikely jewels of the mercado, and are often found on menus even in the fanciest restaurants. Other edible insects include chicatanas, flying ants (don’t fret, they remove their legs, wings, and heads before cooking them), escamoles (ant larvae), and chincuiles (red worms).

    These no-fat, protein-rich bites can be boiled, roasted, toasted, fried, seasoned, or served au naturel. And while I’d ideally like to incorporate 85 grams of protein per day into my diet, boiled bugs are a hard pass.

    Street festivities

    Mexican Wines, For the Win

    Nothing encourages day drinking more than a vacation in Mexico. The combination of warm weather, bustling streets and plazas, and the daylong festive buzz means one is never more than six feet away from a place to imbibe.

    While ambling around the Zócalo (Oaxaca’s main square), we sit at an outdoor table for a drink. Nursing my ice-cold Corona, I think there may be no better place to absorb the city’s vibe than from this very spot.

    Next, Amy and John lead us to Cuarto de Vino, a nearby bar that serves exclusively Mexican wines. Cuarto’s focus is on small producers and natural wines from Baja and other emerging regions. We sit around the central bar and order a flight of whites. And just like that, our food tour has turned into a bar crawl. 

    Dinner

    The Best of Oaxaca: A Food Lover’s Guide

    There are boundless dining options in Oaxaca, from market stalls to Michelin-starred restaurants. Each rung of the culinary ladder offers plenty of options for hungry tourists. What follows is my curated guide to Oaxaca’s best food. Think of it as your one-stop shop for mapping out the city’s food highlights.

    Dinner on patio
    Criollo Restaurant

    Best Restaurants in Oaxaca
    (including Michelin Stars & Bib Gourmands)

    Criollo: Helmed by Chef Enrique Olvera of Pujol and Cosme fame, Criollo, one of the city’s chicest dining rooms, is softly lit and deeply atmospheric. On the way to their tables, guests pass tortillas being pressed and cooked on a comal, filling the space with the scent of warm corn. The experience feels soothing and communal—like dinner with family—while a seasonal seven-course tasting menu highlights the depth of Oaxacan cuisine inside a UNESCO Heritage house.

    Las Quince Letras: Since 1992, Celia Florián and Fidel Méndez have been seducing diners with their roasted chilies and Creole ingredients. Traditional Oaxacan dishes, including their family’s black mole, are served on a tree-canopied, shaded terrace. (Bib Gourmand)

    Ancestral Cocina Tradicional: This simple, beautifully designed, open-air restaurant is tucked away in the residential neighborhood of Xochimilco. Inspired by native ingredients, Ancestral is an off-the-grid spot for breakfast, lunch, dinner, or a mezcal Negroni at the bar. 

    Labo Fermento
    Labo Fermento

    Labo Fermento: After perusing the on-site lab and bodega, get a rooftop table at this low-lit Asia-meets-Latin America hotspot, where fermentation is the culinary theme. Chef-owner Joseph Gilbert and his team conjure ethereal dishes such as fermented tomatillo, huitlacoche kimchi, and my fave: dumplings with quesillo and queso ahumado glazed in a chili oil. Labo is a refreshing change from traditional Mexican fare. (Bib Gourmand)

    Levadura de Olla Restaurante: Celebrating the culinary roots of the Sierra Sur region, Levadura de Olla serves atypical ceremonial dishes inspired by the region, including barbacollita tamal (cracked corn, chicken, pork, chilies, and spices), squash blossoms, mole negro, and native Oaxacan tomatoes. (1-Star)

    Casa Oaxaca El Restaurante: Alejandro Ruiz pens a love letter to Oaxacan cuisine, with sensational dishes like yellowfin tuna carpaccio, crispy duck tacos, and oregano-scented rabbit. Set within an 18th-century townhouse, guests will fall in love with much more than the food at Casa Oaxaca.

    Selva Cocktail Bar
    Selva

    Best Bars in Oaxaca

    Cuarto de Vino: A sophisticated, trendy, and convivial wine bar serving an array of Mexican varietals with tapas that effortlessly complement the wines’ flavors.

    Tasca El Olivo: A buzzy gastrobar with live music and casual rooftop seating. At El Olivo, food is a family affair, serving tapas, paella, pinchos, and pastas.

    Selva cocktail
    Maracuyá and Pollen Cocktail at Selva

    Selva Cocktail Bar: If Selva’s mission is to distill the essence of Oaxaca, it overachieves. Named one of the World’s 50 Best Bars by San Pellegrino, Selva takes the art of the cocktail to new levels. Get there before sunset to score one of the two balcony tables overlooking Oaxaca’s magnificent cathedral. 

