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  • The Vines, Mendoza—Culinary Highlights and Amazing Adventures

    The Vines, Mendoza—Culinary Highlights and Amazing Adventures

    Mendoza, Argentina /

    Francis Mallmann may be one of the top chefs in the Americas, but as of January 2016, we had never heard of him. That is, until one snowy night at home we saw his episode of the Netflix docu-series, Chef’s Table. Each episode highlights a chef from around the world, and the footage and scenery intertwined with the food can be mesmerizing, especially if you watch it when you are hungry!

    Part of what makes Mallmann unique is his use of cooking on open flames, whether that be above ground or underground, and never in an expected way.

    Scenery at The Vines

    So when the show zeroed in on his Argentine restaurant in the Uco Valley of Mendoza, Siete Fuegos (literally Seven Fires), which is in a resort called The Vines, nestled at the base of the Andes mountains, we headed straight for the computer and booked on the spot. A spontaneous and slightly alcohol-induced move, no doubt. From there, we built our two-week spring break holiday and didn’t look back.

    Spa house view Two bedroom suite exterior

    Pool view of Andes

    Mendoza’s Top Winery/Luxury Resort

    The Vines is a spectacular find. Set, as you’d imagine, around an expanse of vineyards, it is part winery and part luxury resort. You can take the complimentary bikes and explore the 1500 hectares of private vines, where you will inevitably stumble upon the free-standing, all-glass gym and rock climbing wall that rises above the grapes so that you have an unobstructed view of the Andes while you work out.

    The villas at The Vines are beautifully decorated, I wanted to move in and stay there, it felt like a home, not a hotel. Stone hot tub, rooftop seating, complimentary iPads and Apple TV for entertainment, all the creature comforts of home, nestled along a path of desert-like gardens, it far exceeded our expectations.

    Salt crusted salmon Communal table at Siete Fuegos Chicken lunch

    The Siete Fuegos Experience at The Vines

    We dined at Siete Fuegos more than once, the main restaurant at the resort. True to Argentine custom, dinners were served quite late (with service being much slower and leisurely than we were used to) and the Malbec flowed generously and at all hours. One night we left the kids behind and had one of the Mallmann’s Seven Fire dining experiences. 

    Set outside, yet within the open kitchen, and surrounded by the seven different ‘fires’, a table for 30 was set up for a long Argentine communal meal. As the night went on, and the courses came out, the decibel level got higher and higher.

    Guests from Norway, Finland, Brazil, and Connecticut—everyone with a different story about how they found themselves here. The salmon had been baked in a cast iron skillet for hours and within a three-inch crust of salt. We had goat that had been strung up to a cage with an open bonfire-style fire surrounding it. It was a culinary adventure with a chef we had all traveled far and wide to see. No one was disappointed, it was a magical dinner experience.

    El Paisano La Azul Wine El Paisano lunch by the stream

    Bodegas and Surprises in Mendoza

    We were told we couldn’t leave Mendoza without lunch and a winery tour at Bodega La Azul. Due to an unexpected glitch, we found ourselves without a lunch reservation as planned. However, the owner said he would still happily take us on a tour of his boutique winery.

    Falling into the category of ‘sometimes things happen for a reason’, we let nature take its course, although truth be told I was envious of all the guests being seated on the patio as we walked past. Maybe he saw my disappointment because he then told us about a family he knew that was opening a restaurant nearby out of their home. It sounded intriguing, so we got the address, took a leap of faith, and headed into the foothills to find El Paisano.

    It was far from a restaurant; it was a home, but we ate one of the most authentic meals we could have hoped for, all eight traditional courses prepared and served by five members of a lovely Argentine family. We sat at a table on the banks of a freshwater stream, the kids found some fishing poles and tried their luck. Daniel and I sat with a bottle of wine and wondered how we ended up here. Oh, and the wine? La Azul, of course.

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    Sunrise hike Sunrise hike with horsesGoat for dinner Restaurant view

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  • 5 stunning villas that will inspire your next getaway

    5 stunning villas that will inspire your next getaway

     Planning a villa getaway

    Now is the time to start planning a villa getaway. Villas, as opposed to hotels, is a natural choice for social distancing. They are inherently secluded and allow guests to spread out. Villas erase the need for babysitters or restaurants since a personal chef can be one of the decadent perks of villa life.

    Finding the right villa can be a labor of love. It needs the optimal balance of indoor and outdoor living and is designed with views in mind. They need to have just the right collection of ‘toys’, whether for age 4 or 40.

    Pool view

    Super-luxe amenities may include an infinity pool, a beachfront location, and a built-in sound system. A fully-stocked, complimentary, wine cellar, and a yoga sanctuary. These are all in the mix of what makes a villa good, versus absolutely mind-blowing.

    These days, understated luxury is all the more sought after. As opposed to extravagant, over-the-top, opulence. The biggest compliment for a villa is that it is so tranquil and so thoughtfully laid out that no one ever wants to leave it.

    Bramasole outside

    What follows are my top five villas around the globe. Get ready to pull the trigger.

    Best Villa Getaway #5

    One-Bedroom Pool Villa at The Mandarin Oriental Hotel, Marrakech, Morocco

    Villa Vibe: Modern-riad oasis

    The Moroccan property of the Mandarin Oriental Hotel is a short drive from the famous Medina of Marrakech. Yet, it feels like another world. It has over 20 hectares of jasmine patches, olive trees, and 100,000 fragrant roses. The hotel’s 54 private villas dot the property in a scenic serpentine route. Reflecting pools and majestic, wavering palms abound.

    Villa entrance

    Why I like the villas at the Mandarin Oriental:

    The austere, one-bedroom pool villa has a rose-covered entry and an oversized, wooden door that opens into a private courtyard.

    Pool villa Pool villa jacuzzi

    A long, dramatic, pool welcomes guests like a red carpet to the Oscars. At its far end, the pool morphs into a sheltered hot tub. It nestles squarely against the sliding glass doors of the master suite.

    Pool villa bedroom Room interior

    Each room opens up to the central courtyard, reinforcing the blurry edges of indoor and outdoor living. Contemporary Moroccan decor is captured in subtle ways. Soft Berber rugs, elaborate, stone artwork, and even the design details of lampshades.

    A hammam-inspired shower is an Arabic bathing ritual used for cleansing. It’s an added luxurious feature of the villa. Yet, it posed yet another distraction from exploring the mesmerizing city of Marrakech.

    Mandarin Oriental pool view Mandarin Oriental courtyard of pool villa

    USP (Unique Selling Point): An elongated, horizontal fire pit cuts into the courtyard wall. An outdoor kitchen and bar, with plush outdoor sofas, make the inside of the villa nearly redundant. It’s just this combination of open-plan architecture overlaid with total seclusion, that makes this hotel villa so enchanting.

    Grounds of The Mandarin Oriental

    Best Villa Getaway #4

    The Three-Bedroom Beach Residence at Sugar Beach, St Lucia

    Villa Vibe: Colonial charm, perfected

    The majestic, towering Pitons are a duo of volcanic spires and the visual centerpiece of the island of St Lucia. They stand at 2,618ft and 2,438ft respectively. The Pitons are the geological defining feature of this mountainous paradise in the Windward Islands.

    Beach cricket

    Viceroy Sugar Beach, once a thriving 18th-century sugar plantation, won the Caribbean lottery on location. It’s one of only two resorts that rest between the Pitons, and the only one that is beachfront. They’ve been named a World Heritage Site by UNESCO. At any given time of day, one Piton is lit to perfection, while the other lies in dramatic shadow.

    Both Pitons are magnificent around the clock. In fact, they are so highly regarded, that they are proudly displayed on the national flag, as well as the name of the local beer. Two high honors, indeed.

    Patio views

    Why I like the beach residences at Sugar Beach:

    Our plantation-inspired, three-bedroom beach residence has uninterrupted 360 views of the sea. It also sits steps from the beach. Standing on the expansive pool deck, I look to my left—Gros Piton. I look to my right—Petit Piton. Straight ahead are crystal clear cerulean waters. Each direction I face is more inspiring than the next.

    Every room has large glass-paned windows that face the ocean. Sliding glass doors reinforce the melding of indoor and outdoor life. From the lantern-lit deck, we watch the chartered catamarans and sailboats slowly drift in and out of the harbor. An unvarnished portrait of the seascape is constantly re-imagined before our eyes.

    Pool at villa Villa bedroom view

    Four-poster beds have romantic, voile draping that evoked a dream-like sanctuary. White-on-white, silky Egyptian cotton linens, contrast with wooden, colonial touches. Natural jute weaves and rattan adds to the breezy vibe of the residence.

    Patio views

    A long, infinity pool parallels the sea, hovering just high enough above it so that it feels as if we are swimming laps alongside the horizon. The connecting hot tub makes for the most secluded sundowner spot on the island.

    USP: Beach residences come with a personal butler to attend to all needs that may arise during the stay. Guests are given a cell phone with their direct dial. Butlers can organize excursions, massage appointments, and food and beverage stocked upon arrival.

    Sunset view

    Best Villa Getaway #3

    Casa Majani, Punta Mita, Mexico

    Villa Vibe: The ultimate in understated luxury

    Punta Mita is an exclusive resort community in Nayarit, Mexico. It has long been associated with understated, beachfront beauty. It’s also the home to both St. Regis and the Four Seasons resorts. Set upon 1500 swoon-worthy acres, and surrounded by the Pacific Ocean on three sides, the lure of Punta Mita is palpable.

    Majani exterior signage

    There is no shortage of heart-stopping villas to be found on this gently manicured private peninsula in the Pacific Ocean. However, the serene undercurrent of Villa Casa Majani mimics the peninsula itself, with water as its defining feature.

