Category: Fab Finds

  • 5 Books About Travel (That Will Inspire Travel)

    5 Books About Travel (That Will Inspire Travel)

    A book about travel has power. A book about travel can take us to Botswana, Bolivia, or Bhutan. It’s literary escapism—an easily accessed portal to another time and place. But most of all, a book about travel, when done well, inspires travel.

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    Nancy Drew Book

    My love of books is old and runs deep. I have vivid memories of reading Nancy Drew, circa 1978, by a sliver of light seeping into my bedroom from the hallway. I’d lay on my green shag carpet by that light and read voraciously—always fearful my mom might appear and send me back to bed. 

    My taste in books has varied over the years. Thrillers and mysteries monopolize my 20s. Chick-lit and romance novels reign over my 30s. Historical and women’s fiction dominated my 40s. These days, I read to escape—to travel the world through ink on paper.

    Travel Inertia

    Inertia is defined as a tendency to do nothing or to remain unchanged. After a few years of watching mind-numbing TV (did anyone else finish Netflix?) and dodging calls from Spam Risk, even I had a case of travel inertia. I overcame it by planning a few trips, to places like Maine, the Catskills, and Corsica. 

    But travel isn’t what it used to be. Flights are increasingly delayed or canceled. Luggage is lost. Five-star service is anything but. The luster of travel is dismally dulled by current conditions.

    I wonder how best to reignite the travel spark. Perhaps I’ll go back to the basics. Books, and especially books about travel, have always transported me. They’ve fueled my wanderlust and given me the means to break away from everyday life. Even if momentarily.

    My treasured tomes, don’t fail me now.

    Coach bag

    Five Books about Travel (That Will Inspire Travel)

    Being a graphic designer for a large part of my adult life gave me a deep appreciation for Garamond, Baskerville, and Times Roman. The legends of literary fonts. I used to kern ligatures with a surgeon’s precision. I’d swoon over book jackets at Barnes and Noble, the ones with an elegant marriage of typography and imagery. My husband would joke I judged books by their covers. He was right.

    There are many books about travel that have encouraged me to pack my bags and get out of town. But these five in particular have been the most influential. Whether because they take me to a part of the world I know little about or a part of the world I’d like to revisit. 

    So, grab a Kindle. Or, if old-school like me, head to a local bookstore or library. (My DC go-to is Politics & Prose). Check out my favorite books about travel. I hope they encourage you to escape reality, one way or another. 


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    A book about travel / Morocco

    Caliph's House book

    The Caliph’s House: A Year in Casablanca, By Tahir Shah

    What’s the gist?

    English travel writer, Tahir Shah, takes a gamble to fulfill a childhood dream by moving his family from London to Casablanca. Their new home is Dar Khalifa, the Caliph’s House. It’s an unmitigated money pit located on the edge of a shantytown. 

    In his unputdownable memoir, Shah attempts the arduous task of rebuilding the Caliph’s House while simultaneously building a life in a foreign country. As he learns all too quickly, nothing in Morocco is simple, straightforward, or goes according to plan.

    For instance, renovations come to a screeching halt once Shah learns his house is filled with jinns (invisible spirits). The rituals used to rid the house of these spirits are just one flawlessly written and animated element of Shah’s outrageous black comedy. A tale of perseverance and grit that also portrays a distinct and evocative sense of place.

    Why this book about travel inspires

    On the advice of a friend, I read The Caliph’s House before our trip to Morocco. Not only did it illustrate the colors, sights, sounds, and even tastes of the country, but it also brought modern-day Morocco to life with self-deprecating and utterly candid humor. Thank you, James.

    Power Quote: “I found myself trapped in an awkward position. … I had a gangster for a neighbor, a house marooned in a shantytown with no title deeds and the weather was getting bad. And I was now being told that I should abandon the house because an invisible spirit was angry with us living there.”

    The Caliph’s House is compelling in ways well beyond jinns and gangsters. Shah’s characters, from gardeners to government officials, are multi-faceted and vibrant from page one. His writing pulls readers into a well-woven Moroccan tapestry of myths and traditions—whether describing a crooked street or a crooked carpenter. Read The Caliph’s House, or redeem some well-earned miles and go live it. Either way, Morocco will not disappoint.

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    The Caliph’s House


    A book about travel / Italy

    Beautiful Ruins Book

    Beautiful Ruins, By Jess Walter

    What’s the gist? 

    From the backlots of Hollywood to the rocky coast of Italy, Beautiful Ruins is a social satire of an almost-love affair spanning decades and continents. The book has been said to portray the real-life love affair between Elizabeth Taylor and Richard Burton after filming Cleopatra, in 1963.

    Beautiful Ruins opens with Hollywood starlet Dee Moray arriving at a quiet Italian coastal village by boat in the early 1960s. She claims to be dying of cancer. Pasquale, a young and starstruck hotel owner, falls in love. So begins a story of tortured love, masked identities, and failure. 

    Why this book about travel inspires

    Artfully written with multiple and parallel storylines, Jess Walter’s descriptions of the Italian Riviera and California are equally captivating. The pristine beaches and brightly-colored hilltop homes of the Cinque Terre come to life alongside his theatrical characters.

    Power Quote: “Porto Vergogna was a tight cluster of a dozen old whitewashed houses, an abandoned chapel, … all huddled like a herd of sleeping goats in a crease in the sheer cliffs. Behind the village, the rocks rose six hundred feet to a wall of black, striated mountains. Below it, the sea settled in a rocky, shrimp-curled cove…”

    Walter’s book is filled with brilliant depictions of romantic coastal hotels and sun-baked yachts. These movie-like scenes and scenery may inspire a journey to this ever-glamorous part of the world. With a sharp sardonic edge and a dramatic plot that builds in intensity, Walter’s novel is escapist fiction at its best.

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    Beautiful Ruins


    A book about travel / The Arctic Circle

    Memoirs of Stockholm Sven Book

    The Memoirs of Stockholm Sven, By Nathaniel Ian Miller

    What’s the gist?

    This extraordinary account of a young Swede who flees Stockholm to seek solitude in the Arctic Circle after a tragic accident leaves him disfigured. 

    Completely original in voice, with endearing, misfit characters, The Memoirs of Stockholm Sven somehow manages to describe a stark, colorless landscape in vivid color. The book weaves a tender web of human suffering and connection while illuminating the perils of living in an isolated and nearly inaccessible place.

    Why this book about travel inspires

    My friend Gretchen recommended Miller’s book before our trip to Finnish Lapland. What better way to be immersed in the vastness of the polar regions than to read a novel set in the Arctic Circle?

    From Stockholm to Svalbard, Miller’s narrative evokes the breathtaking arctic polar tundra with pitch-perfect prose. While living in remote Svalbard, Sven, despite his best efforts not to, befriends a troupe of compelling characters. A Finnish fur trapper, a Scottish geologist, a polar bear, and a devoted canine each play fundamental roles in Sven’s epic adventure. 

    Power Quote: “Tapio sat himself on a large piece of driftwood, so I did the same. A gentle swell rocked the beach iceberg bits against each other. The sun was beginning its hasty swoop to the horizon, and light passed through the ice in unruly refractions. The blue was almost more than I could take.”

    I read about Sven’s endeavors at night by a warm fire with a cup of herbal tea. I try to anticipate the 22 hours of darkness that await us each day in Finland. Miller’s descriptions of the Arctic are so convincing, that I get chilly while reading. Well done, Mr. Miller. I’m patiently waiting for your next book with a heap of woolly blankets.

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    The Memoirs of Stockholm Sven


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    A book about travel / The Amazon

    State of Wonder book

    State of Wonder, by Ann Patchett

    What’s the gist?

    Patchett’s novel, State of Wonder, is set deep in the South American Amazon. Dr. Marina Singh, a pharmacologist, finds herself traveling to Brazil to investigate the strange disappearance of a colleague.

    There, Dr. Singh travels downriver by pontoon, passing tribes that have yet to lay eyes on white people. Tribes that don’t speak a traditional language, but merely use sounds. From murder and mystique to friendship and feminism, this rollercoaster of a novel takes twists and turns as intricate and death-defying as the Amazonian jungle itself.

    Why this book about travel inspires

    At once a story of a personal pilgrimage as well as a page-turning thriller, Patchett is an artist with words. Her canvas is the verdant rainforests of Brazil. State of Wonder conjures up the raw and thrilling emotions that go along with traveling to far-flung locations and being outside of our comfort zone. Her prose ignites wanderlust in the purest sense of the word. 

    Whether describing a microscopic plant cell or a writhing anaconda, her words dive deep into the undergrowth and visually explode off the page. State of Wonder combines suspense and absorbing characters while delivering an unexpected ending.

    Power Quote: “Every drop of rain hit the ground with such force it bounced back up again, giving the earth the appearance of something boiling.”

    Lest you think I’m encouraging a trip that will have you encountering poisonous dart frogs or 8-foot snakes, it’s the sense of place that’s most evocative here. The joy of heading into unchartered territory, whether from a travel perspective, or a literary one.

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    State Of Wonder


    A book about travel / Everywhere

    Less Book

    Less, by Andrew Sean Greer

    What’s the gist?

    Failed, aging novelist, Arthur Less, accepts a series of invitations to literary events around the world to avoid the wedding of a former boyfriend. A brilliant satire that takes Arthur from a mishap in Morocco to a brush with death in Berlin, to being deserted on a desert island. 

    A reminder that what comes around goes around, this tale of human nature hilariously illustrates the perils of running away from our problems. While reading about Arthur’s escapades, I find myself laughing out loud. A lot. Fall in love with our endearing protagonist as he not only loses his luggage but his grasp on reality.

    Why this book about travel inspires

    An imaginative and absorbing tale, Greer takes the reader around the world with fresh humor, self-deprecation, and sharp wit. From the ever-busy streets of New York City, the culinary world of Japan, and the romantic rooftop hotels of Paris. Readers will revel in the details of Arthur’s visit to India, cheer for him in Germany, and despair as he becomes unhinged in Mexico.

    Power Quote: “New York is a city of eight million people, approximately seven million of whom will be furious when they hear you were in town and didn’t meet them for an expensive dinner, five million furious you didn’t visit their new baby, three million furious you didn’t see their new show, one million furious you didn’t call for sex, but only five available to meet you.”

    A touch of Jerry Seinfeld, a sliver of Carrie Bradshaw, and a handful of ‘Just Jack’. Oh, and a million laughs. Less will have you laughing out loud, too.

    Note: There’s now even more Less to love. Greer’s latest book Less is Lost, (Hey, I’m lost too!) is climbing up the bestseller lists as we speak. This time we follow Arthur and his mishaps on a road trip across America. Is there hope for Arthur after 50? I, for one, can’t wait to find out.

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    Less

    NYC with sunlight
    NYC, 2018

    A book about travel is a powerful thing

    The best books about travel are the ones that immerse me in the landscape and culture. The ones that allow me to smell the food and taste the wine. I’m in awe of writing that prepares me for a journey into unknown regions. Whether that be South America, South Dakota, or New South Wales. It’s a different way to explore the world, for sure, but still pretty satisfying.

    I no longer have to read sneakily behind my mom’s back (Mom, I bet you knew all along). I’m a grown-up now. I can read all night if I want to. Although I can’t don’t. Getting old ain’t for sissies, as my dad likes to say.

    A book about travel is powerful beyond its transporting nature. It’s how we learn about other civilizations and people. It’s how we expand our mindset and our vocabularies. Its power is right there on the page. You need only be able to stay awake long enough to absorb it.

    Safe travels.