    La Popular: Cozy, authentic, and, as the name boasts, incredibly popular. Serving tacos and tortas, as well as spicy soups and salsas, it’s filled with locals enjoying a night out, which is always a good sign.

    Pastries
    Pan Con Madre

    Best Cafés and Bakeries in Oaxaca

    Café El Volador: An intimate, small, and local café, serving everything from rich espressos and luscious hot chocolate to gooey chocolate brownies and guava cheesecake.

    Pan con Madre: At this local bakery, good luck choosing just one flaky, buttery pastry. Pair whatever you choose with a silky cappuccino and relax in the courtyard before starting your day.

    Boulenc Bakery: With flour sourced from a mill in nearby Nochixtlan, this open-air and hard-to-find local bakery perfects artisan sourdough bread.

    Mercado spices

    Best Street Food and Markets in Oaxaca

    Barbacoa El Cabrito (at Mercado 20 Noviembre): Settle into a counter seat and feast on the best goat tacos in town, French-dip-style, with a side of savory consomme.

    Tamales Cande (at Mercado Sánchez Pascuas): Known for having some of the top tamales in Oaxaca, don’t miss Minerva’s Tamale Negro, with juicy chicken and black mole.

    Super Jugos Angelita (at Mercado Sánchez Pascuas): Looking to quench your thirst after a hot tamale? Turn around. Choose from beet, kiwi, carrot, watermelon, guava, or a combo of any and all of the above at this little juice bar, which sits directly opposite Tamales Cande.

    Tacos Del Carmen: Chorizo tacos and memelita con quesillo (fried tortillas with Oaxacan string cheese) are just a few highlights at this lively tented food truck located at the corner of Jesús Carranza and C. de Manuel García Vigil. Cash only.


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    appetizers at Casa Silencio

    Get Local—What to Eat in Oaxaca

    Oaxaca is widely considered Mexico’s culinary capital, and the best way to experience it is dish by dish. From smoky moles and crisp tlayudas to sweet Oaxacan hot chocolate, the city’s traditional foods reflect centuries of indigenous and regional influence. If you’re wondering what to eat in Oaxaca, start with these classic dishes.

    Empanada: Crispy corn turnover with savory fillings

    Tlayudas: Giant toasted tortilla with beans, cheese, and meat

    Pozole: Hominy stew with pork and chile

    Sopa de Mariscos: Hearty seafood soup

    Tamales: Steamed corn masa parcels with savory fillings

    Carne Asada: Simply grilled beef, smoky and flavorful

    Memelas: Thick corn masa topped with beans and salsa

    Quesillo: Mild, creamy, and stringy Oaxacan cheese

    Tejate: A cool and frothy traditional cacao and maize drink

    Barbacoa: Slow-cooked meat with a rich and savory broth

    Tacos al Pastor: Spit-roasted pork tacos with pineapple

    Estofado: Sweet-spiced chicken stew with fruit notes

    Enchiladas Coloradito: Tortillas in mild red mole sauce

    Chapulines: Toasted grasshoppers seasoned with chile and lime

    Tacos Dorados: Crispy rolled tacos stuffed and fried

    Chile Relleno: Stuffed chile pepper, battered and fried

    Enchiladas Suizas and Enchiladas Verdes: Creamy or tangy green-sauce enchiladas

    Torta: Mexican sandwich layered with meats and other fillings

    Hot Chocolate with Bread: Spiced Oaxacan cacao with sweet bread

    Casa Silencio Distillery
    Subterranean distillery at Casa Silencio

    In Oaxaca, it’s (also) all about the Mezcal

    Yes, the food in Oaxaca is worth writing home about. But let’s not ignore the humble agave, Oaxaca’s most celebrated plant. I have a complicated relationship with tequila, dating back to an unfortunate incident in high school. Fortunately, it’s only after I’ve booked my flight that I discover Oaxaca is the cultural heartland of mezcal, tequila’s more complex cousin.

    Amy tells me to relax: “Drinking mezcal isn’t a requirement for visiting, but…” she continues, “I’ve lined up a mezcal tasting for us on Sunday.” My stomach lurches back to the 1980s. Can I travel to the birthplace of mezcal and not give it a chance? 


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    Casa Silencio Pool

    Mezcal Tasting at Casa Silencio

    The ancient towns of Mitla and Matatlan are the epicenters of mezcal production in Oaxaca. Generations of mezcaleros still use traditional, small-batch methods, roasting agave in underground pits, crushing it with stones, and distilling in clay or copper. 