    Why I like Casa Majani:

    Casa Majani boasts six seductive bedrooms, interconnected via garden-filled pathways, Manzanillo trees, and meandering reflecting pools.

    Exterior Majani
    Photo Credit: Casa Majani

    Suite Keili is one of two master suites and is best described as a ‘bedroom island.’ The infinity pools that surround the suite look on towards the ocean. They mirror the prismatic colors of the Mexican sky.

    dining loft at casa majani
    Photo Credit: Casa Majani

    The architectural centerpiece of the villa is the enormous thatched-roofed grand palapa loft. Infinitely breezy, it plays many roles. Pre-dinner cocktail lounge, shady reading nook, or whale-watching perch.

    The natural hues and wooden accents are in line with a modern Mexican aesthetic. Touches of bright, traditional colors like persimmon, fuchsia, and lime green, accent the decor artfully.

    Majani thatched loft

    On our visit, it takes all of one morning for the seasoned staff to remember each of our names, as well as our caffeinated vices. Mini tacos with fresh guacamole appear poolside before anyone’s stomach had the chance to rumble.

    Hand-crafted cocktails magically arrive at the first signs of dusk. A dedicated concierge helped facilitate our needs, whether organizing an on-site masseuse, or a group tequila tasting.

    Pool view majani
    Photo Credit: Casa Majani

    USP: Casa Majani is a destination unto itself. But should guests decide to venture off-property, access to the Four Seasons and St Regis resorts is included. Given that Casa Majani has its own yoga studio and gym, one should choose excursions wisely.

    Best Villa Getaway #2

    Villa Laura, Cortona, Italy

    Villa Vibe: Under the Tuscan sun, literally

    A sweeping property just outside of the walled Italian village of Cortona is the famed setting of the film, Under the Tuscan Sun. Guests of Villa Laura, have an opportunity to create their own Tuscan memories in this restored 17th-century villa.

    Bramasole grounds

    Why I like Villa Laura:

    The movie and book are based on Frances Mayes’ experience at Bramasole, which means ‘to yearn for the sun.’ It’s something you may never do, as the property fully absorbs every ray of sunlight, whether indoors, or out. Three unique buildings nestle within the property and manicured gardens. The Villa, the Farmhouse, and the Limonaia. There are ten ensuite guest rooms between them.

    Bramasole outdoor dinner Bramasole dining

    The buildings date back to 600AD, and part of the charm of Villa Laura is the history that is sensed as you spend time exploring the grounds. The washed stucco villa, with sage green-painted shutters, changes color from pale yellow to rich gold over the course of the day. Light shifts and unfolds. The stone-walled farmhouse has an outdoor dining area that overlooks miles of the verdant Italian countryside.

    Bramasole pool scene

    USP: Every outdoor path presents one stunning photo opportunity after another. A grand pool, a hot tub, and an organic vegetable garden complete the scene.

    Indoors, guests will find a pool table, games room, and stocked wine cellar. The nearby village of Cortona might be calling, but it will undoubtedly be difficult to answer.

    Best Villa Getaway #1

    Villa Ixfalia, St Barths

    Villa Vibe: Swanky French Riviera

    The overgrown jungle-like entrance of St Barth’s Villa Ixfalia is deceptive. Perhaps, this is intentional—the drama of a velvet curtain opening at showtime. A wooden planked path leads guests through a wide threshold and into a vast, open-air living space.

    Pool at sunset

    Why I like Villa Ixfalia:

    Over twenty rattan lampshades dangle above in varying shapes, sizes, and heights. Yet, as mesmerizing as they may be, chances are you won’t notice them. Your eyes will be instinctively drawn ahead.

    Living room Ixfalia living space

    Cue the panorama. The only thing that lies between you and the Caribbean Sea is a glacial blue infinity pool. Perched several hundred feet in the air, you may feel you are swimming in the sky. Vistas overlooks the beaches of this swanky European-influenced island.

    Beaches views from above

    Rooms are designed in soft earth tones, and with natural textiles, all sea-facing. Some have private outdoor showers, and all have flat-screen Apple TVs and found objects. Bleached animal skulls, driftwood sculptures, and gigantic white shells add to the nature-inspired villa vibe.

    Master bedroom exterior Master bedroom

    The master bedroom’s king-sized bed faces floor-to-ceiling glass doors that open to the pool. One feels miles above the world, both literally and figuratively. A welcomed distance from reality.

    Overview

    USP: The infinity pool and patio have tiers of large, double-wide sun loungers and captivating views of Eden Rock Resort. Guests will find themselves in a constant conundrum—wanting to explore the island but never wanting to leave the villa. With a dedicated butler and French chef on hand, there is virtually no need.

    Cocktails Breakfast view

    Get villa-inspired

    Many of these villas fall firmly in the ‘understated luxury’ category. But there are countless iterations of this vacation to suit different budgets and geographic restraints.

    There are local Airbnbs, far-flung Airbnb Luxe destinations, intimate cabin stays glamping or mountain treehouses. Then, of course, there are luxury hotels that offer private villas and residences. All you need is a bit of inspiration and creativity. A villa vacation can’t come soon enough.

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  • Discover Why Esperanza is the Family Escape You Need

    The resort we chose for spring break, not surprisingly, needed to be family-friendly. There is a difference, however, between family-friendly and completely geared toward kids. Striking that balance is never easy, many places have good intentions but fail. Esperanza, in Cabo San Lucas, Mexico, had been recommended to me over the years, so we went for it.

    It managed to combine all the touches that would make my husband and me happy: the gorgeous views, great food, and thoughtful service, as well as all the things our kids would want. When we booked, we had no idea what would happen in the world just a few months later, but we pushed forward and ended up with a (different kind of) trip to remember.


    A Day Like Any Other

    It’s March 11th. The president has just announced that all US nationals must return from Europe. There is panic overseas as Americans scramble to get home within two days. There is panic at airports and at universities where students study abroad. There is panic everywhere, it seems. I panic, too.

    That evening, my husband and I went back and forth about whether we stay home or go away as planned to Mexico. It’s our kid’s spring break, that coveted two-week bridge between winter and spring, cold and hot. We agree—we will go. An hour later, we agree again—we should stay. The next morning, we agree one more time—let’s just go. Rarely are our views so aligned! Yet, it was far from comforting.

    We are aware that this might be our last vacation for a while. We grasp that we are on the cusp of something big. We know our family would benefit from time away, together, and outside of the escalating chaos. We realize that if we go, things will look much different when we return.

    We organize ourselves. We prepare to turn around upon touchdown, or, to stay indefinitely, and pack accordingly. Six bottles of Theraflu, five canisters of disinfectant wipes, and three hand pumps of Purell. Is that enough? Are we really going? What did we agree upon again?

    It’s March 14th. Lift off.

    Touch Down

    When we landed in Cabo San Lucas, we were keenly aware that this vacation would be unlike any other. A telling sign was that our plane, normally booked solid at this time of year, boarded only 30 passengers. Social distancing, a term swiftly creeping into everyday vernacular, was not an issue.

    The days ahead would be inherently more reflective and heavier with the uncertainty of the future. I knew this trip would be inked in my memory, and not for the usual reasons.

    Esperanza at night

    Esperanza

    Often, I write about the overall feel of a destination, the gestalt—to use a theory that would make my art history professor proud. My brain simplifies and organizes ideas in a way that is more user-friendly, and more interesting to read. For instance, describing the way the bedsheets felt, or what combination of spices were in that delicious tortilla soup. How, and if, the resort organically settled into its surroundings. Details that prove to be big and important in the world of inspirational travel. Details that make for pretty sound bites.

    Esperanza, as anyone can see from photos, is a stunning property that sits upon a jagged cliff above the Sea of Cortez. There is much I can say about the beauty, both natural, and man-made, of this Auberge-owned hotel.

    I am going to focus more on the feelings that made our time in Mexico worthwhile, to illustrate the emotive piece of the trip. And, I’m going to write about whales.

    Cocina del Mar restaurant

    Rituals

    The main restaurant at Esperanza, Cocina del Mar, is an aerie—as easily suited to hawks as humans, perched high above a small beach. On the way to breakfast each morning, the kids raced to the circular landing at its entrance to glimpse the daily sand drawing. Along the way, we all tried to guess what it might be—a crab, sailboat, and shell. Why this part of the day became such a highlight amused me. I think the idea of a happy surprise was needed, no matter how small.

    I naturally fell into a daily ritual of my own. First, I ordered a wellness shot of turmeric root, lime juice, pineapple, and ginger. I didn’t actually enjoy its robust taste or its jarring school bus color, but I wistfully imagined its medicinal value could keep a virus at bay.

    Cocina del Mar views

    What’s Newsworthy?

    Next, I read the news, a 15-minute self-imposed maximum, as it made my heart race and my skin heat up. Wasn’t I here partly to escape the news cycle—which was inconsistent, filled with misinformation, and designed to terrify?

    Lastly, I looked at the sea, training my vision for the tell-tale puffs of air that signaled a whale’s presence. Some mornings, they popped through the surface like champagne corks on New Year’s Eve, and other days, they were more elusive. This morning routine settled me, and the whale spotting became another highlight of my day. It gave me restorative moments of calm. By the second breakfast, the waiters knew my order, where I liked to be seated, and had a pair of binoculars on standby.

    During our week at Esperanza, the world outlook became bleaker, the news became direr. I woke up each day, wondering if this was going to be the last, that we would have to pack up and go. I relied upon the whales to ground my spinning thoughts.