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  • 5 Top 5 Travel Wish Lists: Where To Go Right Now

    5 Top 5 Travel Wish Lists: Where To Go Right Now

    I’m at Black Coffee, sitting on a cushy, green leather banquette—my usual spot. On my right are two well-heeled Washingtonians talking about Koks, a two-Michelin-starred restaurant in, wait for it—the Faroe Islands. I can’t contain my excitement! I know Koks–it’s on my travel wish list! How in the world do they know about Koks? I’m dying to ask. Then reconsider.

    That would be weird.

    My excitement manifests physically. It’s like I’ve had six espresso shots in as many minutes. I’m quite literally bouncing off the banquette. The women leave rather suddenly. I wonder if my bouncing has something to do with it.

    What’s the point?

    Let me back up a few hours—to 8am in my kitchen. I settle into a swivel chair with an oat milk cappuccino. I swirl, twirl, and sip while playing Worlde, Quordle, and Spelling Bee. This perky combination of caffeine and wordplay ignites my brain on even the dreariest DC mornings.

    That the outcome of these games determines my mood is an overstatement. But I’d be lying if I said the days I get Wordle-in-two doesn’t feel good. Combine that with ‘genius’ status on Spelling Bee and a winning Quordle, and it’s the trifecta of morning happiness. Sometimes I go right back to bed, exhausted from having overachieved so early in the day.

    I’ve devoted a paragraph to my New York Times-centric morning routine for good reason. ‘Geez, get to the point already!’, you’re thinking. The point is, while most mornings are uneventful and dominated by a trio of silly brainteasers, some days I overhear a pair of chatty women in a coffee shop, and my brain kicks into overdrive.

    Travel talk gives me a jolt as powerful as those six shots of espresso. It fuels me in a way that can only be described in multiple coffee-related metaphors. As illustrated by my encounter at Black Coffee, being a participant in the conversation is irrelevant.

    Travel Wish Lists

    My travel wish list has been curated from multiple trustworthy sources. Sources like Condé Nast Traveler’s ‘Gold List’, Travel+Leisure’s ‘It List’, Forbes Travel Guide’s Star Award Winners, and San Pellegrino’s ‘World’s Best List’. And increasingly more often from the most-addictive travel resource ever—Instagram. My wish list is always at hand, by which I mean is on my phone, which is always in my hand.

    ‘But, where to begin?’ My travel wish list is a lengthy, unorganized account of hotels, lodges, countries, cities, ranches, and restaurants. An inventory of adventures, experiences, and expeditions. Describing them all would far exceed my typical 2500-word count.

    I pause to think. (This pause lasts a week). My brain, only moments ago on a Quorldle high, is now creatively stuck. I’m swimming in mental cement.

    Aha! I’ll list my top five travel wish lists. Not only will it be entertaining to write, but it will also force me to organize this ongoing, unsystematic list that has been vexing me for years.

    PC: Hotel Esencia

    Wish List v. Lust List

    Years ago, I created an entry in my ‘Notes’ app called, ‘Travel Lust’. For the sake of SEO, I’m renaming it Travel Wish List. If you think the words Travel Wish List are being overused already, it’s not by accident. Anyone who’s had experience with Search Engine Optimization will understand why. And, I certainly don’t want this post to rank for ‘lust’. That’s someone else’s blog, I mean, website.

    My top five travel wish lists in five categories follow. Hotels and Resorts, Lodges and Retreats, Experiences, Countries, and Culinary Adventures. One winner and four other winners per category. There are no losers, it’s a wish list remember.

    This is going to be fun, and possibly very expensive—for all of us.


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    Esencia Hotel shore
    PC: Hotel Esencia

    My Travel Wish List: 5 / Hotels and Resorts

    Wish List Winner: Hotel Esencia, Xpu-Ha, Mexico

    Last month, a friend sent me an article about Hotel Esencia, in Mexico. After reading it, I sent it to my husband Daniel, explaining my deep need to go there. He now deeply dislikes her.

    This happens often, much to my husband’s chagrin. Many of these seemingly harmless emails turn into future three-night, non-refundable deposits. My list is longer than I have time or money to accomplish. But please, keep sending. Daniel will need to postpone retirement for a few more years. I’m sure he’s ok with that.

    Esencia Hotel
    PC: Hotel Esencia

    Esencia sky-rocketed to the top of my travel wish list. Conceptualized by a Hollywood producer and entrepreneur, the hotel’s 45 rooms and suites, and three uber-sophisticated villas were once the private hideaway of Italian duchess, Rosa de Ferrari. Lucky duchess.

    Quiet, unassuming, and refined luxury abounds. Located between Tulum and Cancún, Esencia’s home-away-from-home vibe is intentional (that is, if your home is beachside, flanked by jungles, and includes sea turtle nesting grounds).

    Morning treats are delivered to rooms through secret cubby holes. That’s pretty irresistible. I imagine enjoying warm brioches and flaky croissants while lounging in my pjs. The bold, bright tropical decor adds to the hotel’s glamour. It reminds me of Mondrian, the Dutch painter who rejected perceived reality and stripped form down to its most basic elements. Esencia’s palette is a refreshing change from most Mexican resorts which rely heavily on traditional colors and rustic furnishings.

    The yoga loft is insta-perfect, with ecru, crocheted hammocks hanging below an open-air wooden platform. My savasana would surely last hours, which would put me at risk of missing afternoon cocktails. I’d best leave the chaturangas to Daniel.

    Esencia Hotel aerial
    PC: Hotel Esencia
    USP (Unique Selling Point):

    Esencia’s two-story, Rooftop Wellness Suite is the ultimate in modern Mayan jungle luxury. With a full-sized pool, multiple terraces, and a private fitness studio (including a Peloton bike and The Mirror), I see no compelling reason to leave it. As an aside, I see no compelling reason for a private fitness studio, either. I’m on holiday. I’ll punish myself with The Mirror when I get home, thank you.

    This premiere suite acts as a ‘hotel within a hotel’ at this sweeping 50-acre estate. So, if you’d like to go on a resort holiday without having to see another soul, Hotel Esencia is the place for you. It’s most definitely the place for me.

    PC: Hotel Esencia

    Note: August 26, 2022. As I place the finishing touches on this post, Forbes Travel Guide has just announced today that Hotel Esencia earned its coveted five-star award for 2022. Well deserved Esencia, but now I’ll never be able to get a reservation. (See how I’m able to be both topical and tropical at the same time here?)

    Four other winners:

    Post Ranch Inn, Big Sur, California

    Hacienda AltaGracia, Costa Rica

    San Domenico Palace, Taormina, Italy

    One&Only Moonlight Basin, Montana (Opening 2024)

    Why did these make the list?

    Each of these hotels and brands is not only top of its class in terms of service and accommodations but also takes style and artistry to innovative levels.

    Swoon over the organic architecture and natural coastal beauty at Post Ranch Inn. Spot the elusive Quetzal in Costa Rica at Hacienda AltaGracia. Prepare to get lost in the Montana wilderness, at One&Only’s first US-based resort. The Four Seasons’ San Domenico Palace in Italy is a restored 14th-century convent with views of Mount Etna. Enough said.

    Click the links at your own risk. Yes, they are expensive. Whoever said, ‘you can’t take it with you,’ is my soul mate.

    Islas Secas overview
    PC: Islas Secas

    My Travel Wish List: 4 / Lodges and Retreats

    Wish List Winner: Islas Secas, Panama

    I’m reluctant to write about Islas Secas. I don’t want you to know about it. Yes, that’s how selfish I am. That I’d rather not write about a hot, new destination for fear that you get there before I do is indefensible.

    I’d like to go to Panama before every else has it on their radar. Ten years ago we told friends we were headed to Costa Rica. We may as well have said we were taking the kids to North Korea on a beach holiday. Look at Costa Rica now—the epicenter of spring break family travel.

    As is evident by its name, Islas Secas is an island. An archipelago, to be more clear, comprised of 14 volcanic islands off the Pacific coast of the country. With iconographic names like Isla Barracuda, Isla Iguana, and Isla Coco, I imagine days snorkeling beside shiny, snake-like fish, photographing colorful reptiles, and drinking from oversized coconuts. Over-caffeinated yet again, my imagination runs wild.

    Panamanian design is everywhere; light, breezy tactile fabrics, plantation shutters, and thatched rooftops. The four-bedroom Casita Grande looks especially captivating. I daydream about a milestone birthday there. It could be mine, a friend’s, or a neighbor’s. I’m not going to be picky.

    Islas Secas
    PC: Islas Secas
    USP:

    The website affirms Islas Secas’ devotion to sustainable and nature-driven tourism. It tempts me with stats like 750 species of fish, 80 species of birds, and humpback whale-watching.

    When I read the website, I almost can’t bear it. I bounce again, the universal sign for overexcitement.

    I think you should go. And I think you should take me with you.

    Four other winners:

    Taylor River Lodge, Colorado

    Bishop’s Lodge, Santa Fe, New Mexico

    Kachi Lodge, Bolivia

    Mashpi Lodge, Ecuador

    Why did these make the list?

    It’s a secret to no one who keeps up with luxury and adventure retreats that these four make the list. Known for tailor-made, one-of-a-kind experiences, Eleven Experience owns 13 remote properties around the world. Its Colorado-based Taylor River Lodge was once a local fishing and tackle shop before it became an off-the-grid, eight-cabin river retreat.

    Auberge-owned Bishop’s Lodge in Santa Fe embraces the rich mountain colors of New Mexico’s Sangre de Cristo range. Each room, with woven Navajo rugs and textiles, is a sanctuary unto its own.

    Kachi or Mashpi? Both/and, please. This duo of South American lodges is equally breathtaking. Mashpi Lodge is set deep in the Chocó-Andean Cloud Forest. No, I didn’t make that up. Conversely, Kachi Lodge sits at the foot of the Tunupa Volcano, and atop Bolivia’s famed Uyuni Salt Flats. Cloud Forest or Salt Flat? How to choose? I’ll repeat. Both/and.


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    Tortoise
    PC: Pikaia Lodge

    My Travel Wish List: 3 / Travel Experiences

    Wish List Winner: Explore the Galápagos Islands via Pikaia Lodge

    I must have a thing for archipelagos because here I am adding yet another to my list. Archipelagos are obviously all the rage.

    Pikaia Lodge scenery
    PC: Pikaia Lodge

    One thousand kilometers off of the Ecuadorian coast lies 19 islands of marine wonders—the Galápagos Islands. They are often referred to as a ‘unique living museum of evolution’. If that isn’t a tantalizing travel soundbite, I don’t know what is.

    That the Galápagos Islands’ wildlife lacks natural predators is pretty well-known. This is partly due to the islands’ volcanic origin and extreme remoteness. I’d love to swim with sea lions, dolphins, and giant tortoises. I want to admire exotic birds and uncover species that don’t exist anywhere else in the world. The animals are approachable and tame (and I hear they love the camera). Sign me up.

    USP:

    Pikaia Lodge’s prime access to this extraordinary part of the world is why it pairs so organically with a Galápagos Island adventure. Pikaia Lodge is a luxury eco-adventure property with cutting-edge architecture and a strong environmentally conscious mindset. Its 14 rooms sit 450 meters above sea level on the edge of an extinct volcano. I’ve always wanted to stay on the edge of an extinct volcano, (rather than an active one), naturally.

    Pikaia Lodge
    PC: Pikaia Lodge

    Pikaia Lodge is entirely carbon-neutral and is made up of stone, lava, glass, and steel. This striking architectural combination doesn’t attempt to steal the limelight from the landscape. It looms high over Santa Cruz Island as if it too is leisurely observing the wonders of the Galápagos.