    Casa Silencio Bar

    We are spending the night at Casa Silencio, a remote boutique hotel just over an hour from Oaxaca City. It’s a working distillery as well as a fascinating example of brutalist architecture set among hectares of agaves. With only six rooms, each named for a natural element, and a destination-worthy restaurant, it’s easy to forgive Amy for the mezcal tour.

    The tour takes us over and underground, led by a young, knowledgeable guide who explains the process of making mezcal and its history. After the tour, it’s time for the moment I’ve been dreading. The tasting is set up in the library. Four glasses of mezcal and four small bites from the chef. Our guide encourages us to identify the flavors as we taste. 

    Mezcal Tasting

    I sip mezcal #1 and announce that I taste hot pepper and spice. Our guide sips and says he detects guava, sliced apple, and grass. Grrrr. With mezcal #2, I try the fruit route. “Black cherry.” I declare. Our guide smiles and says, “cinnamon.” Discouraged, I wonder if black cherries even grow in Mexico? By mezcal #3, my taste buds are numb. Mezcal #4, I have no memory of.

    Despite my tasting failings, the tour is a highlight. I may never be a mezcal aficionado, but I can say with near certainty that I no longer fear it.

    Zocalo at dusk

    Closing Time

    It’s about 7am. The sun is rising, and I’m in a taxi starting my long journey home. From the window, I pass purple jacarandas, golden trumpet trees, and soft pink ceiba, all in full bloom. The streets are eerily hushed, which is fine with me. My eyes are puffy, and I’m half asleep.

    How could it have taken me until now to discover this humble food mecca in Mexico? Has Oaxaca eluded food lovers worldwide—or just me? That’s the thing about travel, no matter how much we think we’ve seen and experienced, there’s always something more to find. Whether that be a roasted insect, a chocolatey mole, or a leafy succulent that brings me back to 1984.

    I pat my stomach, thanking it for allowing me to be so experimental. To try dishes, flavors, and ingredients that have been part of this region’s culinary love language for centuries, but are now mine to savor for the first time.

    I wonder how many stars Oaxaca will earn by the time I next visit? I can’t wait to return and find out.


    Where to Stay in Oaxaca: My Shortlist

    I stayed with friends, but if I had to choose a hotel in Oaxaca, these would be my top picks. Click for details:

    Hotel Escondido Oaxaca

    Casa Arrona Oaxaca

    Pug Seal

    Hotel Sin Nombre

    Otro Oaxaca


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  • Escape to New York, Inness takes on the Catskills

    Escape to New York, Inness takes on the Catskills

    Inness is the latest property to take on the Catskills, in New York State. With its low-key escapist vibe and majestic mountain scenery, Inness delivers a weekend getaway for those lucky enough to live within driving distance. Think a cabin-laden, nature-centric resort in the Catskills can’t deliver? Inness will prove you wrong.


    Barn views with clouds

    “Give me a 5-hour radius, Daniel?” I plead. My husband hates to drive. The last time we took a road trip, a four-hour drive turned into eight, due to an overturned tractor trailer and an ill-timed oil spill. Let’s just say that closed the books on road trips for good.

    With airplanes being public enemy #1 of travel these days, I thought I could re-open the case. Newspaper headlines cry, “Unfriendly Skies”, “Airmageddon”, and “The Summer of Lost Luggage”. Every day I’d email Daniel an article reinforcing my point. I’m nothing if not persistent. Although Daniel would likely use a different adjective.

    I send more self-serving sound bytes, but he’s unresponsive. If I’m making any headway, it’s impossible to tell. 

    As a last resort, I offer this: “We can listen to 80s on 8 the whole way.” A statement, while brilliant, I regret the moment it’s leaving my mouth. I detect a glint of possibility in his eyes. 

    Inness, here we come.

    Barn at storm

    You’re going to the Catskills?

    Friends ask, ‘Ummm, are the Catskills still a thing? Were they ever?’. Yes, we are going to the Catskills. The Catskills of Dirty Dancing lore. That place your grandparents used to go. ‘The Catskills are cool again.’, I reply. I hope I’m right. If they aren’t, I’ve given up road trip rights forever.

    I’m sensing you don’t believe me. I can see your mouse hovering over that red dot to close this tab. Give a travel blogger, I mean, a travel writer a chance.

    We fly past local farm stands and ramshackle barns that look one gust of wind away from absolute destruction. No traffic, no detours, or oil spills. Waze rules—we arrive at Inness at four hours and fifty-eight minutes.