    Color and light

    The color palette of Esperanza mimicked the landscape. Pale blue, inky blue, beige, and foamy white—naturally soothing colors. Rolling waves edged up, and then crashed below, the rocky promontory where I sat, showing off as if they were a slo-mo video capture for the latest iPhone commercial. Who knew how deafening the sound of the sea could be until you had all the time in the world to listen?

    The light was so pretty it appeared to stick to the obsidian-textured rocks. Several hundred wet, black crabs moved as one over them, giving the impression that the rocks were fluid, rather than solid. The gestalt theory again, is the principle of ‘common fate’—that our brains will lump together individual things that move in a similar direction as a group, and consider it one stimulus. It’s pretty clear I had too much time alone with my thoughts at this point, isn’t it?

    Beach view with restaurant

    Animal Kingdom

    I watched the cast of crabs (yes, that is the technical term, I just googled it) scuttle as a unit, and immediately felt my blood pressure plummet. Why don’t I watch the Discovery Channel more often, I chided myself. It’s cheaper than therapy! Wildlife viewing—an organic cure-all.

    A pair of iguanas played peek-a-boo around the desert-like boulders near the pool. I gathered they were the resident reptiles, and for many days spied them searching for whales with me.

    Inside bar scene

    Little Kindnesses

    It was clear early on that the resort was overstaffed, having prepared for the normal onslaught of families worldwide to fill their swimming pools, belly up to their bars, and keep the tennis pros on their toes. The resort, a mix of haciendas, suites, villas, and casitas, looked to be at about 40% capacity when we arrived. When we departed, I sensed there were only about 40 guests left.

    Lunch at Esperanza

    Waiters glided about the palm-thatched and open-air restaurants, never forgetting an extra wedge of lime for a beer or the preference for soy milk over cow. This was made only slightly easier to remember by the unfortunate fact that the staff outnumbered the guests. At Esperanza, however, attentive service was par for the course, served daily with warm, engaging smiles.

    I was impressed by the above-and-beyond kindnesses, the silent and unsaid courtesies that were extended to everyone, by everyone, all of the time. It was as if the waiters, pool staff, and groundskeepers all knew that something was changing and that it may be a while before they returned to any sense of normalcy. They were right.

    Dinner views

    Images

    I can’t say we didn’t fully take advantage of the bubble we found ourselves in that week. Our family bonded in a different way than usual. We were very together, a precursor for the weeks of togetherness ahead.

    My son and husband went on a few long desert runs, harassing skittish rabbits along the way. The kids rode waves with local surf instructors. I spent hours coloring with fine-tipped sharpies on the balcony—my current obsession, while the kids made Tik Toks—their current obsession. All of us tore through novels, having brought stacks from home.

    Fisherman by the sea Fisherman by the sea

    The Intrinsic Beauty of Esperanza

    I relished any moment that got me past recurring doomsday thoughts. The lulling beach hammock, the statuesque iguanas, the pool waiters who wore pins that cheerfully cried, ‘Yes way, rosé!’. The serendipitous moment I photographed a fisherman just as he reeled in his catch and the way he proudly held up his prize. The prismatic sunsets each night belied the dark state of the world. Those six nights stretched into forever.

    Entry of Esperanza

    The intrinsic beauty of Esperanza was seen, and felt, inside and out. The 17 acres of lush, well-kept gardens, and grounds, are complete with a lovely koi pond, and interesting kid-centric activities like bocce and life-sized chess. The intimate spa is an oasis within the oasis. The nightly bonfire on the balcony of the main entry—all contributed to that escape from reality we were seeking.

    Beaches in Cabo San Lucas

    Whales

    On the day that would become our last full day in Mexico, we spent a few hours at sea searching for whales. The boat picked us up from the pier, and we leisurely motored past the intsa-ready Arch of Cabo San Lucas. This natural rock formation, teetering on the brink of collapse, is located at the southern tip of the Baja Peninsula. Normally overrun with tourist boats competing for pole position, we nearly had it to ourselves.

    Arch of San Cabos

    Our captain was, not surprisingly, well versed in all things whale and had a keen eye for spotting them, even from incalculable distances.  Yet, as prepared as we were to see what we came for, witnessing the slow-motion corkscrew movement of a breaching whale is nothing short of heart-stopping. Even the biggest grumps in our group (ahem, Chase and Ella) were without words, maybe for the first time. The whales’ powerful and muscular bodies were awesome; their tails slapped the water like pancakes being flipped by a short-order cook.

    Seconds later, as if the universe was trying to tell me, ‘You’ve seen all there is to see here, don’t push your luck.’ a burst of texts from well-meaning friends alerted us of the recent world developments. ‘The US borders are closing’, they wrote — ‘when are you coming back?’

    Our time was up.

    Purple sunset views

    Closure

    We had managed six nights in Cabo San Lucas, and every one of them was a bonus in my eyes. I sat at breakfast, wellness shot in hand, that last morning. If Esperanza does any one thing to perfection, it is dining, where even the indoor seating feels like outdoor seating. And the views were transporting, regardless of the time of day.

    Adult pool

    Throughout the week, I noticed the guests that had canceled their trips by their absence on the neatly spaced pool loungers. (Loungers that would have been annoyingly spoken for by 7am each morning.) I noticed the lack of ambient noise and family chatter in the empty seats of the restaurants. It was a poignant, quiet, self-reflecting spring break. Not exactly what we had in mind when we booked all those months ago, but lovely in many ways, nonetheless.

    My mind filled in those gaps. Another principle of gestalt—is closure. In design, closure refers to how the brain will automatically fill in any missing pieces of an image to create a whole. What missing pieces will I bring back into my life, and what pieces will I purposely leave out when I get home?

    Esperanza will once again fill its pools, bars, and suites. It may be filling up as we speak, as restrictions loosen, and people decide they don’t want to cook, go food shopping, or clean dishes for a few days. The thoughtful, and extremely capable staff, is waiting. So are the whales. I’m hoping that the whales are waiting, too.

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  • Botswana is The Magic Kingdom

    Botswana is The Magic Kingdom

    Why go to Botswana? Traveling to Botswana for a safari with my family remains one of my top experiences. Having the opportunity to see the wildlife of remote Botswana and travel through the vast inlets of the Okavango Delta was life-altering. I hope that Botswana stays as untouched and wild as the week we spent there a few years ago. Read on to discover the magic of Africa, Botswana, and the animals of the Okavango Delta.


    There is no sound I can think of that compares to that of the African bush. Silence. Almost complete silence, except for the distant (and sometimes not so distant) roar of a lion, the slow, steady, padded thump of an elephant, and the crunch of teeth on bone. The chorus of the wildlife.

    What helps make Botswana especially magical is how remote and small you feel: hours and hours, sometimes an entire day, without seeing another soul apart from your guide. I can’t remember ever feeling so happily unplugged yet so blissfully connected.

    Selinda Camp view

    Into the Delta in Botswana

    We arrive by bush plane from Maun, having spent three nights in neighboring South Africa. A jeep picks us up on the tarmac, nothing more than a strip of land in the open plains. Iconic baobab trees, known as ‘trees of life,’ pop up in the distance.

    Giraffes in the distance

    My son asks how long it will take to get to Selinda Camp, our home in the delta, for the next few days. He is eager to start the safari. Little does he know that it has already begun. Two minutes into our drive, we spot a giraffe craning its long neck above the tree line. Hello, Botswana!

    Hippos in Botswana

    From the jeep, we hop into a small boat to take us to camp. We pass a pod of hippos who are visibly unhappy with us for invading their peaceful waters. Our guide, Foster, knows this pod well. He knows their habits and gives them a wide berth. It’s no less unnerving to see their dark eyes slowly dip below the surface, not knowing where they might pop up next. My daughter, Ella, is not amused.

    Selinda Camp dock

    As we motor towards the Selinda Camp dock, we notice a faint sound. It’s singing. As we get closer, the people attached to the lovely voices are the entire staff of Selinda Camp announcing our arrival in song. An unforgettable sound. An unforgettable welcome.

    Cheetah in Botswana

    Botswana: Life in the wild

    Throughout our three-day and six-game drives in Botswana, we are treated to one magical experience after another. We track a cheetah at sunrise and watch a pride of lions devour a cape buffalo.

    Cheetah at sunrise

    The next day, we catch a solitary elephant off guard as we barrel past it in our jeep en route to a possible leopard sighting. Quite disturbed, and rightly so, he bucks and trumpets in annoyance.

     Elephants in the fields

    Later that evening, we nearly crossed paths with a hungry hyena on our way back to our tent. As is required at night, we are with a guide. However, I’m slightly uneasy after being told that Botswana guides carry no weapons. They depend solely upon their skills to read the animal’s movements to keep guests safe. I tell myself to trust the system and, more importantly, the guides.

    Botswana’s Foster, the all-knowing guide

    Our soft-spoken, omniscient, gentle guide is named Foster. Without a doubt, Foster is one of the highlights of our Botswana journey. Foster knows the Delta like the back of his hand. He knows where we can safely cross the Okavango based on rainfall, vehicle type, and time of day.

    Foster knows just where to go ‘off-road’, and dive head-on into a wild patch of sage or scrub, to find a leopard lounging on a tree limb. He often yells out, ‘Hold on tight!’, and we do. It’s exhilarating.

    The wake-ups in Botswana are early. Our tween daughter is not amused again, complaining about waking up while it’s still dark. Sensing her pre-dawn dismay, Foster poses a question in his soothing and low baritone voice. ’Ella, what is the purpose of this day?” An interesting conversation between them follows. The sun rises and reveals the animals at their most active times. The early wake-up is quickly forgotten.