    Pikaia Lodge exterior
    PC: Pikaia Lodge
    Four other winners:

    Hike Acadia National Park, Maine

    Vineyard stay in Bordeaux

    Photography Safari in Namibia

    Polar Expedition to Antarctica

    Why did these make the list?

    Hiking at Acadia National Park complements my passion for photographing panoramic views. A vineyard stay in Bordeaux embraces my obsession with cabernets, berets, and soufflés. (I don’t actually like berets, but I’ll do anything for cadence). My love of wildlife would be taken to extremes in Antarctica and Africa.

    Narrowing down my top five travel experiences is a challenge. Each time I think I have a final list, another idea emerges. It’s like whack-a-mole in my head. That these five experiences align with my favorite activities is no surprise. What is a surprise is how well these wish lists are acting as birthday, anniversary, and Christmas gift lists, too! I’m nothing if not efficient.

    sheep
    PC: Dylan Shaw, Unsplash

    My Travel Wish List: 2 / Countries

    Wish List Winner: The Faroe Islands

    Do you know where the Faroe Islands are? Despite my current obsession with this self-governing nation, I didn’t know exactly where they were either. I’ve since learned this archipelago of 18 mountainous islands (yes, another archipelago!) is located halfway between Scotland and Iceland and is named after sheep. I love sheep! Now, I want to go there more than ever.

    Faroe Waterfall
    PC: Marc Zimmer, Unsplash

    Turf-roofed houses are nurtured by the year-round rainy climate. Even your year-round rain isn’t enough to deter me, Faroe Islands. And I hate getting wet.

    Faroe horses
    PC: Lynn Fae, Unsplash

    The hamlets of the Faroe Islands are the stuff of fairy tales. Frodo would feel at home in the shire-like countryside. Lakes, lagoons, and lighthouses are all virtually untouched by tourism. At least for the moment. That I’d like to get there before everyone else reinforces just how selfish I am.

    Four other winners:

    Panama

    Bolivia

    Ecuador

    Namibia

    Why did these make the list?

    If you’ve read this far, it’s clear why these countries round out this travel wish list. They each have resorts, hotels, retreats, or experiences I would love to visit or do one day. They are also countries not quite on the mainstream travel radar.

    Koks exterior
    PC: Beinta á Torskilsheyggi

    My Travel Wish List: 1 / Culinary Adventures

    Wish List Winner: Koks, The Faroe Islands

    What a coincidence! If you believe in coincidences, that is. The restaurant at the top of my culinary wish list is located at the top of my country wish list—the Faroe Islands. A visit there would be a travel wish list twofer. I wonder if I’ve lost Daniel by now?

    Chef Poul Andrias Ziska is the culinary creator-in-chief behind Koks (which since my morning at Black Coffee, I learn has been temporarily relocated to Greenland). That’s ok, I’m in no rush. That he uses mainly Faroese ingredients in his Michelin-starred dishes compels me to open up another tab and find out exactly what those ingredients are.

    Koks dish
    PC: Claes Bech-Poulsen

    Being a set of islands should be a significant clue. However, beyond fish and seafood, the Faroese diet consists of organic lamb, fermented meat, and root vegetables like kohlrabi, turnips, and rhubarb. I wonder if the two ladies at Black Coffee are aware of this?

    Koks is known as the ‘world’s most remote foodie destination.’ Its imaginative dishes follow the seasons and its architecture follows the traditional Nordic style. I will follow Koks anywhere, even to Greenland, if I have to.

    Four other winners:

    Single Thread, Healdsburg, California

    The Three Chimneys, Isle of Skye, Scotland

    Restaurant La Chassagnette, Provence, France

    été, Tokyo

    Why did these make the list?

    Dine in the gardens of Arles-based, Michelin-starred La Chassagnette or at farm-inspired micro-seasonal Single Thread in Healdsburg, California. Their spectacular settings match their equally spectacular culinary offerings.

    With no sign and one table, Restaurant été, run by female chef Natsuko Shoji, is one of the most coveted reservations in Tokyo. Her French-Japanese-inspired menu is considered flawless, as is her sense of style and design.

    Finally, Three Chimneys marks yet another impossible-to-reach-but-worth-the-effort restaurant. It’s hidden on the dramatic shores of Loch Dunvegan on the Isle of Skye. The Nordic-Scottish epicurean experience can only be topped with a night’s stay at adjoining House-Over-By. Those Scots are nothing if not literal.


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    Aspiration v. inspiration

    On the surface, these lists seem superficial. ‘I want to go here. Eat there. Do this.’ I dig deeper into the ‘why’ and notice it’s the experiences I crave. Would I like those experiences to be in or near lovely places, at nice hotels, and with extraordinary food? Why, yes I would

    There are many ways to experience cultures, countries, and food. Less expensive ways and more authentic ways, no doubt. This is my wish list so I get to choose the way I want to explore the world. You get to choose yours.

    My lists are both aspirational and inspirational. Reading about them makes me happy. Sharing them with you makes me happier (earlier selfishness aside). Going to them would make me ecstatic.

    Go big or stay home

    My daily life in Washington DC revolves around a one-mile radius. I go to Black Coffee for golden lattes, Millie’s for overpriced salads, CVS to channel inner patience, and Battery Kemble Park to walk my labs. I like my routine, it centers me.

    Sometimes inspiration strikes, whether by eavesdropping at Safeway or reading the Sunday Style section of the New York Times. I write lists. Sometimes those lists lead to trips where I leave my DC bubble and discover a far-flung corner of the globe. Sometimes they gather dust up there on the cloud.

    But, the days I get Wordle-in-two? Watch out world, anything can happen.


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    Author’s Note: I am grateful to the hotels, resorts, restaurants, and lodges who kindly gave me high-res photos for use in this post. I’m also using Unsplash for the first time, and praise the photographers who are giving away their gorgeous photos for free. Typically, I only feature my own photos. But alas, if I had my own pictures of these stunning places, they wouldn’t be on my wish list.


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  • 5 Luxury Hotel Products Worth Bringing Home

    5 Luxury Hotel Products Worth Bringing Home

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    Did you know that a whopping $100 million dollars worth of luxury products are stolen from hotels each year?

    You’d be surprised by what disappears. Or, maybe you wouldn’t be. 

    Hotel toiletries, pens, and notepads are free, aren’t they? But where does complimentary end and grand larceny begin? Guests have been known to take robes, towels, pillows, bedding, artwork, silverware, and mattresses. Yes, even mattresses number among the many luxury hotel products guests try to sneak past the front desk at checkout each year. 

    Exterior of Amangani

    Occasionally, I’ve found items in hotel rooms I’d like to steal, I mean, take home. Luxury hotel products that have been curated by a designer with my identical sense of style and hygge. Things I covet from the moment I see them, touch them, or smell them. 

    So what’s the protocol on ‘included’ items versus the ones that will send you on an all-inclusive stay at Rikers? I’d like to see the manual, please. 

    Post-Pandemic Pampering

    Luxury hotel products I crave usually fall into the creature comfort category. Linens, bath soaps, blankets, and candles are examples of items I’d love to stuff into my carry-on at the end of a trip. The desire to replicate the hotel room’s scent and ambiance in my own home is tempting.

    Let’s flip the narrative. What if the luxury hotel products we’d like to take, we instead decide to track down and buy? More aspirational. Less illegal. Isn’t the reason these irresistible products are on display is so that we become future clients? That’s my rationale. It’s all a part of a master branding and marketing plan, which I fall for every time.

    My Top Five Luxury Hotel Products

    Read on for five luxury hotel products I’ve fallen in love with and eventually purchased. Ones I’ve googled, ordered, and found waiting at my doorstep before our plane touched down at Dulles. Need a little post-pandemic pampering? Which little hotel luxuries will you fall for?

    And how, exactly, does one steal a mattress?

    Sferra blanket

    5/Sferra blankets, Amangiri

    Sferra, in brief: In 1891, Italian-born Gennaro Sferra took a steamer across the Atlantic for a stab at the American Dream. His company sold exquisite lace, cuffs, and collars to the East Coast elite and socialites. Today, Sferra is a celebrated brand of luxury textiles, with products ranging from super-fine Merino wool throws to rare Egyptian cotton bedding.

    Sferra maintains its linens were the in-flight bedding for Pope John Paul II. And says its fabrics topped the tables of Reagan-era state dinners. While I don’t have enough status on United to warrant custom bedding, Sferra linens can at least grace my dining room table at Thanksgiving.

    Amangiri pool

    Props to the source: I discovered Sferra at Amangiri, a boutique hotel located in the Escalante National Monument foothills of southern Utah. Aman resorts have a knack for creating rooms so enticing that we never want to leave them. They simultaneously offer one-of-a-kind excursions that make us constantly yearn for the outdoors. A champagne problem, indeed.

    Our suite, a study in desert neutrals, had uninterrupted views of caramel-colored dunes, mountains, and scenic plateaus. Upon entering, a pop of bright orange caught my eye. A Sferra throw, (aptly named Paprika, I’d later discover), was draped across the sofa. 

    Amangiri Mesa Suite

    Paprika became my new BFF. I wrapped it around me each evening while searching for shooting stars. I swaddled myself in it while reading the latest Kristin Hannah bestseller. My husband felt replaced. Did I want to stuff Paprika into my roller bag? Absolutely. But I didn’t. Sourcing Sferra was only a click away.

    And who wants to get blacklisted from Aman? Not me.

    Sferra blanket

    Why I love Sferra: The combination of hues, textures, weights, and patterns of Sferra blankets and throws is dizzying. With seductive, nature-inspired colors like Silver Sage, Slate, Lilac, and Lake, try to buy just one. I couldn’t.

    We now have Sferra throws (Merlot, Mushroom, and Moss among them) piled strategically throughout the house. A luxury hotel product that speaks to my homebody nature and keeps me toasty on cool DC nights. And of course, I have my very own Paprika.

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    Aesop

    4/Aesop Toiletries, Dunton Hot Springs

    Aesop, in brief: Headquartered in sunny Melbourne, Australia, Aesop has been in business since 1987. How this blissful brand escaped me my entire adult life is a question I can’t answer.

    Aesop says their objective is ‘to formulate skin, hair, and body care products of the finest quality.’ Not an incredibly unique objective, frankly. It’s possible Aesop is spending its budget on ingredients rather than PR. Thankfully Aesop products require no explanation. If you haven’t tried the Geranium Leaf Body Cleanser, open up another tab and get an order going.

    Props to the source: Dunton Hot Springs, a property with fourteen log cabins set in the San Juan Mountains of Colorado is where I first found Aesop. Its vast 1500 acres are flanked by majestic mountains, cool waterfalls, and the serpentine Dolores River. A natural playground for the multitude of activities it offers.

    Potter House

    Our family stayed at the Potter House, set at the top of the property overlooking a pond filled with busy beavers. The bathroom had full-sized 16.9 fl oz Aesop products, rather than impossible-to-open, single-use ones. Dunton’s trust in its guests was implicit.

    With my newfound hotel-thieving insights, I can’t help but wonder how many bottles are taken each year. Perhaps they don’t mind or don’t know. Most likely, I paid for them one way or another.

    Why I love Aesop: The scents, naturally. Take your pick: citrus, woody, herbaceous, earthy, smoky, or spicy. The Geranium Leaf scent still takes me back to our spectacular week at Dunton Hot Springs. The simple and bold, typography-driven designed labels speak to the graphic designer in me. And not for nothing, they also look really good on the shower ledge.