    Dramatic sky

    We park. In the distance, enormous willows weep in pairs and in clusters. Queen Anne’s Lace delicately weaves around tall grasses. Cattails emerge with telltale cigar-shaped tips, adding texture to the overgrown landscape. Their pollen has already disintegrated into wispy pieces of cottony fluff that float dreamily through the air. 

    Thank you, Inness. This is just the welcome I’m hoping for. First, I dutifully thank the traffic gods. Next, I unsuccessfully try to get the refrain from ‘Karma Chameleon’ out of my head. We head towards check-in. 


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    Cabin row

    Inness, the namesake

    American painter George Inness came of age during the Hudson River School era. He is referred to as ‘The father of American landscape painting.’ It took me all of 60 seconds to see why the farmhouse and cabin-laden property of Inness is named for him.

    A master of light and tone, George Inness couldn’t have chosen a better place to paint than this pastoral part of New York State. The landscape is the main event at Inness. Its location between the Catskill and Shawangunk mountain ranges provides both wide-angle vistas and macroscopic wildlife. I’m smitten. I think George would be, too.

    Three cabins

    Inness, the property

    Inness is comprised of 28 cabins and 12 farmhouse rooms set over 220 bucolic acres. Each cabin is created to maximize the view. I had a hard time deciding where to spend my viewing time. On our private deck? On the hill by the fire pit overlooking the valley? Or, from the adults-only circle pool. In the end, I rotate between all three. I’m an equal opportunity view seeker.

    Inness is all about the outdoors. Yet, the indoors have been curated and designed with ‘modern-farmhouse-chic’ in mind. A combination of sparse Scandinavian living with layers of luxury like Frette sheets and robes. Aesop toiletries and locally-sourced snacks are within arm’s reach. The cabins feel effortlessly designed, with vintage furniture and found objects, tea kettles, and minimalistic earth-toned pottery.

    Honor bar

    The Farmhouse has lovely common and outdoor spaces. A pool table, ping pong table, and corn hole are ready and waiting for a match. An honor bar opens in the afternoon, and we take full advantage of its proximity to the pool.

    Cabin interior

    Fit For a King

    Our King Cabin interior is a lesson in geometry. Two pentagons are divided by a square archway. A lone bulb encased by hand-blown glass dangles above a minimal wooden table in the center of the room. 

    Sheaths of linen are draped against the windows and match the warm dove-gray color of the walls. The Frette bed linens also match the walls, so the entire room feels bathed in shades of gray.

    Bed

    The bed is so underdone it appears naked. No decorative pillows, no patterns, or embellishments. It’s a perfect metaphor for Inness. Underdone, but luxurious.

    Two cabins

    Our cabin’s exterior is a lesson in simplicity. Rich, graphite-colored siding, iron-framed windows, and doors pop up between the wild green grasses. The cabins pay homage to the Catskill resorts of old, but with a casual and modern twist. They run serpentine along a dirt road that leads from the Farmhouse at one end to the restaurant barn at the other.


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    Dining room exterior

    Peas in a pod, and other delights at Inness

    One of the reasons I choose Inness is its closeness to the mountains. I love hiking with Daniel. Nothing makes him happier than tackling a mountain with a view. Nothing makes me happier than eating a great meal after tackling a mountain with a view. We are two peas in the same pod. 

    In addition to DJ’ing five hours’ worth of Tear For Fears, A-Ha, and other dreadful 80s bands, it’s Daniel’s job to choose our hikes. It’s my job to choose our restaurants. Two peas.

    Inness’ restaurant encompasses the same simplicity found elsewhere on the property. The large open dining barn has a convivial bar and two outdoor dining areas. Why anyone would choose to sit anywhere but the balcony overlooking the fields and mountains is a mystery I will never solve. 

    Dining room interior

    Creatures of Habit

    In fact, we eat every meal at the same balcony table and never get bored—either of the menu or the views. Each night the balcony serves us much more than lovely meals.

    sunset from balcony

    Storms with dramatic purple clouds roll through while we share a plateful of thinly-sliced tuna carpaccio. Bolts of lightning strike during our shared course of homemade pasta. By the time our mains are served, the sky has cleared and golden light touches the fields below. 

    Tuna carpaccio

    On Mondays and Tuesdays, Inness serves wood-fired pizzas and pasta dishes only. For the remainder of the week, the menu is more extensive. It includes local finds like steelhead trout with butter beans and salsa verde and an oven-roasted pork chop with charred rapini and hot honey mustard.

    sunset from balcony

    We did attempt to have a dinner off-property. Perhaps find a local farm with a restaurant? But we are creatures of habit, as my friends and family can attest. Leaving the ever-changing skies and sunset from the balcony never materialized. Shocker.