    Southern Pride of Botswana

    One afternoon, we come upon a pride of lions, the Southern Pride, as they are locally known. Foster kills the engine, and we spend a few hours observing them. The big cats laze about, yawn, and tend to their young.

    The cubs frolic in their happy and utterly carefree existence. A few times, the lions find shade in the shadow of our open Land Rover — an unnerving and utterly silent experience. As mentioned earlier, Foster was without a weapon. I repeat my mantra—trust the guides- as I pull my son tighter towards me. Lion by safari vehicle

    We are all holding our breath. In a low whisper, I lean in and ask Foster how he’s sure the lions won’t attack. They are curious and within two feet of us. There are no windows or barriers between us.

    Speaking softly and without taking his eyes from the lion’s face, he says he can read their movements. That he can sense agitation or contentment by the twitch of an eye. His concentration is absolute. I believe him. Do I have a choice? We later discover that Foster has not only been an experienced guide for many decades but was given the high honor of taking the president of his country on a safari.

    Do I trust him? Implicitly.

     Selinda Camp common areas and pool

    Camp Life, Botswana

    Our tent at Selinda is rustic-chic and luxurious. It dons safari-style campaign furniture originally designed to be folded up and transported distances. It looked like a window display for the Louis Vuitton showroom in NYC.

    Selinda Camp tent

    No detail is too small to be overlooked. Yoga mats sit in a basket beside the door. Powerful binoculars sit by the bed. A beautifully crafted vintage liquor cabinet is stocked with port, bourbon, and whisky. Etched crystal glasses and a bucket of ice on the ready. There are reading glasses and books for us, watercolors, and sketch pads for the kids. A claw-footed tub and rain shower. All we could want or need.

    We are told that Sydney, the ‘resident’ elephant, enjoys relaxing near our tent. One of my most memorable moments of the trip is hearing her gentle feet padding past our tent in the middle of the night. Her massive body scrapes the soft walls. I want to get out of bed and peek outside, but I’m paralyzed—both terrified and thrilled simultaneously.

    Elephants in the fields

    Botswana’s delta

    The Okavango Delta spans 15,000 square miles, and by August, the water fans out slowly, and sometimes randomly, throughout the southern regions of the delta. Not surprisingly, this often makes crossing it a challenge.

    Leopard in tree Botswana

    There are few bridges, as the water ebbs and flows differently throughout the year. Thankfully, Foster sees the waterways as we would see highways, and navigates with ease.

    Game drive

    Late one afternoon, we stop at the Delta’s edge for a sundowner on our way back to Selinda Camp. The crossing we made in the morning is hours away and in the opposite direction of the camp. “How will we get back?”, our daughter asks. He looked straight ahead and points to the Delta.

    Before we can say another word, he pulls up to the inlet and tells us to raise our feet as high as we can. I wonder if we will have to hold our breath. How does he know there aren’t any hungry hippos lurking below the surface?

    Foster confidently shifts into gear. Moments later, our Land Rover is halfway submerged in the Delta, nearly level with the exhaust pipe that pokes from the front hood like a submarine periscope.

    I pray to the hippo gods that today isn’t our last. Out of the hundreds of small waterways like this, how is he to know how deep this one is? Those few minutes of crossing the Delta may have taken years off my life but it did save us three hours of driving. Trust the guides.

    Gazelles

    Foster’s Surprise

    With a heavy heart, we find ourselves on our final night in Botswana. Yet, after a full afternoon’s game drive we are ready to shower off the dust and change for dinner. As we tumble from the jeep, Foster surprises us by saying he has one last thing to show us.

    Lions, cheetahs, leopards, rare birds, hippos, warthogs, and more—what is left to see, I wonder? Trusting Foster one last time, we pile our weary bodies back into the jeep just as the sun is starting its fiery descent.

    White Rhinos

    Twenty minutes of bouncing away from camp, away from a hot shower and food I think sadly. Then my gaze falls upon a distant field of blinking lanterns, which then lead up to a blazing bonfire. An open bar and an enormous communal dining table come into view.

    Sunset dinner

    Hemingway’s Africa

    The entire Selinda Camp staff is there to prepare and enjoy our final dinner with us by candlelight. Wine is free-flowing and the stories from the day’s drive get bigger and more fantastical. Food is in abundance. Music and laughter fill the sky. The guides, staff, and tourists share one last meal together as a group.

    The sun finally disappears behind a row of perfectly placed palm trees, and at that moment I decide I don’t want to go home.

    Hemingway wrote, in his book The Green Hills of Africa, “All I wanted to do was get back to Africa. We had not left it yet, but when I would wake in the night I would lie, listening, homesick for it already.”

    Cheetah at sunrise

    My emotions are captured to perfection. I am already missing the sounds of Africa, the hippos and lions in the distance, the cackle of a hyena, and the scurrying of small animals outside the tent. Going to sleep each night is the final act of an utterly fabulous show. In my tent, I imagine I was not the only one at camp who fought sleep, never wanting it to end.

    Leopard sighting in Botswana

  • Is San Miguel the World’s Best City? You decide.

    Exploring San Miguel de Allende, Mexico  /

    Visit San Miguel de Allende between March and April. That‘s when the intensely vivid purple Jacaranda trees take over the already majestic landscape. But even if you miss the blooming Jacarandas, you won’t be disappointed. San Miguel is a city that is entirely built around color. Rich ochres, terra cottas, burnt oranges, and lush persimmon dress the Spanish Colonial architecture. They fill every street and passageway with warmth.

    Throughout the day, light bounces off the colorful stucco walls, creating ever-changing hues and textures. As the day turns to dusk, those colors shift even further, creating subtler and richer variances.

    Named a UNESCO World Heritage Site in 2008, San Miguel is one of the prettiest and best-preserved hamlets in the Americas. It’s easy to see how this beautiful town, built into the side of a mountain in central Mexico, has been a haven for artists, writers, and ex-pats for decades. Unfortunately, the secret is officially out, as San Miguel was voted the best city in the world by Travel + Leisure in 2017 and 2018. It dropped a spot in 2020 but bounced back with a vengeance to recover its title in 2021.

    Does San Miguel deserve the honor? Let’s find out.

    Parroquia de San Miguel Arcangel

    The centerpiece of San Miguel is, without a doubt, the looming neo-gothic church, Parroquia de San Miguel Arcangel. Built in the 17th c. with pink and orange facades, spires, and pinnacles, it’s not only the tallest building in San Miguel but the most spectacular. It’s a magical spot from dusk until dawn. Street vendors line the plaza, their heads piled high with straw hats or trailing kids’ balloons.

    Folk artists sell their masterpieces. Mariachi bands strike up a tune on a whim. Costumed street performers complete the lively scene. I sit and enjoy the evolving light that plays out over the Gaudi-inspired church. The most iconic piece of architecture in the city, it‘s said that Barcelona’s Sagrada Familia inspired it.

    The trees around Plaza El Jardin are tightly manicured, looking as if they were each given a severe bob haircut. The benches that line the plaza are a great respite from the hot sun and to relax during the day.

    Rooftop Life

    San Miguel is a city that is best seen from two distinct vantage points, street level and from high above. The street level has meandering narrow cobbled alleyways, and I stumble upon an espresso bar cut into the side of a building wall. Ceramic boutiques, art galleries, and free-standing sculptures hide in other alleys. I spy local kids hanging from windows and couples walking hand in hand. Lovely trees abound and add even more color to the illustrious palette.

    The other viewpoint is from a perch high above. There are many places in San Miguel in which to achieve this. Our favorite spot by far is Luna Rooftop Tapas Bar at the Rosewood Hotel. A magnificent rooftop in its own right, even if it didn’t boast the best views in the city. But it does, and that’s how we find ourselves lounging for a few hours with cocktails and light tapas as the sun starts its slow descent and lights up the skyline like a Broadway show.

    The lucky ones score front-row seats—prime tables with unobstructed views of La Parroquia and its transforming colors. I am awed to think that this happens nearly every night of the year here in San Miguel.

    Casa Estana

    Thanks to a friend’s generosity, we are invited to stay in his villa just off the main square. Casa Estana is a three-bedroom villa with a spectacular roof deck—the true meaning of a hidden gem.

    The unassuming door off the street gives us no inkling of what luxury was to be found inside. We enter an open courtyard with stone fountains. Then we walk through another door into the perfectly appointed home. A modern kitchen, multiple fireplaces, luxury linens, and towels. Colorful flowers adorn the tables on each level.

    The true highlight of Casa Estana Is its charming and spacious roof deck. It’s a place to unwind on its plush couches, look down upon the lush trees, or have a drink by the fire pit. Casa Estana has this amazing knack for making us feel like we are in the action and outside of the action simultaneously.

    Eating our way through the city

    San Miguel has become known as a gastronomic hub in recent years. At one time San Miguel catered to backpackers, but today its appeal is far wider. Restaurants like Moxi and Áperi have attracted a refined and luxury-minded base of travelers to the city.

    We eat a few meals at Casa Estana, as it’s a challenge to leave the beauty of the roof deck. One day we venture to Café Muro for lunch. Café Muro is a simple place with wooden chairs and metal tables. Folk art hangs askew on the walls. Located on a dead-end street, it’s easy to miss.

    The Mexican food is authentic, and without pretense. I have a bowl of tortilla soup that I‘ll dream about years later. The fresh, crispy tortilla strips are placed at the bottom of the bowl. Our server slowly pours a warm rich broth over it. The soup is then topped off with fresh sour cream and chopped herbs. Sopa Azteca is perfection in a bowl.