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    Knife set

    3/New West KnifeWorks, Amangani

    New West KnifeWorks, in brief: Corey Milligan, the founder of New West KnifeWorks, runs his company from oh-so-picturesque Jackson Hole, Wyoming. Corey says his passion for creating fine cutlery is matched by his love of food and aims to bring joy to the chore of cooking. I’m definitely in need of that, Corey.

    That said, Corey’s knives can be found in the homes of everyday cooks as well as professional ones. Nancy Silverton, of LA’s Osteria Mozza fame, wields Corey’s critically-acclaimed knives. But you certainly don’t have to be a James Beard Award winner to own one.

    Exterior pool views

    Props to the source: The first time I noticed New West’s knives was while visiting Amangani. If the colorful cutlery had somehow eluded me there, I would’ve certainly spotted it when dining at the nearby restaurant, Snake River Grill. This might not be a typical luxury hotel product to desire, but then again, Amangani is far from typical.

    Amangani is a low-profile and high-impact property perched upon a hilltop just outside of town. With illustrative snow-capped mountain views and green pastures of cows below, Amangani’s vibe is modern rustic lodge-chic. A worthwhile destination in Jackson no matter what the season.

    Why I love New West KnifeWorks: Created with American-made steel, New West knives are strong and razor-sharp (certainly a must-have for a knife company). But, the USP (unique selling point) is its extraordinary and whimsical beauty.

    Each G-Fusion steak knife is an individual work of art, designed with glass-woven fabric and epoxy resin. To me, that’s just a technical way of saying they are incredibly cool. Less technical are their illustrative and fanciful names: Peacock, Sunburst, Cadet, Lichen, and Huckleberry. A luxury hotel product that’s both beautiful and functional? I’m all in.

    Our New West knives always remind me of tackling the Tetons, Amangani, and dinner at Snake River. And when I grill a steak at home, I always choose Sunburst. 


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    green o bed

    2/The Citizenry Sheets, the green o

    The Citizenry, in brief: Established with the concept of celebrating the people behind their products, The Citizenry believes ‘homes should be reflections of the journeys we take.’ My beliefs exactly, The Citizenry! They partner with artisans across the globe to produce bedding, blankets, and home accessories that mirror that philosophy.

    College friends Rachel Bentley and Carly Nance co-founded The Citizenry in 2014, inspired by objects and materials they discovered while traveling the world together. Ghana, Guatemala, Mali, and Morocco are just a few of the places where they found artisans to create their home goods.

    I feel like Rachel and Carly should be my friends, too. I wonder where they are going next, and if they’d let me join.

    Night haus

    Props to the source: Five minutes after falling into the ultra-cushy bed at the newly opened green o, in Montana, my husband bolted upright, and snapped on the bedside lamp. ‘We have to get these sheets!’, he exclaimed. For those who know Daniel, exclaiming is unusual. Of all the things I could’ve predicted to come out of his mouth at that moment, this would’ve been the last one. Since when did Daniel notice the thread count?

    In fact, our tree haus at the green o was filled with items worth lusting after. Cozy blankets so dense I lost my glasses in them. Lush, waffled bathrobes and towels, and a modern desk lamp. This combination of highly-curated objects created a laid-back oasis. I wanted to steal, take, bring home every little luxury product in the haus. But mostly, I wanted the bedding.

    Why I love The Citizenry: I may not have known what french flax linen was then, but I knew I wanted it. The website says the bedding is woven in the oldest, family-run linen mill in Portugal which in itself is a good enough reason to buy it.

    The Citizenry sheets and bedding are stonewashed which makes the textured linen softer with each wash. The overall look is disheveled-chic, and ever-so-slightly wrinkled to make our bed even more enticing. If it was hard to get up in the mornings before we had The Citizenry bedding, it’s nearly impossible now.

    It’s Daniel’s fault, as I remind him every morning.


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    Bar view

    1/Pretentious Glassware, Blackberry Mountain

    Pretentious Glass, in brief: Matthew Cummings is the owner, founder, and glassblower-in-chief of Pretentious Glass. Mr. Cummings spent years cultivating a relationship with Blackberry Mountain, a wellness retreat nestled in the Smoky Mountains of Tennessee not far from his studio in Knoxville. A fine art sculptor turned commercial artist, Cummings’ creations in glass are a modern, festive, take on classic styles.

    Props to the source: On our three-day girl’s trip to Blackberry Mountain, we spent much of our time hiking, sound bathing, and eating. But we also spent much of our time ‘rehydrating’. The Firetower bar, at the peak of the property, was a great place to settle with a cocktail and a glass of wine. I would soon learn that all of the glassware at Blackberry Mountain was created by Pretentious Glass.

    decanter

    Why I love Pretentious Glass: At dinner, I fell in love with our decanter’s fanciful design. I swore it made our cabernet taste bolder, which then made the food taste better, and our night even funner. (Yes, I know funner isn’t a word, but it should be).

    I tried to buy one on the spot to no avail. In fact, they aren’t for sale even on Matthew’s website. I’m still trying to get my hands on one to this day. I don’t give up easily, Matthew. Be warned.

    In the meantime, I’m content to purchase other hand-blown glassware from Pretentious Glass. For Father’s Day, I bought Daniel four Subtle Beer Glasses. The designs are truly extraordinary, sculpted to fit his hand like a well-worn baseball mitt. I wish I liked beer just to have an excuse to use one.

    Beer glasses

    Stealing Time, among other things

    Ever curious about what the rules are when it comes to what’s included in a hotel stay, I dug deeper. I’m a rule follower. I get nervous when I color outside of the lines. If a bathroom is for customers only, I become a customer. I’m not sure where this annoying moral compass comes from but will make a note to take a deep dive with my therapist next Thursday.

    While in some cases, it’s a blurry line, others are razor sharp. Maybe it depends on one’s perspective. Pens, toiletries, and notepads all seem legit. Take a robe, towel, or duvet and you may get charged for it eventually. Walking out with artwork and furniture seems downright illegal.

    But hey, that might just be me.

    Here’s a list of the most commonly stolen luxury hotel room items:

    Alarm clocks
    Hangers
    Pens 
    Artwork 
    Silverware
    Lamps
    Lightbulbs
    Robes
    Towels
    Batteries
    Pillows

    And for those still wondering how to steal a mattress? Apparently, your best bet is to sneak it out in the middle of the night and hope there’s a sleepy bellman on duty. Happy travels!


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  • How I Beat Jet Lag In 5 Simple Steps

    How I Beat Jet Lag In 5 Simple Steps

    Want to beat jet lag? Anyone who has experienced jet lag first-hand knows how quickly it can take the buzz off of a holiday. The Mayo Clinic defines jet lag as a ‘temporary sleep problem that can affect anyone who quickly travels across multiple time zones.’ After years of battling, I just may have cracked the jet lag code—at least for my family.

    Welcome back to ‘Found’. A series of practical posts about how I do things, travel-wise. 


    Me with phone
    PC: Ella Edwards, flying over Finland

    It’s January 2nd, and I’m 38,000 feet in the air. 600 miles into a 3,662-mile trip. Six hours and 26 minutes to go. The Flight Path display is taunting me with its low-tech smugness. That little white plane appears to be stuck over the Atlantic Ocean. I have lots of time on my hands.

    Flight Path Display

    Holiday Madness

    We are on our way back to Washington DC after having spent the holidays in the UK and Finland. We started our journey yesterday from dark, snowy Kittilä in northern Finland, then overnighted in dark, snowy Helsinki. A 5am alarm woke us for a flight we nearly missed due to COVID-testing hassles, lengthy and disorganized security lines, and overall holiday madness.

    View from window over Finland
    Kittilä to Helsinki

    Our layover in London has us racing from Terminal 3 to Terminal 5. For anyone not familiar with Heathrow Airport, those two terminals are so far away from each other that they require passengers to exit the airport and take a bus transfer on real roads!

    At last, I sink into seat 35A, British Airways flight 217, and take a deep breath. We made it. I’m about to order a drink to celebrate but remember that I’m having a dry January. Ugh, is it January? Instead, I think about what awaits me at home. 1. Pick up dogs. 2. Food shop. 3. Unpack. 4. Laundry. 5. Laundry. 6. Laundry. 7. Jet lag.

    View from window over Iceland
    Iceland to DC

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    Ugh. Jet Lag.

    If there’s anything I’ve learned from years of travel, many spent with small kids in tow, it’s tricks to beating jet lag. If you already have successful tactics in place, no need to read further. But perhaps I have something new to add to your process? Maybe you have a tip or two I can add to mine?

    So how do I beat the inevitable jet lag that threatens to derail my exciting days of laundry ahead?

    Read on for five steps I use to beat jet lag, as well as some useful tips when traveling with kids. If jet lag were a person, it would be my teenage daughter; irritating, unpredictable, exhausting, and every so often, a total joy.

    View from window over St Maarten
    Above St Maarten

    Beat jet lag. The step-by-step process.

    I certainly haven’t reinvented any wheels here, as many of these tactics are common sense. But this process works for us. Fair warning, it’s a Draconian approach. The key to beating jet lag is following these five steps in order, not picking and choosing one or two.

    Words, like AVOID and RESIST, will pop up often. As will prompts for you to sleep or stay awake when your body firmly disagrees with that decision. As my friends and family know, I treasure my circadian rhythms and am not happy when they are disrupted. Hence the attention to details that might otherwise seem unimportant.

    View from window over Munich
    Flying over Munich

    Beat Jet Lag. Step 1:

    Set all clocks to the time at your destination.

    As many globe-trotting travelers already know, this is the crux of beating jet lag. I convince my mind that it is a different time than it thinks it is. Trick the mind and the body will follow. Don’t quote me on this, I’m not a doctor. It does take practice, however. Here are some tips to help. 

    Tip A: Change the time zone on your phone before taking off. How many times have I settled uncomfortably into my narrow middle seat to play music and been confronted with my iPhone home screen displaying the ‘wrong’ time? Too many.

    It’s just like that scene in Somewhere in Time with Christopher Reeve and Jane Seymour. Remember that 80s film? The part where Reeve finds a modern-day coin in his pocket and is dramatically pulled back to real-time from 1912, and away from the love of his life? Ok, you don’t know that movie? Trust me, it’s a tear-jerker.

    View from window over St Barths
    Approaching St Barths

    Tip B: Don’t look at the plane clock. Ever. I mean it. Flight Path is your enemy—avoid it at all costs. 

    Tip C: Never refer to the time at your place of origin in order to make a point. Resist encouraging your kids to eat by saying, “At home, it’s dinner time.” Or, to get to sleep by pointing out, “It’s really the middle of the night right now.” The faster you trick your brain the better. Trick your kids’ brains while you’re at it. Well, try to.

    As an aside, I’m writing about legitimate jet lag here. EST to PST barely counts. Daylight savings doesn’t count at all. Unless you are under two years old. Or a dog.

    Buenos Aires overview

    Beat Jet Lag. Step 2:

    For overnight flights, eat dinner before boarding.

    Or, as soon as possible. Whether you’re on a 6pm or 10pm flight, eat first so that you can go to bed the moment the wheels are up. Sleep experts like me can doze off well before take-off, but that takes practice. Don’t overdo the liquid intake. You’ll thank me later.

    Tip: Many sources tell travelers to avoid alcohol to help beat jet lag. This may be true, but until today I’ve yet to attempt it. Damn you, dry January. Have you ever taken a 12+ hour flight with toddlers? I rest my case. Alcohol wins.