    The Catskills Overdeliver

    Daniel expects to be underwhelmed by the hiking trails in the Catskills. He’s what you’d call a hiking snob. To be fair, we’ve done some challenging hikes in the past few years. The Tetons, Chamonix, and Helvellyn, as examples. How can the Catskills compare? 

    I love when Daniel’s expectations are exceeded.

    The downside of having no say in our hikes is that I never know what I’m getting into. Traditionally, Daniel and I fight while we hike. We fight because he gets us lost. He won’t admit that, of course. But it’s written right here on the internet so it’s 100% true.

    The upside of our fighting is that it scares the bears. 

    boulder view

    Lakes and Loops

    Daniel tells me we are hiking Millbrook Mountain to Gertrude’s Nose. It’s a 7-mile loop hike, rather than an in-and-out one. I’m thrilled. I don’t like in-and-out hikes. I spend the whole ‘in’ wondering when we are getting to the ‘out’. It spoils the experience. 

    The hike, which begins at the base of Lake Minnewaska, starts out friendly enough. Aside from the sign at the trailhead warning us that we are entering a rattlesnake habitat and to take heed. At least that takes my mind off the bears.

    The hike has a soft-padded start, with fallen pine needles paving our way. Inevitably, the work begins, and the terrain gets steep. But thankfully the trail rewards us with views that are worth the struggle. And Daniel’s constant amazement at the hike’s beauty makes me feel like saying ‘I told you so.’ 

    For the sake of marriage preservation, I refrain. Plus, he hasn’t gotten us lost yet.

    Gertrudes Nose

    On Gertrude’s Nose

    Who is this Gertrude and why is her nose so climb-worthy? In a nutshell, Dutch settler Gertrude Bruyn set up her house on the range opposite this geological marvel—a cliff escarpment that projects out over the Palmaghatt Ravine ‘like a nose’. I wonder if she’s disappointed by the body part chosen for this honor.

    The cliffs, crevices, and joint cracks that lead to the nose offer spectacular eastern and southern views of the Hudson Valley. It also offers a sheer drop to imminent death. If selfies are your thing, think twice. Your Instagram feed isn’t worth it. As silver linings go, maybe you’ll meet Gertrude in your next life.


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    Ladder

    Where’s the Lemon Squeeze?

    Daniel tells me our next hike is called Lemon Squeeze. Cute, I think. How hard can that be? He mentions it’s another 7-mile loop, but not to worry because it’s mostly downhill. Why I don’t calculate what that says about the uphill part still boggles my mind.

    One mile straight up a mountain is what I fail to compute. It’s a doozy of a climb, and I never use the word doozy. We crawl under, over, and around rocks that weigh several tons and balance precariously upon one another. A maze of boulders and tight squeezes dot the route.

    Every time I think we have come upon Lemon Squeeze, an even squeezier spot appears. Finally, the real squeeze is obvious, as only children aged ten and younger or supermodels can get through without losing layers of skin. 

    Lemon Squeeze
    The Real Lemon Squeeze

    After climbing a slippery ladder within an ultra-narrow crevice, I pop out onto a rock ledge overlooking a cerulean blue lake and matching skies. I kiss the rocks under my hands and feet and thank the Almighty this is not an in-and-out trail. The views of Mohonk Lake, creepy Mohonk Mountain House, and the Catskill range are worth every layer of skin I lose that day.

    Later, a friend texts me she hiked Lemon Squeeze too—when she was ten. I’m ever-humbled.

    The best reward for a morning of hiking is threefold: food, wine, and a pool. Inness has all three waiting for us each day. We dive deep into relaxation like the seasoned professionals we are.


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    fire pit

    Inness is for the dogs, and other well-behaved guests

    If you live in NYC, Boston, or Philly, I envy your proximity to Inness. As is noted by the license plates which fill the parking lot, the property clearly pulls from the northeast. A mini-escape from the summer heat and city life, Inness is a quick 90-minute drive from Brooklyn. I would have definitely had control of Sirius XM if our drive was that short.

    As an added bonus, Inness welcomes dogs (for a fee). The website states it accepts up to two, crated, well-socialized, and well-trained dogs per reservation. This rules out our labs for one reason for sure. That Frette duvet cover would never have survived Indy and Shaka.

    However, we meet many adorable canines while at Inness. Most are better behaved than the guests.

    Adult pool

    Pool, Golf, and other obstacles at Inness

    We aren’t golfers. At least not yet. I’ll go out on a limb and say I’ll never golf. But then my dad will inevitably comment, ‘Never say never! You now eat fish!’ and I’ll never hear the end of it.