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    Side trip in San Miguel—Sanctuary Atotonilco

    We are told a trip to San Miguel would not be complete without a stop at the Sanctuary Atotonilco. Located about 15 minutes outside of the city, it is an 18th-century church complex and is now a World Heritage Site. An incredible example of Mexican Baroque art and architecture, the murals, inscriptions, and frescoes that adorn every wall and ceiling of the church leave me speechless.

    It’s said that the landscape of the town of Atotonilco is reminiscent of Jerusalem, which gives the site an even holier aura. Mesquite trees, desert scrub, and acacia trees are in abundance and we feel transported back in time while walking the grounds.

    The exterior of the church is simple and plain, which makes the experience of entering so much more magical. It’s completely unexpected. We spend an hour admiring the architecture and art before leaving for an al fresco lunch near Nirvana, a little oasis in the countryside.

    So long, San Miguel

    Time passes at a leisurely pace. The beautiful old buildings and churches catch us at every turn, adding to the innate charm of San Miguel. It’s a happy city. A colorful city. And above all, a city that begs us to return.


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  • St Barths is always a good idea

    St Barths is always a good idea

    If a picture is worth a thousand words, then this post will virtually write itself. With boundless blue skies, and streaks of white clouds that read more watercolor than a photograph, St Barths is one unending photo op after another. To paraphrase a famous quote “St Barths is always a good idea.” I couldn’t agree more.

    View from plane

    St. Barthélemy

    Not more than a speck in the West Indies, St Barths was discovered by Christopher Columbus in 1493. With a population that hovers near 10,000, French-speaking and French-influenced, this Caribbean island makes up for its small size with a grand personality. Luxury and boutique shopping, swanky restaurants, superfine, white sandy beaches, and trendy nightclubs only begin to scratch the surface of what’s on offer.

    St Barths view

    However, this post is not about St Barths, per se. It is about an extraordinary villa that just happens to be on this extraordinary island. A volcanic island that is surrounded by shallow reefs, and shades of blue water that are—to use a common cliché—indescribable. Attempting brevity, and allowing the story to unfold through the photographs, I will try my best not to overhype.

    Although I won’t promise.

    Ixfalia sign Mokes

    Villa Ixfalia

    Winding up the steep, narrow streets towards the villa, streets that seem to defy the laws of traction and gravity, was an adventure in itself. A sharp inhale at each curve, wondering if a truck or car was careening toward us from the opposite direction. 

    St Barths has made a miraculous recovery since Irma, but there is much activity and building going on, which makes the roads even more precarious. I allow myself to exhale—we have arrived. It is the highest point on this lush, green north-facing hillside. Villa Ixfalia.

    Entrance to Ixfalia Swinging hammock chair

    Enter at your own risk

    The overgrown jungle-like entrance to Ixfalia is deceptive. Perhaps this is intentional. A way to create even greater impact—like the opening of the velvet curtain at showtime, or the unveiling of a piece of art. Walk along the wooden planked path, through the wide, glass threshold, and into the open-air living space. Twenty or more rattan lampshades lazily sway above you. Varying in shapes and sizes, and dangling at varying heights, they create a mesmerizing display.

    Living Room

    However, as beautiful as the lights may be, chances are you won’t notice them, as your eyes are reflectively drawn forward.

    Cue the panorama—the only thing that lies between you and the sea is a glacier-blue infinity pool. A pool that will make you feel like you are swimming in the sky.

    Pool views

    Villa life at Ixfalia

    Ixfalia is perched several hundred feet in the air, majestically overlooking St Jean Beach and the iconic red-roof-topped Eden Rock Hotel. The blurring of indoor and outdoor living at the villa is reinforced at every turn. Rooms are wide open to the sea in nearly every direction, with modern, sheer shades that can be electronically maneuvered when needed.

    Living room Pool views

    There is surround sound music that can be accessed through your personal Sonos. Don’t have a St Barths playlist? No worries, as there are a few pre-made on hand. We immediately plugged in, then jumped from daytime pool party to pre-dinner lounge party, to post-dinner dance party—everyone a DJ with competing playlists.

    Living room Pool views

    Chasing the sun in St Barths

    As with any well-designed villa, there are multiple places to relax, have cocktails, or disappear with a good book.

    Tiered patio areas offered large, soft, double-wide sun loungers. It became a daily game of leapfrog, as we lost the sun over the hillside and moved from one sunny tier to another.

    Pool at sunset Pool at sunset

    Once the last drop light gave out, we prepared ourselves for sunset with spicy margueritas. We then watched the beautiful streaks of color, oranges, and purples, crisscross the sky in front of us.

    Bedroom Bedroom

    At Ixfalia, It’s all in the details

    Each of the four bedrooms at Ixfalia is designed in soft woods tones and natural textiles. A study in white, various shades blending and melding. Driftwood is used generously throughout the property, both in elegant, organic ways, as well as in functional ways.

    A driftwood seating area doubles as art from afar, a large entanglement of wood is perfectly placed on an otherwise blank wall. It is the opposite of glitzy ornamental opulence; there are natural finishes vs. gold-plated ones. Sandstone, sand, and shells rather than gemstones, mirrors, and baubles.

    Master bedroom exterior Master bedroom views

    Ixfalia Masterd the villa in St Barths

    The master bedroom is slightly separated from the main villa, facing the sweeping sea views — with a magnificent rock formation framed behind it. Among its many amenities, it boasts an enormous bathroom, complete with a stand-alone tub and open-plan rain shower.

    Master bedroom interior Master bathroom

    Master bathroom Master bedroom interior

    The walk-in closet is so large, Stella McCartney could organize her next fashion show from it with room to spare. The king bed is centered and faces the floor-to-ceiling sliding glass doors that lead to the pool, and then onwards to the sea. Again, you feel like you are miles above the world, staring straight into the sky.

    Bedroom Indoor outdoor shower

    Found objects

    The other rooms are sea-facing as well, some with private outdoor showers, all with flat-screen Apple TVs, and found objects on display. Bleached animal skulls, organic sculptures, gigantic white shells, and beadwork, among them. Every room is different, yet each with a similar low-key vibe and complimenting color palette. Rattan is a strong natural feature throughout the rooms, from the tall, standing lamps and ottomans, to the delicate cup holders that hide a bottle of Evian on the night table.

    Patio views and loungers

    We found ourselves in a constant conundrum—wanting to explore the island but never wanting to leave the villa.

    Pool views

    Seeing (Eden Roc) Red

    Red may not be the first color that comes to mind when imagining St Barths, but it is the primary color of Eden Rock, a premier luxury resort that also owns about 100 villas dotted around the island. An Eden Rock villa will give you extra perks: pole position loungers at Nikki Beach, hard to get dinner reservations, delivery of your rental car to the villa, and daily maid service, to name a few.

    Pool views

    An ‘Ultraluxe’ Eden Rock villa includes a dedicated butler and chef, which takes villa living to an entirely new level. Eden Rock red certainly equals access on this island, and access in St Barths can be critical depending on how much or how little you’d like to do.

    Cocktails

    Carla

    The very first touch point of our trip was Carla, and up until the moment we departed, she was one of the highlights of our stay. Never without a smile, a kind word, a laugh, and a ‘with pleasure’ when asked to help, we could not have had the same trip without her.

    Carla was born in Johannesburg, but raised in Italy. Her career in hospitality has taken her from Europe, to America, and back to Europe, before her current role at Eden Rock. She told us funny stories of playing Chip, from Chip and Dale, while working at the Disney cruise line. Her flawless French is mixed with a twinge of her native Italian and adds to her effervescent charm.

    Pool views Pool views

    As I said to my husband early on, it was as if she anticipated our every need. In the gorgeous open plan of Ixfalia, she was somehow always there when needed, and magically disappeared when we didn’t.

    Cocktails

    Some joked it was going to be hard to go back to reality without Carla. What I later thought was that I wanted to go back to reality and channel a little bit of my ‘inner Carla’. Her genuine sense of kindness and her ability to deliver happiness was contagious. An extra beam of light in sunny St Barths.

    Carla and Virginie

    The talented Ms. Virginie

    The same goes for Virginie, our lovely French chef. Not only was every meal perfectly presented, both verbally and artistically, she was always smiling and happy to take requests. She shared photos of her adorable newborn son, a foodie in the making!

    Breakfast view Breakfast view

    Breakfast each morning was a carb-oholic’s dream. Her grandmother’s brioche french toast was a true highlight, so delicate and warm, it would have been a sin to add syrup. Each morning I swore I wouldn’t indulge, yet each morning I did. The secret, she confided, was that the brioche was soaked overnight in cream. Vacation calories don’t count, right?

    Brioche french toast Fruit platter

    If you don’t have a sweet tooth, however, she had many other tricks up her sleeve: a homemade chia pudding topped with granola, platters of artfully presented fresh fruit, soft scrambled eggs with herbs and ham, and perfectly crisped bacon, to name a few.

    Breakfast view

    Fresh juices: beet, green, and pineapple lined the table, as did grilled baguette drizzled with olive oil. Carla and Virginie seemed to have memorized each of our caffeine vices upon arrival and had cappuccinos or herbal teas brewing as we sat down.

    Nikki Beach Sushi platter

    Nikki Beach, St Barths 

    As with Carla, Virginie seemed to anticipate our every culinary need. On Sunday we were booked at Nikki Beach for brunch, a daytime pool club/restaurant that gains momentum as the day goes on.

    Nikki Beach Nikki Beach

    Waiters dance with magnums of rosé on their shoulders, saxophonists perform on tabletops, and eventually, most of the room, young and old, is up and moving. The music imperceptibly ratchets up over time, so that you might find yourself struggling to have a conversation.