    View from window over Athens
    Athens

    If you are on a daytime flight, stay true-ish to your daytime routine. I’m not implying you’re a couch potato but binge-watch even more TV. Ted Lasso, the Jimmy Chin documentary, or re-runs of Law & Order. There are at least ten episodes of Arrested Development on most long-haul flights. Watch them all. Anyone who doesn’t like that show is not my people. Eat, take a nap, read a book, repeat. Do not look at a clock! Stay mainly awake. Skip to Step Four.

    Tip: Use caffeine as needed. It’s your new BFF.

    View from window over St Lucia
    Approaching St Lucia

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    Beat Jet Lag. Step 3: 

    Go to sleep. 

    But first, pee. You don’t think you have to pee? You do. Then settle in. My carry-on always has an easy-to-access sleep kit. That’s an embarrassing thing to admit, but it’s for the greater good, I suppose. 

    My sleep kit includes the following items: an eye mask, earplugs, socks, hand sanitizer, melatonin, and lip balm. I also now own a neck pillow, having spent much of my life ridiculing people who use them. If no blankets are provided, and these days that is typical, I keep a light jacket or a sweater on hand. I always get cold on flights, even when flying to warm-weather destinations. In fact, especially when flying to warm-weather destinations. 

    Don’t say, “But I don’t go to bed at 630pm”. Don’t even think it.

    View from window over Dolomites
    Passing over the Italian Dolomites

    Tip: If you take a sleeping pill or herbal supplements, like Ambien or Melatonin, wait until wheels up. I can’t stress this enough. No one wants to be heavily sedated when switching planes due to mechanical failure. Take it from someone who’s been there.

    Be sure to stay asleep when it kicks in. Resist the urge to watch another episode of Arrested Development. Someone I know once took a sleeping pill and decided to wake up for dinner. She may or may not have poured a glass of white wine into her lap, spoiled the ending of her husband’s thriller, and then proceeded to walk the aisles with a pink eye mask on her head and an ill-placed wine stain.

    View from window over Botswana
    Botswana to DC

    Beat Jet Lag. Step 4: 

    Wake up and have breakfast.

    We all know it’s the middle of the night when those perky flight attendants come around with their cart of coffee, OJ, and breakfast sandwiches. Pretend it isn’t. 

    Tip: Those who are really forward-thinking might pre-pack a sesame bagel and cream cheese or yogurt parfait for this step. I don’t, but I should. Plane dinners are pretty awful. Plane breakfasts make plane dinners look like Michelin-starred meals.

    View from window over Tetons
    Jackson, Wyoming

    Beat Jet Lag. Step 5: 

    Stay the course.

    It’s all too easy to get home, or to the hotel and fall into a dead sleep, regardless of how many hours were spent sleeping on the plane. Plane sleep is restless sleep. Carts bang, kids scream, lights flash, and the PA system tortures us at unfathomable decibel levels and at the worst possible moments. 

    When the flight attendants have finally finished their diatribe on how to use a seatbelt (still?), oxygen mask placement, and the protocol for the ‘unlikely event of a water landing’, I breathe a sigh of relief. Then they start up again—in Mandarin.

    Prepare to stay awake until a ‘normal’ bedtime. Normal-ish at least, give or take an hour. This will help realign those circadian rhythms in the days ahead. When kids are involved, there are a few tactics that have worked well for us.

    View from window over Baja
    Baja to DC

    Tip A: If your destination has a swimming pool or a beach nearby, use it as a tool to stimulate. Cool water will invigorate the senses, and help prolong sleep. No pool? A bathtub will do. Stick to your destination’s meal schedule as much as possible.

    Tip B: Stand your ground on the kids’ bedtime. Explain that while they might not feel sleepy that it’s still time to go to bed. Encourage them to lay in bed with their eyes closed and not worry about falling asleep. This certainly didn’t sit well with our kids right away and took many trips to truly enforce. But eventually, they got it. It’s the very technique I use, too.

    View from window over Uganda
    Uganda to DC

    Someone out there is sneering right now in disbelief. They are saying, ‘My kids, are too young to do that.’ They aren’t. It won’t go smoothly though. It’s all about long-term training to really beat jet lag. It takes time.

    Don’t worry if the kids don’t or can’t adapt to the plane schedule. Getting them reasonably close will still help. Our daughter used to fall asleep the minute the landing gear was deployed on every long-haul trip. Her eyes would be wide open for 11.5 hours of a 12-hour flight. She would then fall into a slumber so deep a rocket launch couldn’t rouse her. Good times.

    Repeat. Repeat. And Repeat.

    This might not be documented anywhere, but I believe there is muscle memory in regards to beating jet lag. I say this because in all the years we’ve traveled back and forth to Asia, and to the UK, we increasingly got better at coping with it. There have been trips where we have virtually not jet-lagged at all. Sometimes the pure excitement of reaching our destination will keep severe jet lag at bay.

    One of my closest friends in Tokyo was also our next-door neighbor. Let’s call her Margaret. (Actually, Margaret is her real name, but I doubt she reads my posts so all good.) Margaret and her family would return to Tokyo from New York and allow jet lag to take its natural course. 

    We could hear her kids at night, as our bedroom wall aligned with their living room wall. Japanese-dubbed Dora The Explorer would be playing on an endless loop, her kids singing along wide-eyed and bushy-tailed like it was 2pm, not 2am. It took them weeks to beat jet lag, shaving off an hour each day, max. We hardly saw them. That Dora song is still in my head.

    View from window over DC
    Washington DC

    To Beat Jet Lag, Just Follow the Rules

    I’m now 6.5 hours into my 8-hour flight. I haven’t napped, read, or watched Arrested Development. I’ve been staring at Flight Path for three hours, and I’m pretty convinced the plane icon is stuck over Newfoundland. The man next to me is sound asleep and I can’t get past him to use the restroom. I haven’t followed any of my own rules. Writing about beating jet lag may not be the best way to go about beating jet lag. 

    But, if this article helps even one person cope, I’ll go to bed happy. If I can sleep, that is.

    Maybe I’ll order a drink. Wait, it’s still January. Ugh.


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  • How I got a reservation at Eleven Madison Park—the best restaurant in the world. (And how you can, too).

    How I got a reservation at Eleven Madison Park—the best restaurant in the world. (And how you can, too).

    A dinner reservation at Eleven Madison Park is coveted. Places like Eleven Madison Park are re-imagining their place in the new culinary landscape. The most inspiring example of this comes from Daniel Humm. Mr. Humm is the chef and owner of three Michelin-starred, Eleven Madison Park. I listened to his podcast with Guy Raz and was humbled. Eleven Madison Park has surprised the restaurant industry by creating completely plant-based menus. I only hope I can get in.


    My husband, Daniel, doesn’t understand why I would write about how I got a dinner reservation at Eleven Madison Park. He doesn’t think anyone will read it.

    Maybe, he’s right.

    For the Love of Food

    I’m banking on the fact that there are people out there, like me, who want to eat their way through a city, or a country. People who want to discover a region’s local delicacies or experience flavors and spices that aren’t readily used in their own cooking. People who would give their pinky toe for a reservation at Eleven Madison Park.

    While it may seem that if a person is intelligent enough to follow the directions on a restaurant’s website, regardless of the restaurant’s popularity, a reservation would naturally follow. Well, it doesn’t. Not always.

    Online platforms like Open Table, Tock, and Resy, have certainly helped the foodies of the world book great tables around the globe. Reservations at Eleven Madison Park, for example. However, there are tricks, hacks, strategies, and (dare I say) skills involved in the process.

    I have been known to book a holiday around a particular restaurant, securing the table long before the flights or hotel. I scour the San Pellegrino list of the World’s 50 Best Restaurants prior to committing to a country to visit. It may sound extreme, but as it turns out, I’m not alone. The New York Times recently wrote an article about a trend called ‘destination dining’. The article highlighted people who created entire itineraries around the reservation at a particular restaurant. Those who live to eat, rather than eat to live. My people.

    Restaurant HRiSHi tasting menu

    Worshipping San Pellegrino

    Year to year, the San Pellegrino World’s 50 Best List ebbs and flows with the finest epicurean experiences of the times. Some restaurants hold their title for a few years, while others have a shorter tenure. It’s a culinary roller coaster for those in the business of food, and for those who love to eat. I often find myself watching the rise and fall of restaurants the way others might watch the stock market. Can we agree that food is more fun than stocks?

    Simply summed up, the San Pellegrino World’s 50 Best List ranks the top restaurants in the world according to unique culinary experiences. The list acts as a barometer for dining and food trends—a defining list of what is hot right now.

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    Beat the Restaurant Reservation System

    There are a few ways to beat the reservation system, which can be frustrating at the best of times. Ways to grab the table you’d like, on the day you’d like, and without fear of getting saddled with the dreaded 5pm or 11pm time slot.

    A few personal case stories follow, describing how I secured reservations at some of the best restaurants in the world, including, then number one, Chef Daniel Humm’s Eleven Madison Park. Want to skip the stories and head straight to the cheat sheet? Scroll down. Otherwise, read on. As an aside, I have very little in the way of photographs for these experiences, as I spent my time fully absorbed by the food. Indeed, the sign of a fabulous meal.

    The Test Kitchen

    Case Story #1: The Test Kitchen, Cape Town

    The Test Kitchen (then ranked #50) is one of the hardest restaurant bookings to get in South Africa. Rumor has it that even TV’s most well-loved talk show host, Ellen DeGeneres, was turned away without a reservation.

    We were heading to South Africa for a week in Cape Town. I had The Test Kitchen firmly in my crosshairs, yet knew it was going to be a challenge to reserve if I relied solely upon reading the website reservation directions, as my husband seemed to think was so simple.

    Reservations open up four times a year at 8am for the following three months. That means if you’d like a table in April, May, or June, you need to book at exactly 8am on March 1st, South Africa time. Did they really mean four times a year? Yikes. 

    I live in Washington DC, which meant a 1am alarm. Factor in the other like-minded, overachieving foodies scrambling for the same date. And those who live in more accessible time zones. Not as simple.

    Having booked the trip months in advance, I had the luxury of time on my side. I emailed our hotel in Cape Town to ask/beg the concierge for help. First, I explained the situation and the semi-problematic time difference. Then, I assured her that my expectations were low, and would appreciate her willingness to try.

    As any concierge worthy of her post would do, she replied that she’d be happy to help. I gave options for dates, as we were in Cape Town for 7 nights, thanked her in advance, and followed up immediately to confirm our conversation.

    A few months later, she replied with the news that she had successfully secured the booking. I was amazed, but not completely surprised. Never underestimate the power of a detail-oriented, capable, and willing concierge. In case you’re wondering, the hotel had no special ‘in’ or connections to The Test Kitchen, just a finger on the trigger, in the right time zone, at exactly the right time.

    Dark Room at the Test Kitchen

    The evening began upon entry into the Dark Room—cozy, ambient, and moody. We were handed a scrolled parchment map that outlined the origins of the upcoming bite-sized courses.

    After drinks, and the ‘map of small bites’, we were ushered through an unassuming doorway. Hello, Light Room—buzzing and bustling with bright-eyed waiters and an energized open-plan kitchen. A contrast in settings, decor, and festivities. It was theater, and we were an eager audience.

    Billionaire Bite Test Kitchen Bread board at The Test Kitchen

    Chef Luke Dale-Roberts’ inventive food hit all the marks. Each dish had an interesting juxtaposition of ingredients. It was, however, the Billionaire Bite, an indescribable savory shortbread, topped with gold leaf, that sent our tastebuds into overdrive. We paired the meal with the sommelier’s wine choices, rolled back to the hotel, and immediately fell into a food-induced coma. Bravo, Chef Luke.