    I overhear a woman at the pool describing the course as having a good aura. That sounds a bit woo-woo, but what do I know about the past lives of golf courses? Built by King Collins Golf, the course has nine holes designed for ‘repeat play to fully appreciate the countless shot-making possibilities.” Their words, not mine.

    Two pools book-end the property. The rectangular, kid-friendly pool and the circular adults-only one. I imagine the architects discussing how to keep shrieking children as far away from the grown-ups as possible. The ones who have just dumped, I mean, dropped off their kids at summer camp. Well-played, team Inness.

    Inness takes advantage of that fantastic, new middle-aged activity—the obstacle course. Part Tough Mudder, part elementary school playground, the course is a nice alternative to the classic hotel gym, of which there is one on-site, as well.

    Check in and boutique

    Checking Out at Inness

    Three nights at Inness is the right amount of time to escape the city heat and enjoy the beautiful surroundings. A leisurely balcony breakfast allows us to savor the valley and mountain views one last time before we pile into the car.

    The check-in/check-out greenhouse of Inness doubles as a museum-like boutique and overpriced farm stand. We have our boxed leftovers from last night’s dinner for a road trip picnic. ‘This couldn’t happen on an airplane, Daniel.’ I don’t say.

    We jump in the car and I quickly change the station to ’90s on 9’. I glance back at Inness. I miss the balcony.

    George Inness died in 1894. According to his son, he was viewing the sunset, when he threw up his hands into the air and exclaimed, “My God! Oh, how beautiful!” Then he fell to the ground and died.

    That’s the way to go.


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  • How I got a reservation at Eleven Madison Park—the best restaurant in the world. (And how you can, too).

    How I got a reservation at Eleven Madison Park—the best restaurant in the world. (And how you can, too).

    A dinner reservation at Eleven Madison Park is coveted. Places like Eleven Madison Park are re-imagining their place in the new culinary landscape. The most inspiring example of this comes from Daniel Humm. Mr. Humm is the chef and owner of three Michelin-starred, Eleven Madison Park. I listened to his podcast with Guy Raz and was humbled. Eleven Madison Park has surprised the restaurant industry by creating completely plant-based menus. I only hope I can get in.


    My husband, Daniel, doesn’t understand why I would write about how I got a dinner reservation at Eleven Madison Park. He doesn’t think anyone will read it.

    Maybe, he’s right.

    For the Love of Food

    I’m banking on the fact that there are people out there, like me, who want to eat their way through a city, or a country. People who want to discover a region’s local delicacies or experience flavors and spices that aren’t readily used in their own cooking. People who would give their pinky toe for a reservation at Eleven Madison Park.

    While it may seem that if a person is intelligent enough to follow the directions on a restaurant’s website, regardless of the restaurant’s popularity, a reservation would naturally follow. Well, it doesn’t. Not always.

    Online platforms like Open Table, Tock, and Resy, have certainly helped the foodies of the world book great tables around the globe. Reservations at Eleven Madison Park, for example. However, there are tricks, hacks, strategies, and (dare I say) skills involved in the process.

    I have been known to book a holiday around a particular restaurant, securing the table long before the flights or hotel. I scour the San Pellegrino list of the World’s 50 Best Restaurants prior to committing to a country to visit. It may sound extreme, but as it turns out, I’m not alone. The New York Times recently wrote an article about a trend called ‘destination dining’. The article highlighted people who created entire itineraries around the reservation at a particular restaurant. Those who live to eat, rather than eat to live. My people.

    Restaurant HRiSHi tasting menu

    Worshipping San Pellegrino

    Year to year, the San Pellegrino World’s 50 Best List ebbs and flows with the finest epicurean experiences of the times. Some restaurants hold their title for a few years, while others have a shorter tenure. It’s a culinary roller coaster for those in the business of food, and for those who love to eat. I often find myself watching the rise and fall of restaurants the way others might watch the stock market. Can we agree that food is more fun than stocks?

    Simply summed up, the San Pellegrino World’s 50 Best List ranks the top restaurants in the world according to unique culinary experiences. The list acts as a barometer for dining and food trends—a defining list of what is hot right now.

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    Beat the Restaurant Reservation System

    There are a few ways to beat the reservation system, which can be frustrating at the best of times. Ways to grab the table you’d like, on the day you’d like, and without fear of getting saddled with the dreaded 5pm or 11pm time slot.