    Dinner view

    Knowing full well that we wouldn’t want a heavy meal later on as planned, Virginie suggested a homemade pizza night. After indulging at Nikki Beach, it was the perfect way to end our day.  Every few minutes a new pizza emerged: veggie, pepperoni, four cheese, and truffle among them.

    Steak Bernaise Dinner table Dessert

    Virginie whipped up so many fantastic meals that we began to rethink our ‘in v. out’ food strategy. Her steak with homemade Bernaise sauce was divine, as was the decadent homemade chocolate chip cookie topped with ice cream.

    Lunch

    We enjoyed a lunch of roast chicken with rosemary, quinoa salad, and baked cauliflower. It was a side dish that became a main dish: a full head of cauliflower that had been baked in spices for over two hours, then sliced table-side like a birthday cake. I am still waiting for the recipe, Virginie!

    Le Toiny Le Toiny

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    St Barths: Beyond Ixfalia

    No mega-resorts line the beachfront of St Barths, and only a handful of low-key, high-end hotels like Le Toiny and Eden Rock have been within the jet-set crosshairs for decades. There is certainly an unruffled movie star quality to the people. An air of white linen, and understated elegance that is as breezy and natural as the island itself. All within these 25 square miles seems to have more sunlight than is physically possible.

    Le Toiny beach Le Toiny beach

    In v. Out, Le déjeuner on St Barths

    We sacrificed villa time for a few noteworthy excursions. We headed to the understated beach restaurant at the glamorous Hotel Le Toiny. The property has been fully rebuilt since Irma and is nothing short of spectacular. The spare and wild coastline will have you imagining that you have the island to yourself.

    Le Toiny beach Le Toiny beach

    The restaurant digs its feet (and tables!) firmly into the sand, no shoes are required, (or even allowed), as there is a wooden shelf to stack them as you arrive. But don’t be fooled, it is as upscale and decadent as a beach restaurant can be.

    In v. Out, le dîner on St Barths

    There is no shortage of dining options on the island, but getting a reservation is still a trial during the high season, so booking early is certainly the way to go. We opted for tiny L’Isola, a modern, Italian, boutique restaurant by Santa Monica chef, Fabrizio Bianconi.

    L’Isola boldly dares to abide away from the beach and is tucked on the edge of St Barths’ capital, Gustavia. Despite its location, it draws a crowd that will have you standing three deep at the long, inviting bar, waiting for his inventive fare. The room is low-lit, yet the buzz is high, and you could imagine you are in Milan or NYC as easily as St Barths.

    Le Colombier

    Beach life on St Barths

    The rugged, rocky coastline of St Barths is possibly the most beautiful natural element it possesses. The black, porous, volcanic rocks lump together along Columbier Beach in an Instagrammers dream setting. In fact, there were more than a few young girls who made the backdrop their personal photo studio. Selfies for miles.

    Le Colombier Goats

    Columbier is not easily found, and it is either a 25-minute coastal hike or a boat to gain access, which makes the beach all the more private and exclusive feeling. Sailboats and yachts dot the bay, and goats with their kids roam the rocks. It is a 180-degree shift from extravagant Nikki Beach, yet both are worth a trip in their own right.

    Shellona Beach

    St Barths is always a good idea

    To paraphrase Audrey Hepburn, there is very little reason not to go to St Barth’s. Whether you want to be hidden, be seen, or both/and, St Barths is one of the few Caribbean islands that has just about everything going for it. With the French twist, it also has the innate culture that some islands lack.

    Where I failed in brevity, I made up for it in detail. The story wrote itself, didn’t it? It’s all in the pictures.

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    Five reasons to get lost:

    • The hottest and one of the most well-known venues in St Barths is Le Ti. But don’t come for the food! Le Ti is part boudoir, part cabaret, and is always completely off the charts.

    • Shellona Beach at sundown is buzzy and relaxed. Grab a table in the sand, order a cocktail, and spend a few hours people-watching. Gorgeous women model clothes from the neighboring boutique, walking the beach like a catwalk. 

    • In-villa massages with ocean breezes are a great way to bridge the gap between day and night.

    • Virginie’s overnight cream-soaked brioche. Worth another mention.

    • Driving the iconic, colorful island mokes up and down the hills of St Barths. Equal parts are breathtaking and terrifying.

  • Finding love in Les Baux de Provence

    Provence has its own aura, its own colorful, magical, vibe. It was hard to decide where, in all of Provence, we wanted to use as our base. In the end, we chose Les Baux de Provence, and the bucolic hotel Baumanière to stay in. It was truly the most lovely place from which to explore the French countryside, not to mention being one of the best hotels among so many beautiful choices.


    Bucolic Baumanière, Les Baux de Provence / 

    In Provence, I fell in love — with an electric bike. I actually fell in love with many things in Provence, but the brand new matte black electric Peugeot was unexpected, I’ll admit. It had four speeds to help even the least fit cyclist tackle the ever-rolling hills of Les Alpilles. To be fair, I still found it quite challenging at times, even when I eventually needed to kick into turbo mode, as the ‘rolling’ hills at times felt, to me, like the Tour de France.

    Vineyard views from above

    It was undoubtedly a spectacular way to see this beautiful piece of Provence, passing olive groves, vineyards, and pine forests, stumbling upon tiny hilltop villages along the way.

     Exterior view of Baumaniere

    Past. meet present, in Les Baux de Provence

    Our five days in Provence were spent at the magnificent and secluded property of Baumanière. Set on nearly 50 acres, and at the base of the prehistoric and looming limestone rocks and village of Les Baux de Provence, Baumanière has both a timeless and modern quality all at once. 

    Exterior view of Baumaniere

    Neo-classical French fountains and water features are woven into the hardscape and landscape, details found in some of the intimate and perfectly manicured grass surrounded pools. Garden pools that make you feel like you are at the manor home of an eccentric and wealthy French uncle. Then there are the modern touches, the electric bikes, for instance, and the uber-stylized main building with its severe architectural lines and geometric sculptures.

    Exterior view of Baumaniere, guest house

    Most of Baumanière, in Les Baux de Provence, takes its cue from the past, the five manor houses that have now been turned into charming hotel suites, some with balconies overlooking bundles of hydrangeas and koi-filled ponds, some with large patios where you can order picnics and share a bottle of wine while reading Madame Bovary.

    Gardens of Baumaniere

    Climbing roses, purple agapanthus, pear trees, and pink oleanders are a mere fraction of what there is to discover while walking the grounds. Washed golden ochre walls from which green ivy delicately hangs. Large, ornate urns filled with overflowing petunias — all make for a setting that feels absolutely fairytale in nature. 


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    Outdoor dining table for Baumaniere

    Garden hideaway in Les Baux de Provence

    There are gardens at every turn, some displayed in a more typical French style while others feel wild and English. Roaming the property, your nose catches the scents of roses, lavender, and rosemary.

    Pool view of Baumaniere Pool view of Baumaniere

    Wander further, and you may find the more secluded pools, with their low wrought iron gates that squeak to announce your arrival. The pool attendant appeared as if on cue with water, rosé, or a plush towel. The cicadas strike up a chorus, low at first, almost unnoticeable, and then slowly ascending into a full crescendo, before becoming so dramatically silent, that the silence itself is startling. 

    Exterior view of Baumaniere with poplars

    Soft, green, iconic French poplars are perfectly positioned, giving height to the landscape in all the right places. Archways covered in lush jasmine, natural canopies of flowers, and secluded sitting areas dot the meandering acres of Baumanière. You could stay a week and never need to sit in the same place twice, so many alcoves and paths to explore.

    Streets of Les Baux de Provence Streets of Les Baux de Provence  Streets of Les Baux de Provence, Cheese Shop

    Les Baux de Provence

    It was hard to leave Baumanière at all but knew we would have missed out on what Provence had to offer us in beautifully arid July. We walked the steep hill to the village of Les Baux de Provence, and while more touristy as the day went on, we enjoyed getting lost in the maze of narrow, cobbled, pedestrian-only streets that seemed to switch back on themselves in every direction.

     Les Baux de Provence, overhead church view   Les Baux de Provence, overview

    Slowly, we made our way upwards to catch the views from the 10th c. clifftop castle that sits, in all its glorious ruins, at the highest point of Les Baux. We made a note to come back at sunset, excited to watch the sun’s fiery descent create a magical light show over the landscape and craggy rocks.

    Les Baux de Provence, lavender fields Les Baux de Provence, overhead view

    Biking Les Alpilles near Les Baux de Provence

    Les Alpilles, the mini-Alps, is a low range of mountains that encompass fifteen lovely communes including Les Baux-de-Provence, Eygalières, and Saint Rémy-de-Provence. Our ten-mile bike ride to the tiny, quiet, hilltop village of Eygalières was the catalyst for my love of electric bikes, as well as all things Provence.

    We passed fields of sunflowers bowing their large heads towards the eastern sun, as well as gated villas with long lavender-lined entryways. I imagined a future where I could bike to town, pick up a warm baguette, and bike home for lunch — on my beautiful electric bike, naturally.

    Houses of Eygalières Streets of Eygalières Houses of Eygalières Houses of Eygalières

    ancient hilltop villages

    We locked the bikes at the base of the village and hiked up the narrow streets, passing sea foam green and ice blue colored shutters that lay against the ancient stone-walled homes. Shutters, that in this part of the world, are functional, not merely decorative.

     Restaurant in Eygalières Lunch in Eygalières

    Lovely flower pots and window boxes sit in doorways, looking well cared for yet in the most nonchalant way. We sat for lunch at Le Progrès, a simple French bistro where we could watch the nuances of village life unfold around us.