    Case Story #2: Pujol, Mexico City

    The Netflix series, Chef’s Table, has always been a stimulant for our food obsession. One lazy winter’s night, an episode about Chef Enrique Olvera from Mexico City’s Pujol, particularly caught my husband’s attention. Then, Pujol was rated the 12th-best restaurant in the world by San Pellegrino and the 3rd-best in Latin America. When the show ended, Daniel casually intimated that he would love to go there one day.

    My mind began to spin. Daniel is not one to ask for much in the way of gifts. He had a birthday coming up the next month. That birthday happened to fall on a Saturday night. I discovered there was a direct flight to Mexico City from DC. The stars were beginning to align.

    While I could book the flights to Mexico City on miles without worry, I didn’t want to book the hotel until I had the restaurant reserved. What to do first? Another situation where my new BFF, the concierge, came into play. Even if it was a future concierge.

    I called the hotel and explained my predicament. I assured him that I would book a room the moment the reservation was secured. Again, a reliable and helpful concierge to the rescue.

    Pujol mole course

    Less than a month later, we were happily sitting in the dimly lit, black-walled dining room of Pujol in Mexico City, savoring Chef Olvera’s famous 100-day mole, and tasting menu. We overheard a young couple next to us explaining to the waiter that they had based their entire trip around this reservation after having seen Chef’s Table. So much for originality.

    I’ve since discovered that Pujol can be reserved on Open Table. I plugged in today’s date as an experiment. The next available is three months from now at 6pm.

    Overview of New York City

    Case Story #3: Eleven Madison Park, NYC

    How to get a reservation at the best restaurant in the entire world? Perhaps the triad of strategy, knowledge, and plain old good luck. In the case of Chef Daniel Humm’s Eleven Madison Park, luck was a key player.

    A girls’ trip to NYC in February 2019 seemed a good way to beat the winter blues. After choosing the date, we decided to divide and conquer—one friend chose the hotel, and another the Broadway show. I was in charge of dinner.

    I googled the reservation policy for Eleven Madison Park, which then held the #1 spot on the San Pellegrino 50 Best List. The site read: ‘We open reservations at 9am EST on the first of every month for the following month. For example, all May reservations will become available on April 1st at 9am EST’. Seemed simple enough under ordinary circumstances, but Daniel Humm’s restaurant is considered anything but ordinary.

    For a February reservation, the date to book was January 1st, 9am EST—New Year’s Day. What better way to try to beat the system than to take advantage of a morning when a good part of the country is sleeping late, hungover, or both? I marked my calendar and created a Tock profile, as recommended. As long as I didn’t oversleep, I had a shot.

    Timing Is Everything

    At 8:55am, on January 1st, I was waiting with my finger on the trigger. Eleven Madison Park has a pay-in-advance dinner policy, so I had already cleared it with my friends should the reservation come to fruition. Refresh, refresh, refresh. Click. Click. Ticking clock, ticking clock…. 8pm. Confirmed. Wow.

    The strategy of working the timeline backward to a holiday is not foolproof, but will certainly increase the odds, especially if you have any flexibility in dates and times.

    Eleven Madison Park was formal, yet not stuffy, with an intelligent, funny, and self-deprecating waitstaff. Its location is in a 30-story art-deco skyscraper that originally housed Metropolitan Life. The grandiose pillars and sky-high ceilings had a warmth and happy buzz that filled the entire space. Culinary bucket list—check.

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    Eleven Madison Park In the news

    Chef Daniel Humm’s recent announcement to serve a 100% plant-based menu upon re-opening is one that will likely have a ripple effect on the restaurant world. As he points out in his podcast, it is harder to turn a carrot into a meal than a tail of a lobster. Each of his plant-based dishes will certainly still uphold his four-pronged combination: to be delicious, beautiful, creative, and intentional. In his soothing understated manner, Daniel Humm maintains that if all four are achieved in a single dish, he has created a new language.

    I can’t wait to learn it. Eleven Madison Park, here I come.

    NYC with sunlight

    Tips and gratuities

    Finally, the cheat sheet. Ten practical, logical, and strategic tips on how to get that coveted reservation, regardless of price or popularity.

    1. Follow the rules: Look at the restaurant’s website in advance and take note of their particular method of reserving.
    2. Mark your calendar: Once you have the date in mind, backtrack to the day (and time) you can officially book. Set an alarm, or two, so you don’t forget.
    3. Be flexible: Are you able to book the restaurant for a variety of dates? Mark your calendar for multiple days in case the first time you aren’t successful. Have those dates ready so you can make a snap decision.
    4. Create accounts in advance: Many restaurants, especially the ones you pay for the meal in advance, have an online system to join or use a reservation platform like Tock. Get your account set up and credit card input.
    5. Refresh: Get the website up and ready five minutes before the allotted time to book. Refresh the page as needed.
    6. Make a new BFF: Don’t be afraid to ask the concierge for help, especially when dealing with countries that don’t speak your language, or are in a different time zone. Then don’t forget to tip when they come through.
    7. Dial it in: When all else fails, try calling for a reservation. We have gotten lucky with last-minute cancellations time and again. Keep calling, you never know.
    8. Think backward: Take advantage of holidays like New Year’s Day and Christmas morning. Plan ahead to that date.
    9. Settle for the next best thing: A chef’s expertise goes well beyond dinner. Does the restaurant also serve lunch? There is something wonderful about devoting an afternoon of vacation to a long boozy lunch.
    10.  Time out: Many reservation systems time out after five minutes. If the system opens at 10am and you miss it, log back on at 10:05am, as some people may have changed their minds or have run out of time.

    Admittedly, there are many great places to eat around the world, and most don’t require the advanced legwork described above. From the ones in Manhattan with white-linen tablecloths to the ones in the backstreets of Cartagena with red and white plastic ones. We all have different tastebuds, but we all want to eat where we want to eat. Yet, in the end, it’s just food, after all. Daniel, don’t you agree?

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    Head to Cape Town and try your luck reserving The Test Kitchen.

    Don’t forget the wine and the wine country of South Africa. Stellenbosch offers panoramic views and decadent restaurants.

    If a long, boozy lunch is your idea of a perfect afternoon, head to Catherine’s Café on the lovely island of Antigua.


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  • 5 of the best unforgettable and over-the-top travel experiences

    Vacation, as the dictionary states, is ‘an extended period of leisure and recreation, especially one spent away from home or in traveling.’ Most of us are long overdue. So, when that much-needed vacation finally comes, make it an unforgettable travel experience. Read on for some much-needed travel inspiration.


    Travel, whether I like to admit it or not, comes with a certain amount of expectation. I might say, “Oh, I’m happy at any beach, as long as I can relax with a book,” or “I don’t care about the hotel room, I’ll be outside most of the day anyway.” Or even, “The service isn’t that important as long as the food is really good.”

    But, in reality, I care. A lot.

    Relaxing on a beach with soft sand underfoot is lovely, as long as it isn’t facing an off-shore power plant. I would prefer not to stare at a construction site from my hotel room, regardless of how little time I spend in it. And, service does matter, especially when my room key decides not to work at midnight.

    Micato Jeep

    Yes, I have expectations. So, what happens when already high expectations are exceeded? When what I already imagine will be great—is even greater? Those unforgettable moments, while few and far between, are the ones I relive time and again. These are my top five.

    Over-The-Top Travel Experience 5 / Helicopter Sundowner: Amangiri, Utah

    Amangiri is a resort tucked away along the southern border of Utah, where it meets Arizona. As with many Aman properties, Amangiri is small, and a challenge to find, which adds a level of exclusivity that attracts many luxuries, adventure travelers. Their excursions are equally exclusive and unique.

    Amangiri pool

    One such excursion presented to us while there, was the chance to watch the sunset over the Utah desert. That’s not terribly unique, one might think. How about watching the sunset, with a bottle of chilled champagne, from the top of an isolated butte, via helicopter? Now that’s more like it.

    Helicopter excursion

    We spied on the desert from above, the blades of the helicopter sliced the dry air, and made the trip worthwhile from lift-off. The pilot steered us towards Glen Canyon Dam, and then Horseshoe Bend, the iconic shape of the landscape giving credence to its name.

    Mesa view

    From this vantage point, hovering over the deep canyon, I could see the striations of rock that had formed over millions of years.

    View of butte from helicopter

    We landed on a nearby towering butte, the flat top was an ideal place for the pilot to set up our champagne sundowner.

    Mesa views

    The terrain was a sea of gold, the rich mesas, and distant buttes picked up the colors from the sun, and the sky dissolved into moody shades of blue. From our aerie, champagne in hand, and no sound aside from the whirling wind, the world stood still.

    Despite the high price tag of the excursion, I had no regrets. Even years later, it is one of the most unforgettable travel moments in my memory. And while my husband might disagree, who can put a price tag on that?

    Over-The-Top Travel Experience 4 / Sound bath: Blackberry mountain, Tennessee

    More than ever, wellness activities have emerged as daily essentials. Whether a 10-minute morning meditation, a mid-day walk, or a late afternoon restorative yoga session, wellness is more mainstream than ever.

    Wildflowers

    In the past, I had tried a few sound bath experiences from my phone, mainly to help me relax before bed. I was curious to try one in person. So when a girlfriend and I decided to take a trip to Blackberry Mountain, we signed up right away.

    Our instructor’s voice had a lulling cadence. He introduced us to the practice of sound bathing, which has nothing, incidentally, to do with bathing, or water. The room had high ceilings, and was drenched in creamy, warm light. He was surrounded by a multitude of instruments; gongs, rainmakers, and chimes, among them. A lovely setting in which to spend the next 90 minutes.

    Sound bath

    Six of us formed a wide semi-circle on the floor and draped ourselves in soft blankets. The instructor then placed a lightly scented lavender cloth over our eyes. Just five minutes in, and I thought that this was already exceeding my expectations.

    The senses in my body awakened, and I melted into the sounds. The gongs overlapped the chimes. The chimes overlapped the rainmaker, which sounded like waves crashing onto a beach. First softly, then gaining power, before receding again. I fell asleep, I think. Then awoke to tuning forks in G major, chants, and quite a few unnameable sounds. The vibrations of those sounds lifted and settled within me, as I drifted in and out of a dream-like state.

    Towards the end of the sound bath, the group was asked to slowly sit up. I reluctantly followed orders. The gauzy roller shades had been raised, the curtains drawn—had I even noticed them earlier?

    I found myself facing purple mountains— the start of sunset. The ridge was razor sharp, and pink and orange hues were just beginning to appear behind it. I smiled. Then I wondered when I could do the whole thing all over again. One reason, of many, to return to Blackberry Mountain.

    Over-The-Top Travel Experience 3 / Berber Tea ceremony: Atlas Mountains, Morocco

    An hour’s drive, and yet a thousand miles away from bustling Marrakech, are the mesmerizing Atlas Mountains. We were on our way to Kasbah Bab Ourika, a rustic oasis nestled gently in the mountains.

    Kasbah Bab Ourika exterior view

    A holiday at a kasbah feels intimate and secluded, the only sounds coming from the birds whizzing overhead, and the light rustling of leaves. Meals are served al fresco, with miles of the scenic landscape at which to gaze. While we were hard-pressed to leave the grounds, we knew the mountains had much to offer in the way of adventure.

    Hiking the Atlas Mountains and villages

    One misty morning, we set out on a two-hour guided trek toward a Berber village. The Berbers, an ethnic group native to Northern Africa, have a history that dates back to medieval times. The language and culture of the Berbers are still thriving in many parts of Morocco, specifically in the Atlas Mountains.

    Sheep

    En route to the village, we passed a herd of woolly sheep and abandoned homes overrun with fields of yellow wildflowers. There were no roads, only donkey tracks, and the occasional moped.