    A few personal case stories follow, describing how I secured reservations at some of the best restaurants in the world, including, then number one, Chef Daniel Humm’s Eleven Madison Park. Want to skip the stories and head straight to the cheat sheet? Scroll down. Otherwise, read on. As an aside, I have very little in the way of photographs for these experiences, as I spent my time fully absorbed by the food. Indeed, the sign of a fabulous meal.

    The Test Kitchen

    Case Story #1: The Test Kitchen, Cape Town

    The Test Kitchen (then ranked #50) is one of the hardest restaurant bookings to get in South Africa. Rumor has it that even TV’s most well-loved talk show host, Ellen DeGeneres, was turned away without a reservation.

    We were heading to South Africa for a week in Cape Town. I had The Test Kitchen firmly in my crosshairs, yet knew it was going to be a challenge to reserve if I relied solely upon reading the website reservation directions, as my husband seemed to think was so simple.

    Reservations open up four times a year at 8am for the following three months. That means if you’d like a table in April, May, or June, you need to book at exactly 8am on March 1st, South Africa time. Did they really mean four times a year? Yikes. 

    I live in Washington DC, which meant a 1am alarm. Factor in the other like-minded, overachieving foodies scrambling for the same date. And those who live in more accessible time zones. Not as simple.

    Having booked the trip months in advance, I had the luxury of time on my side. I emailed our hotel in Cape Town to ask/beg the concierge for help. First, I explained the situation and the semi-problematic time difference. Then, I assured her that my expectations were low, and would appreciate her willingness to try.

    As any concierge worthy of her post would do, she replied that she’d be happy to help. I gave options for dates, as we were in Cape Town for 7 nights, thanked her in advance, and followed up immediately to confirm our conversation.

    A few months later, she replied with the news that she had successfully secured the booking. I was amazed, but not completely surprised. Never underestimate the power of a detail-oriented, capable, and willing concierge. In case you’re wondering, the hotel had no special ‘in’ or connections to The Test Kitchen, just a finger on the trigger, in the right time zone, at exactly the right time.

    Dark Room at the Test Kitchen

    The evening began upon entry into the Dark Room—cozy, ambient, and moody. We were handed a scrolled parchment map that outlined the origins of the upcoming bite-sized courses.

    After drinks, and the ‘map of small bites’, we were ushered through an unassuming doorway. Hello, Light Room—buzzing and bustling with bright-eyed waiters and an energized open-plan kitchen. A contrast in settings, decor, and festivities. It was theater, and we were an eager audience.

    Billionaire Bite Test Kitchen Bread board at The Test Kitchen

    Chef Luke Dale-Roberts’ inventive food hit all the marks. Each dish had an interesting juxtaposition of ingredients. It was, however, the Billionaire Bite, an indescribable savory shortbread, topped with gold leaf, that sent our tastebuds into overdrive. We paired the meal with the sommelier’s wine choices, rolled back to the hotel, and immediately fell into a food-induced coma. Bravo, Chef Luke.

    Case Story #2: Pujol, Mexico City

    The Netflix series, Chef’s Table, has always been a stimulant for our food obsession. One lazy winter’s night, an episode about Chef Enrique Olvera from Mexico City’s Pujol, particularly caught my husband’s attention. Then, Pujol was rated the 12th-best restaurant in the world by San Pellegrino and the 3rd-best in Latin America. When the show ended, Daniel casually intimated that he would love to go there one day.

    My mind began to spin. Daniel is not one to ask for much in the way of gifts. He had a birthday coming up the next month. That birthday happened to fall on a Saturday night. I discovered there was a direct flight to Mexico City from DC. The stars were beginning to align.

    While I could book the flights to Mexico City on miles without worry, I didn’t want to book the hotel until I had the restaurant reserved. What to do first? Another situation where my new BFF, the concierge, came into play. Even if it was a future concierge.

    I called the hotel and explained my predicament. I assured him that I would book a room the moment the reservation was secured. Again, a reliable and helpful concierge to the rescue.

    Pujol mole course

    Less than a month later, we were happily sitting in the dimly lit, black-walled dining room of Pujol in Mexico City, savoring Chef Olvera’s famous 100-day mole, and tasting menu. We overheard a young couple next to us explaining to the waiter that they had based their entire trip around this reservation after having seen Chef’s Table. So much for originality.

    I’ve since discovered that Pujol can be reserved on Open Table. I plugged in today’s date as an experiment. The next available is three months from now at 6pm.

    Overview of New York City

    Case Story #3: Eleven Madison Park, NYC

    How to get a reservation at the best restaurant in the entire world? Perhaps the triad of strategy, knowledge, and plain old good luck. In the case of Chef Daniel Humm’s Eleven Madison Park, luck was a key player.