    Churches of Eygalières Eygalières hilltop view

    We then walked to the church at the top of Eygalières and stopped to take in the quiet that surrounded us. Birds were silently swooping past, and we admired the way the light created shadows through the windows of the ancient church which sat high above the village.

      Covered bridge near Les Baux

    Stars under the stars

    L’Oustau Baumanière Restaurant, with its two Michelin stars, is a short walk from the manor houses of the hotel, and along a pretty, quiet lane dotted with houses and views up to Les Baux. Butterflies followed us as we walked as if they already knew how spectacular our dinner was going to be, and hoped to get an invitation.

     L'Oustau Baumanière Restaurant

    Walking out onto the sprawling sunlit patio of the restaurant, I still felt that I was playing the role of the manor guest. Mature trees acted as natural umbrellas, and waiters dressed in dark, tailored suits, seemed to outnumber the guests 2:1. The waiters were nearly invisible, as they were so swift and silent. A well-orchestrated dining ballet of sorts.

    L'Oustau Baumanière Restaurant

    There was a lovely buzz that surrounded the veranda, all of the guests dressed with an air of old-world elegance, and seemingly from all corners of the earth. I noticed one woman smoking leisurely at her table, looking like a movie star from days gone by. 

    L'Oustau Baumanière Restaurant, cheese course

    Champagne and cheese

    As a nod to days of formal dining, the champagne and cheese trolleys slowly wove in and around the tables throughout the night. Never one to pass on a cheese course, we let the waiter choose an array of local varieties and enjoyed a 2007 Châteauneuf du Pape, Clos du Pape from Baumanière’s enormous cellar. 

    We were told the cellars of Baumanière house more than 50,000 bottles of wine from all of the treasured wine regions of France. I had the wonderful opportunity to visit one of the cellars during our stay. Some vintages were from the turn of the century, and first-growth verticals that would make any wine lover’s head spin.

    Kindly, the sommelier indulged my love of wine and spent 30 minutes or so showing me around the collection. We had just discovered that he had been the mentor of our sommelier from Albert 1er Restaurant in Chamonix, where we had been staying only a week before. The wine world of France is certainly small and tightly connected!

    Saint Rémy-de-Provence street view Saint Rémy-de-Provence street view Saint Rémy-de-Provence cheese shop

    Boutique-y Saint Rémy

    Art galleries, boutiques, and charming sidewalk café life kept us busy for a morning in bustling Saint Rémy-de-Provence. There is a varied mix of locals and tourists, as Saint Rémy is certainly more of a town than a village. We walked among the cheese, wine, and chocolate shops of the old town and used another coffee break as an excuse to sit and watch the world pass us by.

    House where Nostradamus was born Church

    It was especially humbling to see the house where Nostradamus was born, dating back to the year 1503, and realize just how much history this part of France has to offer.

    Le Cabro D’Or Restaurant Le Cabro D’Or Restaurant

    The Golden Goat

    We didn’t see a single cloud for days. Dry air, warm temps, and aquamarine skies added to the dream-like quality of Provence. Our breakfasts were spent at the more casual restaurant at Baumanière, Le Cabro d’Or. It was there that I fell in love again—this time with lavender honey. I could happily spend hours on that veranda, fresh berries, granola, nuts, yogurts, all drizzled in local lavender honey—there was no need to ever leave!

    Le Cabro D’Or Restaurant for breakfast Le Cabro D’Or Restaurant cappuccino Le Cabro D’Or Restaurant terrace

    At night, Le Cabro D’Or doubled as the other dining option, and the food was as magical as the setting—wrought iron tables and chairs with simple white linens, which allowed the stunning scenery and setting sun to take center stage. Again, impeccable service, and the vast wine list, together created an atmosphere that reiterated why you never ever have to leave the property.

    Road leaving Baumaniere

    Au Revoir

    While it was hard to imagine leaving bucolic Baumanière and Les Baux, part of me knew that it was a special enough place to return to one day. Maybe, in fifteen years or so, I will have my electric bike, my warm baguette, and my own long, lavender-lined entryway to my gated villa in Provence. Just maybe.


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    Main pool view Baumaniere

    Five reasons to get lost:

    • Sitting poolside with a French picnic and a bottle of rosé
    • The baby goats that stumbled on their newborn legs in the small farm area on the property
    • Biking to small villages and towns in turbo mode
    • Looking through the well-curated wares of the on-site boutique at Baumanière
    • Coming upon a trio of hovering paragliders as we biked through the vineyards and olive groves

    Fiat 500 Abarth in yellow Sunset view Les Baux

  • Snow-capped Summer in Chamonix, France

    Snow-capped Summer in Chamonix, France

    Face to Face with Mont Blanc, Chamonix, France /

    You don’t have to be an intrepid mountaineer to get up close and personal with majestic Mont Blanc in Chamonix. You can do as we did, which was to take the first cable car up and be gratified instantly. We stood on the chilly observation deck, gawking at the looming mountain, not believing it could be so cold up here, while at the base the July temps were soaring into the high 70s.

    Hiker on Mont Blanc.

    Suddenly, what could have been a scene from Into Thin Air played out before us. A group of four climbers, wearing full climbing gear, complete with ice axes and crampons, quite literally threw a line over the observation deck and hoisted themselves onto the tourist-filled platform. Here we were, dressed in flip flops and t-shirts, a sharp contrast to the mountaineers’ Arctic attire. They had just summited Mont Blanc, the highest mountain of the Alps at 15,781ft, and were headed down.

    Hiker on Mont Blanc

    They spent a few minutes basking in the bright sun, accepting kudos from the crowd, contemplating what they had achieved, and taking obligatory selfies, before riding the gondola down with the rest of us mere mortals.

    L’Aiguille du Midi cable car L’Aiguille du Midi platform deck

    L’Aiguille du Midi

    L’Aiguille du Midi cable car links the idyllic town of Chamonix to Aiguille. In looking back at that day, I would have been better off not knowing I was about to step onto one of the highest cable cars in the world. I’m not afraid of heights, and have been on my fair share of cable cars in the past, but something about a system originally built in the 1920s (albeit modernized many times over the following century) would have felt unsettling. Fortunately, I overcame my fear, otherwise I would have missed the remarkable panorama of Mont Blanc and the Alps.

    Hôtel Hameau Albert 1er View of Mont Blanc

    Above the clouds

    Mont Blanc towers gloriously and steadfast above the charming ski town of Chamonix, which sits on the southeastern edge of France. Spanning the French-Italian border, it is forever capped in snow, and draws many fearless climbers and hikers each year. And while we had hiking plans during our stay there, Mont Blanc is in a league of its own, the highest mountain in the Alps, where crampons, ropes, and deep reserves of stamina are critical gear.

    Paragliding in Chamonix

    Ski towns in the summer always seem to have a special feeling about them, the greens richer due to the winter run-off, the blues deeper against the pine-filled mountains. I have spent many green summers in Vermont which has an equally beautiful vibe. However, Chamonix has an almost magical aura to it, crowded with adventure seekers, off-season ski bums and tourists alike. Paragliders seemingly so close to the mountains that they could comfortably throw a snowball.

      Mountain views

    Charming Chamonix

    Chamonix is unique in that you feel that you are tucked secretly away at the base of the sloping mountains, the Alps soaring high above you in every direction. It is incredibly dramatic, the razor sharp evergreen pines look like soldiers standing in rows at attention with military precision. Patches of the pine give way to different layers of trees, scrub and rock and then eventually snow caps, like icing on a cake. The glaciers are iridescent, often looking icy blue or even purple depending upon the light. But always moving, so we were told, at a surprising rate of 1000ft per year.

    HÔTEL HAMEAU ALBERT 1ER Hotel Hameau Albert 1er garden pot view

    Hôtel Hameau Albert 1er

    Perhaps one of the best parts of visiting Chamonix in the summer months is that all the colors of the flowers and greenery are brilliantly juxtaposed against the blue skies and white alpine mountain tops. A botanical rainbow of sorts. Tiger lilies were in season, and the orange and black-speckled wildflowers created another layer of colorful drama in an already dramatic setting.

    Hotel Hameau Albert 1er flowers and exterior Hotel Hameau Albert 1er flowers and exterior of hotel Hotel Hameau Albert 1er flowers and exterior of hotel Hotel Hameau Albert 1er flowers

    That said, flowers of every color and variety were on full polychromatic display at our hotel, which was just outside of the village center. The Hôtel Hameau Albert 1er is a Relais & Chateaux chalet-like lodge with its gaze firmly set upon Mont Blanc. Cozy, wooden, rustic rooms, many with balconies or patios that displayed window boxes overflowing with ivy and climbing red geraniums.

    Hotel Hameau Albert 1er pool view

    The swimming pool is indoor/outdoor in a unique way. A vaulted ceiling and panels of glass and wood allow the sun to stream inside, and when outside, those glass panels become reflective. So, even if your lounge chair isn’t facing the mountains, you can see them in all of their splendor.

    Bossons and Taconnaz glaciers

    Between the glaciers

    Our first hike, with the help of a cable car, started at an elevation of 4400ft and climbed virtually straight up to 8500ft. Daniel predicted it would take us about three hours. Fifteen minutes into the ascent, I was sure I was doomed. But then I settled into a comfortable pace and started to admire the surroundings, which took my mind off the challenge ahead. The terrain changed from pine, with brown needles that carpeted the ground, to hot pink wild azaleas and scrub, then further along we snaked high above the tree line where the flowers struggled to survive. Daniel, whether as a motivator to keep me moving, or not to hear any complaints, kept a solid ten yard distance between us. Smart man.