    Local home

    Our guide brought us to a village home where we were taught the ceremonial process of making Berber mint tea.

    Homemade bread Mint tea ceremony in local village

    The matriarch of the family showed us her technique, which involved a series of constant pouring and re-pouring. First, she placed the tea leaves into the pot and added boiling water. She swirled to warm the pot, and then rinsed the tea leaves. Next, she strained the water, reserving only the leaves.

    Village women

    She then added more hot water and allowed it to steep for a few minutes while we chatted—our guide acting as translator. Lastly, sprigs of mint, and a touch of sugar, were added to the teapot. We were honored and humbled by the chance to take part in a small piece of traditional Berber life. I will likely never have a mint tea experience that compares.

    Over-The-Top Travel Experience 2 / Hammam Spa: The Royal Mansour, Morocco

    A hammam, or Turkish bath, is a centuries-old, traditional, Arabic cleansing and bathing ritual. Modern variations of hammam can be found at hotels, resorts, and spas throughout Northern Africa and the Middle East.

    The Royal Mansour gardens

    Meant to boost the immune system, a hammam treatment uses hot steam to dilate blood vessels, and increase circulation throughout the body. Pores are opened, toxins are released, and the body is immediately refreshed. This sounded intriguing, and unlike any therapeutic treatment, I’d had in the past.

    The Royal Mansour hammam/spa

    I decided to visit the spa at The Royal Mansour Hotel, in Marrakech, to experience the hammam. I was told that their interpretation of it was one of the best in the city. Marrakech was aglow with high-density, prismatic, and outrageous color, but the spa at the Royal Mansour was decidedly the total absence of it.

    The Royal Mansour gardens

    I opened the oversized spa door and entered a world of polar white—a jarring contrast from the green gardens I had just left behind. Vaulted cathedral ceilings, a fountain overflowing with white roses, and pale, pastel couches—all within a room of white, wrought iron, latticework. It was ethereal.

    The Royal Mansour hammam/spa white roses

    Following a short respite on a daybed in the spa’s waiting area, I was summoned by the therapist. She asked me to lie down upon a hot stone platform in a cavernous, marbled, and windowless room. I happily obliged, and put my 21st-century cares behind me, relishing this 8th-century bathing ritual.

    A fragrant steam surrounded me, as the therapist scrubbed off layers of unwanted skin with a special black soap, and an abrasive Kessa mitt. It was harsh, and made my eyes water, but was surprisingly invigorating.

    The Royal Mansour hammam/spa white roses

    Next, she gently poured, and then shockingly threw, warm water across my body, waking me up in an admittedly unexpected way. She proceeded with a full body massage, using therapeutic oils, in an array of intriguing scents.

    Lastly, I was escorted to one last room. Bright light streamed through the window towards an inviting, private, plunge pool. Much to my immediate dismay, I discovered it was actually an ice bath. She asked me to immerse myself in the frigid water. While I was initially reluctant, I knew this eye-popping part of the treatment was meant to invigorate my skin, which after 90 minutes of pampering, felt as silky as a newborn baby’s.

    The Royal Mansour

    Hammam is an experience that is likely not everyone’s cup of tea, given its unconventionality. For me, however, it was all a part of the African adventure. No regrets, Marrakech.

    Over-The-Top Travel Experience 1 / Dinner on the Delta, Botswana

    There are few places in my travels that have moved me as much as Africa. I am a wildlife junkie and love any opportunity to see animals in the wild. It is no surprise that Africa, and Botswana in particular, would take up such significant space in my travel memories.

    Selinda Camp view

    After three days of game drives along the Okavango Delta, we thought we had seen it all. Lions, leopards, hippos, and elephants, filled our days and invaded our dreams.

    Elephants in the fields

    At the end of our last day in Botswana, Foster, our gentle and soft-spoken guide, took us back to our camp so that we could change for dinner. As we climbed out of the dust-covered Land Rover, our safari-weary bodies in need of a hot shower, Foster told us he had one last thing to show us.

    Leopard in tree Botswana

    My interest was piqued, but my body was shattered. In keeping with my ‘no regrets’ attitude, I climbed back into the Rover and rallied. We bumped along the bush for twenty minutes or so, getting farther and farther from camp, (and a hot shower). The sun was just starting to descend.

    We curved around a thicket of trees, startling a few baboons along the way when I spotted something unusual. Not more wildlife, something entirely unexpected.

    Sunset dinner

    Miles from civilization, miles from our camp, in the middle of the African bush, was a full-blown, pop-up dinner. A top-shelf bar was created around an ancient tree. A roaring bonfire mimicked the palette of the setting sun and was surrounded by chairs and blankets. A communal dining table set for twenty, and a lantern-lit pathway towards a fully functioning bathroom.

    Dinner was being prepared by cooks over open fires, and multiple mouth-watering aromas wafted through the air. I fleetingly wondered if the lions would find the smells as enticing as I did. We were awestruck.

    sunset

    The entire staff of our tent camp, plus the other guests, were treated to a fully-catered dinner in the bush. We sat for hours, eating and drinking, sharing and comparing stories of the day. We replayed our magical moments in the delta.

    Hippos in Botswana

    The low trumpets of elephants, and snorting grunts of hippos in the distance, were the musical soundtrack. With no one manning the camp, I wondered if the cheeky, resident, vervet monkeys were having a party. Botswana—I hadn’t even left, but I was already missing it.

    Experience matters

    We live in a world of bells, beeps, whistles, tones, and chimes—mostly coming from phones and screens. Our lives are filled with constant noise which interferes with our ability to relax and have calm.

    The sounds from these five experiences; the chimes of the sound bath, the wind whistling past us on a remote butte, and the trumpeting of distant elephants, were the antithesis of my normal cacophony. I embraced the sounds of these once-in-a-lifetime experiences. Unforgettable.

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  • Packing Matters: 5 things I can’t do without

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    When my husband and I were engaged, he bought me an overnight bag from Coach. It was cherry red canvas, with camel-colored leather details. The regal Coach logo was embossed understatedly in the leather. I loved it and asked him where we were headed, assuming he was planning a weekend getaway.

    “This is for our honeymoon,” he replied.

    I looked at him blankly. Our honeymoon was a few months away. Three weeks, destination unknown, a surprise from him to me. I laughed a nervous laugh. “So… this is my carry-on?” I asked. But I already knew the answer.

    Coach bag

    So began the next chapter in my life. One that took me to faraway places to experience different cultures. One that cultivated my packing habits, and challenged the way I saw the practical and the luxurious. Who said that the practical things in life can’t be luxurious? Or, that luxury can’t be practical?

    There are countless lists of tips, tricks, and hacks when it comes to packing and traveling. What follows are my top five. How did a one-time over-packer become so streamlined? It all began with a honeymoon in Africa when I stuffed a three-week wardrobe into a weekend-sized bag.


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    Warrior luggage

    5/Eagle Creek Luggage

    We abuse our luggage. Years of planes, trains, and automobiles, prompted me to research ones that would best withstand our relentless mistreatment. A combination of durability, practicality, and yes, style, was in order. Hello, Eagle Creek. Meet your fan for life.

    Why I love it: Our Eagle Creek bags, as you might expect, are battered. I imagine their scuffs and scrapes as badges of honor as I watch them tumble down the ramp of the luggage carousel. Once, when my decade-old carry-on’s zipper broke, Eagle Creek picked it up, fixed it, and sent it back to me. No charge. No proof of purchase.

    Practical or luxurious? More practical than luxurious, the approachable price point defies any preconceived logic that things must be expensive to endure. (Cue my husband’s laughter here). My bags are waiting on standby for a travel reboot. So am I.

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    4/Jewelry Pouch

    Many Christmases ago, my mother-in-law gave me one of my favorite gifts. A silky-soft jewelry pouch. Three zippered compartments for earrings, necklaces, and bracelets, and a buttoned strap to accommodate rings. Simple, classic, functional—a trifecta of travel tributes.

    Why I love it: Since my jewelry is always in my hand luggage, it is important that it takes up as little space as possible, which is why a soft case is essential. I’ve used mine for about 20 years—it is now stained and worn, but still one of my most treasured travel necessities.

    Practical or luxurious? Your choice. A quick Google search reveals dozens of jewelry cases from which to choose and at every price point. Suede, or silk. Canvas, or calf-skin leather. One can find handmade examples on Etsy, modest options on Amazon, and classic, elegant finds on Mejuri.

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    Packing Cubes

    3/Eagle Creek Packing Cubes

    No, this post is not a paid sponsorship with Eagle Creek (although I’m open to the possibility). Yet I would be remiss if I didn’t express how their packing cubes have changed my (travel) life.

    Why I love it: I can compress ten summer dresses (without fear of wrinkles) in what is essentially the size of a small laptop computer. I can stuff one cube with every bathing suit I own. I can bring extra empty cubes to sort the worn from the unworn, the dirty from the clean. You don’t have to be an organizational fanatic like me to understand the benefits of cube packing.

    Practical or luxurious? Practicality at its best. My favorite is the compression cubes. There is something incredibly satisfying about stuffing a cube to capacity and then shrinking it to half its size. Using cubes, especially on those trips where we are packing and unpacking every few days, keeps me organized, but more importantly, sane.

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    2/iPhone Lanyard

    While waiting for a bush plane in Uganda a few years ago, I met two women from NYC on a girls’ trip. Each had an iPhone encased in clear plastic dangling from their necks by a simple cord. Why hadn’t I thought of that earlier? Form, function, accessibility. Genius.

    Why I love it: Never since have I had to worry about losing my phone on a hike, fumbling for it in my bag, or wrestle it from my pocket on a moment’s notice—only to miss that fleeting shot. I immediately bought one when I arrived home, and haven’t traveled without it since.

    Practical or luxurious? One could argue both. The luxury of never losing my phone might be a stretch to some, but at $10 from Amazon, it is arguably the most cost-effective, practical luxury on the list. For those who prefer to be branded by a crossbody version, Prada, Celine, and Smythson will cover you—for a price.

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    Smythson

    1/Family Passport Holder

    A true example of luxury for luxury’s sake came in the form of what is one of the most practical travel gifts I’ve received, a Smythson family passport holder. I tend to get flustered on travel days, regardless of my advanced prep, especially at the dreaded immigration desk.

    Why I love it: The family passport holder has been a travel lifeline when I am at my most frazzled. Not only does it organize our family’s mass of passports, but it also has slots for our Global Entry cards, my husband’s green card, local currency, and any other documentation needed for the trip at hand.

    Practical or luxurious? Smythson no longer makes the electric blue leather family passport holder that we own, which fell firmly in the luxury category. However, they have others that are equally handsome, and well-made. As always, Google can provide endless choices at a variety of prices, materials, and sizes. One might only discover the true worth of this valuable piece of travel kit, when breezing through check-in and customs, on that next international trip. You’re welcome.


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    Ode to the battered and worn

    While no doubt wheeled luggage is more efficient, if not easier on the shoulders, I still have space in my heart for that red Coach bag. I still have it, and occasionally I use it—as a carry-on.