    A girls’ trip to NYC in February 2019 seemed a good way to beat the winter blues. After choosing the date, we decided to divide and conquer—one friend chose the hotel, and another the Broadway show. I was in charge of dinner.

    I googled the reservation policy for Eleven Madison Park, which then held the #1 spot on the San Pellegrino 50 Best List. The site read: ‘We open reservations at 9am EST on the first of every month for the following month. For example, all May reservations will become available on April 1st at 9am EST’. Seemed simple enough under ordinary circumstances, but Daniel Humm’s restaurant is considered anything but ordinary.

    For a February reservation, the date to book was January 1st, 9am EST—New Year’s Day. What better way to try to beat the system than to take advantage of a morning when a good part of the country is sleeping late, hungover, or both? I marked my calendar and created a Tock profile, as recommended. As long as I didn’t oversleep, I had a shot.

    Timing Is Everything

    At 8:55am, on January 1st, I was waiting with my finger on the trigger. Eleven Madison Park has a pay-in-advance dinner policy, so I had already cleared it with my friends should the reservation come to fruition. Refresh, refresh, refresh. Click. Click. Ticking clock, ticking clock…. 8pm. Confirmed. Wow.

    The strategy of working the timeline backward to a holiday is not foolproof, but will certainly increase the odds, especially if you have any flexibility in dates and times.

    Eleven Madison Park was formal, yet not stuffy, with an intelligent, funny, and self-deprecating waitstaff. Its location is in a 30-story art-deco skyscraper that originally housed Metropolitan Life. The grandiose pillars and sky-high ceilings had a warmth and happy buzz that filled the entire space. Culinary bucket list—check.

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    Eleven Madison Park In the news

    Chef Daniel Humm’s recent announcement to serve a 100% plant-based menu upon re-opening is one that will likely have a ripple effect on the restaurant world. As he points out in his podcast, it is harder to turn a carrot into a meal than a tail of a lobster. Each of his plant-based dishes will certainly still uphold his four-pronged combination: to be delicious, beautiful, creative, and intentional. In his soothing understated manner, Daniel Humm maintains that if all four are achieved in a single dish, he has created a new language.

    I can’t wait to learn it. Eleven Madison Park, here I come.

    NYC with sunlight

    Tips and gratuities

    Finally, the cheat sheet. Ten practical, logical, and strategic tips on how to get that coveted reservation, regardless of price or popularity.

    1. Follow the rules: Look at the restaurant’s website in advance and take note of their particular method of reserving.
    2. Mark your calendar: Once you have the date in mind, backtrack to the day (and time) you can officially book. Set an alarm, or two, so you don’t forget.
    3. Be flexible: Are you able to book the restaurant for a variety of dates? Mark your calendar for multiple days in case the first time you aren’t successful. Have those dates ready so you can make a snap decision.
    4. Create accounts in advance: Many restaurants, especially the ones you pay for the meal in advance, have an online system to join or use a reservation platform like Tock. Get your account set up and credit card input.
    5. Refresh: Get the website up and ready five minutes before the allotted time to book. Refresh the page as needed.
    6. Make a new BFF: Don’t be afraid to ask the concierge for help, especially when dealing with countries that don’t speak your language, or are in a different time zone. Then don’t forget to tip when they come through.
    7. Dial it in: When all else fails, try calling for a reservation. We have gotten lucky with last-minute cancellations time and again. Keep calling, you never know.
    8. Think backward: Take advantage of holidays like New Year’s Day and Christmas morning. Plan ahead to that date.
    9. Settle for the next best thing: A chef’s expertise goes well beyond dinner. Does the restaurant also serve lunch? There is something wonderful about devoting an afternoon of vacation to a long boozy lunch.
    10.  Time out: Many reservation systems time out after five minutes. If the system opens at 10am and you miss it, log back on at 10:05am, as some people may have changed their minds or have run out of time.

    Admittedly, there are many great places to eat around the world, and most don’t require the advanced legwork described above. From the ones in Manhattan with white-linen tablecloths to the ones in the backstreets of Cartagena with red and white plastic ones. We all have different tastebuds, but we all want to eat where we want to eat. Yet, in the end, it’s just food, after all. Daniel, don’t you agree?

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    Head to Cape Town and try your luck reserving The Test Kitchen.

    Don’t forget the wine and the wine country of South Africa. Stellenbosch offers panoramic views and decadent restaurants.

    If a long, boozy lunch is your idea of a perfect afternoon, head to Catherine’s Café on the lovely island of Antigua.


    If you ever want to get in touch, ask a question, or discuss a way to partner, please email me at [email protected].