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    It’s not rocket science, but here are a few things I do to save, and create space when I pack:
    Roll it: I roll everything that can be rolled, that is not in a cube. Most times, I roll, it and then put it in a cube. Rolling keeps clothes from wrinkling and takes up less space. It’s sort of an industry standard, as you will see this tip on almost any uber-packer’s list.
    Use those shoes: I want to bring all of my shoes. I try to whittle down to the most necessary, which can be a struggle, and then I stuff them with anything that won’t wrinkle. Undergarments, socks, adapters, cords, chargers, or workout clothes. You’d be surprised how many socks fit into a size six running shoe.
    Plane clothes: I wear my heaviest, bulkiest items on the flights, which are frigid no matter the destination. That sweater, coat, or boots doesn’t take up space better utilized for that extra pair of shoes. I then plan to wear that same outfit on the way home, so it never has to take up precious luggage space.
    Weight issues: I weigh luggage pre-travel with a handheld luggage scale. For roughly $10, it has saved me hundreds in overweight baggage fees.
    Literary donations: I still read real books, and tend to pack at least two or three when I travel. Many hotels these days have libraries where I can either donate or swap titles, once I have finished reading. I love leaving my books behind, curious about the person who might pick them up next. At the same time, that donation provides a convenient space for any souvenirs I may have collected on the trip.

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  • 5 stunning villas that will inspire your next getaway

    5 stunning villas that will inspire your next getaway

     Planning a villa getaway

    Now is the time to start planning a villa getaway. Villas, as opposed to hotels, is a natural choice for social distancing. They are inherently secluded and allow guests to spread out. Villas erase the need for babysitters or restaurants since a personal chef can be one of the decadent perks of villa life.

    Finding the right villa can be a labor of love. It needs the optimal balance of indoor and outdoor living and is designed with views in mind. They need to have just the right collection of ‘toys’, whether for age 4 or 40.

    Pool view

    Super-luxe amenities may include an infinity pool, a beachfront location, and a built-in sound system. A fully-stocked, complimentary, wine cellar, and a yoga sanctuary. These are all in the mix of what makes a villa good, versus absolutely mind-blowing.

    These days, understated luxury is all the more sought after. As opposed to extravagant, over-the-top, opulence. The biggest compliment for a villa is that it is so tranquil and so thoughtfully laid out that no one ever wants to leave it.

    Bramasole outside

    What follows are my top five villas around the globe. Get ready to pull the trigger.

    Best Villa Getaway #5

    One-Bedroom Pool Villa at The Mandarin Oriental Hotel, Marrakech, Morocco

    Villa Vibe: Modern-riad oasis

    The Moroccan property of the Mandarin Oriental Hotel is a short drive from the famous Medina of Marrakech. Yet, it feels like another world. It has over 20 hectares of jasmine patches, olive trees, and 100,000 fragrant roses. The hotel’s 54 private villas dot the property in a scenic serpentine route. Reflecting pools and majestic, wavering palms abound.

    Villa entrance

    Why I like the villas at the Mandarin Oriental:

    The austere, one-bedroom pool villa has a rose-covered entry and an oversized, wooden door that opens into a private courtyard.

    Pool villa Pool villa jacuzzi

    A long, dramatic, pool welcomes guests like a red carpet to the Oscars. At its far end, the pool morphs into a sheltered hot tub. It nestles squarely against the sliding glass doors of the master suite.

    Pool villa bedroom Room interior

    Each room opens up to the central courtyard, reinforcing the blurry edges of indoor and outdoor living. Contemporary Moroccan decor is captured in subtle ways. Soft Berber rugs, elaborate, stone artwork, and even the design details of lampshades.

    A hammam-inspired shower is an Arabic bathing ritual used for cleansing. It’s an added luxurious feature of the villa. Yet, it posed yet another distraction from exploring the mesmerizing city of Marrakech.

    Mandarin Oriental pool view Mandarin Oriental courtyard of pool villa

    USP (Unique Selling Point): An elongated, horizontal fire pit cuts into the courtyard wall. An outdoor kitchen and bar, with plush outdoor sofas, make the inside of the villa nearly redundant. It’s just this combination of open-plan architecture overlaid with total seclusion, that makes this hotel villa so enchanting.

    Grounds of The Mandarin Oriental

    Best Villa Getaway #4

    The Three-Bedroom Beach Residence at Sugar Beach, St Lucia

    Villa Vibe: Colonial charm, perfected

    The majestic, towering Pitons are a duo of volcanic spires and the visual centerpiece of the island of St Lucia. They stand at 2,618ft and 2,438ft respectively. The Pitons are the geological defining feature of this mountainous paradise in the Windward Islands.

    Beach cricket

    Viceroy Sugar Beach, once a thriving 18th-century sugar plantation, won the Caribbean lottery on location. It’s one of only two resorts that rest between the Pitons, and the only one that is beachfront. They’ve been named a World Heritage Site by UNESCO. At any given time of day, one Piton is lit to perfection, while the other lies in dramatic shadow.

    Both Pitons are magnificent around the clock. In fact, they are so highly regarded, that they are proudly displayed on the national flag, as well as the name of the local beer. Two high honors, indeed.

    Patio views

    Why I like the beach residences at Sugar Beach:

    Our plantation-inspired, three-bedroom beach residence has uninterrupted 360 views of the sea. It also sits steps from the beach. Standing on the expansive pool deck, I look to my left—Gros Piton. I look to my right—Petit Piton. Straight ahead are crystal clear cerulean waters. Each direction I face is more inspiring than the next.

    Every room has large glass-paned windows that face the ocean. Sliding glass doors reinforce the melding of indoor and outdoor life. From the lantern-lit deck, we watch the chartered catamarans and sailboats slowly drift in and out of the harbor. An unvarnished portrait of the seascape is constantly re-imagined before our eyes.

    Pool at villa Villa bedroom view

    Four-poster beds have romantic, voile draping that evoked a dream-like sanctuary. White-on-white, silky Egyptian cotton linens, contrast with wooden, colonial touches. Natural jute weaves and rattan adds to the breezy vibe of the residence.

    Patio views

    A long, infinity pool parallels the sea, hovering just high enough above it so that it feels as if we are swimming laps alongside the horizon. The connecting hot tub makes for the most secluded sundowner spot on the island.

    USP: Beach residences come with a personal butler to attend to all needs that may arise during the stay. Guests are given a cell phone with their direct dial. Butlers can organize excursions, massage appointments, and food and beverage stocked upon arrival.

    Sunset view

    Best Villa Getaway #3

    Casa Majani, Punta Mita, Mexico

    Villa Vibe: The ultimate in understated luxury

    Punta Mita is an exclusive resort community in Nayarit, Mexico. It has long been associated with understated, beachfront beauty. It’s also the home to both St. Regis and the Four Seasons resorts. Set upon 1500 swoon-worthy acres, and surrounded by the Pacific Ocean on three sides, the lure of Punta Mita is palpable.

    Majani exterior signage

    There is no shortage of heart-stopping villas to be found on this gently manicured private peninsula in the Pacific Ocean. However, the serene undercurrent of Villa Casa Majani mimics the peninsula itself, with water as its defining feature.

    Why I like Casa Majani:

    Casa Majani boasts six seductive bedrooms, interconnected via garden-filled pathways, Manzanillo trees, and meandering reflecting pools.

    Exterior Majani
    Photo Credit: Casa Majani

    Suite Keili is one of two master suites and is best described as a ‘bedroom island.’ The infinity pools that surround the suite look on towards the ocean. They mirror the prismatic colors of the Mexican sky.

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    Photo Credit: Casa Majani

    The architectural centerpiece of the villa is the enormous thatched-roofed grand palapa loft. Infinitely breezy, it plays many roles. Pre-dinner cocktail lounge, shady reading nook, or whale-watching perch.

    The natural hues and wooden accents are in line with a modern Mexican aesthetic. Touches of bright, traditional colors like persimmon, fuchsia, and lime green, accent the decor artfully.

    Majani thatched loft

    On our visit, it takes all of one morning for the seasoned staff to remember each of our names, as well as our caffeinated vices. Mini tacos with fresh guacamole appear poolside before anyone’s stomach had the chance to rumble.

    Hand-crafted cocktails magically arrive at the first signs of dusk. A dedicated concierge helped facilitate our needs, whether organizing an on-site masseuse, or a group tequila tasting.

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    Photo Credit: Casa Majani

    USP: Casa Majani is a destination unto itself. But should guests decide to venture off-property, access to the Four Seasons and St Regis resorts is included. Given that Casa Majani has its own yoga studio and gym, one should choose excursions wisely.

    Best Villa Getaway #2

    Villa Laura, Cortona, Italy

    Villa Vibe: Under the Tuscan sun, literally

    A sweeping property just outside of the walled Italian village of Cortona is the famed setting of the film, Under the Tuscan Sun. Guests of Villa Laura, have an opportunity to create their own Tuscan memories in this restored 17th-century villa.

    Bramasole grounds

    Why I like Villa Laura:

    The movie and book are based on Frances Mayes’ experience at Bramasole, which means ‘to yearn for the sun.’ It’s something you may never do, as the property fully absorbs every ray of sunlight, whether indoors, or out. Three unique buildings nestle within the property and manicured gardens. The Villa, the Farmhouse, and the Limonaia. There are ten ensuite guest rooms between them.

    Bramasole outdoor dinner Bramasole dining

    The buildings date back to 600AD, and part of the charm of Villa Laura is the history that is sensed as you spend time exploring the grounds. The washed stucco villa, with sage green-painted shutters, changes color from pale yellow to rich gold over the course of the day. Light shifts and unfolds. The stone-walled farmhouse has an outdoor dining area that overlooks miles of the verdant Italian countryside.

    Bramasole pool scene

    USP: Every outdoor path presents one stunning photo opportunity after another. A grand pool, a hot tub, and an organic vegetable garden complete the scene.

    Indoors, guests will find a pool table, games room, and stocked wine cellar. The nearby village of Cortona might be calling, but it will undoubtedly be difficult to answer.

    Best Villa Getaway #1

    Villa Ixfalia, St Barths

    Villa Vibe: Swanky French Riviera

    The overgrown jungle-like entrance of St Barth’s Villa Ixfalia is deceptive. Perhaps, this is intentional—the drama of a velvet curtain opening at showtime. A wooden planked path leads guests through a wide threshold and into a vast, open-air living space.

    Pool at sunset

    Why I like Villa Ixfalia:

    Over twenty rattan lampshades dangle above in varying shapes, sizes, and heights. Yet, as mesmerizing as they may be, chances are you won’t notice them. Your eyes will be instinctively drawn ahead.

    Living room Ixfalia living space

    Cue the panorama. The only thing that lies between you and the Caribbean Sea is a glacial blue infinity pool. Perched several hundred feet in the air, you may feel you are swimming in the sky. Vistas overlooks the beaches of this swanky European-influenced island.

    Beaches views from above

    Rooms are designed in soft earth tones, and with natural textiles, all sea-facing. Some have private outdoor showers, and all have flat-screen Apple TVs and found objects. Bleached animal skulls, driftwood sculptures, and gigantic white shells add to the nature-inspired villa vibe.

    Master bedroom exterior Master bedroom

    The master bedroom’s king-sized bed faces floor-to-ceiling glass doors that open to the pool. One feels miles above the world, both literally and figuratively. A welcomed distance from reality.

    Overview

    USP: The infinity pool and patio have tiers of large, double-wide sun loungers and captivating views of Eden Rock Resort. Guests will find themselves in a constant conundrum—wanting to explore the island but never wanting to leave the villa. With a dedicated butler and French chef on hand, there is virtually no need.

    Cocktails Breakfast view

    Get villa-inspired

    Many of these villas fall firmly in the ‘understated luxury’ category. But there are countless iterations of this vacation to suit different budgets and geographic restraints.

    There are local Airbnbs, far-flung Airbnb Luxe destinations, intimate cabin stays glamping or mountain treehouses. Then, of course, there are luxury hotels that offer private villas and residences. All you need is a bit of inspiration and creativity. A villa vacation can’t come soon enough.

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