    Bossons and Taconnaz glaciers  Bossons and Taconnaz glaciers with wild flowers

    We scrambled over rocks and boulders, passing along a knife-edge ridge between two ominous glaciers, Bossons and Taconnaz, their menacing crevasses distinctly visible. We could hear deafening waterfalls as we turned one corner, then noticed the sound magically disappear as we rounded the next. It was mystifying how the mountains so abruptly absorbed the acoustics. We surprised some wildlife along the way, a lonely ibex leapt across our path, then later a fearless marmot followed us nearer to the summit.

    Gîte à Balmat, where the first summiters of Mont Blanc spent their first night in 1786

    Just before the three hour mark, we came upon a solo Austrian hiker on his way down. Daniel had thought we still had at least 30 minutes or so to summit, and the clouds were closing in, but the Austrian told us we were a mere ten minutes from the top, as we were just about to pass the famous sheltered boulders, Gîte à Balmat, where the first summiters of Mont Blanc spent their first night in 1786. Daniel was elated, we were ahead of the game, and maybe ahead of the weather.

    La Jonction at 8500ft

    As per the norm with our hikes, we were without a clear view when we reached La Jonction at 8500ft. We had been relatively lucky on the way up, and, thankfully, I capitalized on the views then, sometimes disguising rest stops as photo ops.

     La Jonction at 8500ft cloud cover

    Summit sans view

    We sat proudly at the summit, despite the clouds and impending rain, our ham sandwiches, chips and bottles of Coke tasted like the best lunch we’d ever had. As we were finishing up, it started to drizzle, and we zipped up to start the scramble down, a little more challenging due to the slippery rocks. The weather presented a unique sequence for us that day: thunder, rain, sun, hail, repeat.

     La Jonction at 8500ft

    The fog and clouds first obscured our views and then dramatically gave way to sunny patches that looked like a flashlight spotlighting Chamonix village far below. It was a spectacular day overall, and we felt we earned our upcoming two-star Michelin dinner that night at the hotel.

    Albert 1er Restaurant

    Albert 1er Restaurant

    The spare, elegant, wood-paneled, and white table-clothed dining room of Albert 1er Restaurant effortlessly allows the cuisine to take center stage. Not that it wouldn’t if in the most ornate of settings, as the plates are so artfully designed and visually enticing. The flavors blend together harmoniously, as they are partially sourced from the herb and kitchen gardens on the property. The fare is traditional French, using traditional French ingredients, but presented in an entirely non-traditional way.

    Albert 1er Restaurant dinner

    The written menu cleverly defies what you see on your plate when it arrives. The leeks, calf’s foot, egg yolk and Ossetra caviar dish, for example, looks completely different than what you would have perceived in your mind. Modern, artful, and skillfully designed. Chef Maillet succeeds in challenging every sense in just about every way.

    A family affair

    Chef Pierre Maillet’s culinary story is also a love story. Having worked for the original chef, Pierre Carrier, Maillet went on to marry Carrier’s daughter, Perrine. Together they have looked after the restaurant and preserved its two star status in the prestigious Michelin Guide. Perrine is visible nightly, greeting guests while gliding around the restaurant and glamorous Quartz Bar, which is complete with a lovely grand piano. You imagine that the French equivalent of Harry Connick Jr. could appear at any moment and start crooning.

    Albert 1er Restaurant outdoor view

    Wine-ing and dining

    Head sommelier, Marc-Henri Mialon seemed to be the lead player on the dining room floor with his subtle and mischievous sense of humor. We chose the set menu, paired with wine, which led with an intriguing Vin Mystère. At first glance, the mystery wine looked effervescent, like champagne. But that answer seemed too obvious. We spent some time thinking about it and incorrectly came up with a sparkling wine from Alsace. The correct answer? A sparkling Vouvray. Mialon luckily has much to choose from for his wine challenges, as the cellar at Albert 1er houses about 19,000 bottles.

    Albert 1er Restaurant tasting menu Albert 1er Restaurant tasting menu

    It was a fun and lively way to start the evening, taking away any stuffiness you might associate with a restaurant of this status. I appreciated the lighthearted approach to the wine, which can be an intimidating part of any dining experience. As an aside, we discovered a week later, while at La Baumanière in Provence, that the sommelier there had worked not long ago with Marc-Henri Mialon while at Albert 1er. A small wine world, indeed!

    Albert 1er Restaurant tasting menu

    The food and wine became more decadent with each course, from tomatoes, burrata and mackerel with kitchen garden herbs, to dace with pine bud honey, carrots, gingerbread and preserved lemon. Ten courses—an epicurean adventure—including a roving and overflowing cheese trolley. The final hurrah was a Crêpe Suzette made table-side, which actually wasn’t on the tasting menu, but that Daniel had his heart set on and we ordered anyway. Needless to say, we were happy we only had to walk about 100ft to our room. After the day’s colossal hike, and the night’s equally colossal dinner, we were officially ‘fini’.

    Village of Chamonix Village of Chamonix

    World Cup France v. Belgium

    Being in France during the World Cup frenzy was both a blessing and a curse. The village of Chamonix was pulsing with fans amped up for the matches. Finding a place that we could both enjoy a good meal as well as watch the soccer was a feat. After annoying my husband by walking aimlessly around town trying to find the ‘perfect’ spot, then vetoing a place he found with a large tv, (but no diners, bad sign!), we finally hit the jackpot. A bistro with one recently abandoned outdoor table that had pole position in front of the TV. We conspired to eat and drink as slowly as possible over the remainder of the 90 minute match as we couldn’t bear to give up our prime seats.

    Village of Chamonix

    France won and Chamonix erupted. It was a fantastic night, made even better by the much needed low-key contrast to the previous evening’s meal. Chamonix has lovely narrow streets filled with hidden dive bars, bistros and shops, many of which are geared towards the outdoor adventure set. The slightly intoxicated bartender at the bar we had visited pre-dinner was so excited when France scored that he abandoned his post, and headed to a neighboring bar to celebrate with a fellow bartender. He reappeared 15 minutes later, more intoxicated, and sent around complimentary shots. A win for everyone!

    Lac Blanc hike

    Lac Blanc

    Our second hike in Chamonix proved less lucky than the first weather-wise (not that our first was ideal, mind you) as we set out in clouds and spent the majority of the day in them as well. Yet, the Alps look breathtaking no matter what the weather, and being above the clouds created an alternate yet equally devastatingly scenic view. We were on our way to a reflective lake called Lac Blanc, known to be the most celebrated walk the Chamonix Valley.

    Lac Blanc hike blue lake Lac Blanc hiker

    Accessible by La Flégère cable car in Les Praz, the hike was shorter and less strenuous than La Jonction thankfully, but had more snow with which to contend. We inched across a few steep, icy passages, now wishing that we had our own crampons and ice axe. The lake was beautiful and serene, and while both Daniel and I had hoped the sun would make an appearance, even for just a few minutes, it refused. So we spent the remainder of the rainy day in the spa and indoor pool at the Hameau Albert, which felt well-deserved after our morning of hiking.

    La Flégère cable car

    Final views

    Three days in Chamonix was just not enough, as I would have loved a few more hikes and maybe a bit more sun. We were due to leave early the next morning, but when we woke up, the shining sun was too good to pass on, so we delayed our departure for one last ride on La Flégère to catch the views that had eluded us the day before.

    Alps views

    That morning, I stepped onto the platform of the cable car without fear, and with utter happiness that I was one of the ones wearing flip flops rather than hiking boots this time. We spent a few quiet minutes taking in the awesome panorama of the Alps, then hopped back onto the cable car. Next stop, Provence.

    Find it:

    Hôtel Hameau Albert 1er: https://www.hameaualbert.fr/en
    Albert 1er Restaurant: https://www.hameaualbert.fr/en/gastronomic-restaurant
    L’Aiguille du Midi: https://www.chamonix.com/aiguille-du-midi-step-into-the-void,80,en.html
    Hiking Routes in Chamonix: https://10hikes.com/france/chamonix-hikes/

    Hotel views Mont Blanc view

  • Cumbria. Many Lakes. One Star.

    Cumbria. Many Lakes. One Star.

    The Lake District may be England’s best kept secret.


    The Lake District, England /

    Dungeon Ghyll, Crinkle Crags and Harrison Stickle. No, these aren’t characters from a Harry Potter novel, they are the illustrious names for ravines and peaks in the majestic Lake District of England. Where, if you are American, you won’t see a fellow countryman for days and wonder why this place has seemingly escaped our radar. It is a mere four hour drive from London, which by US standards, is a typical Sunday outing. Some might say, well we have Vermont, or the Finger Lakes, and while those are truly gorgeous lake areas in the US, what we don’t possess are the fairytale hamlets, the tall, spired edifices and the Hobbitt-like thatched rooftop villages that accompany the lakes of Cumbria. Rolling hills, a patched quilt of vivid yellows and lush greens, ancient slate, hand-built stone walls that act as property dividers weaving like a thread throughout the landscape. It is a scene from another era.

     Tombstone of William Wordsworth Village of Grasmere

    Living the fairytale

    Our first day in Cumbria started with a leisurely drive to the village of Grasmere, where we lined up for freshly baked squares of gingerbread in the very place that gingerbread was invented back in 1854 by Sarah Nelson. We were far from the only ones waiting patiently at the old stone house where she perfected her recipe (and later kept handwritten in a bank vault) and the spicy sweet combination did not disappoint! The streets we walked were long and winding, the stream banks lined with sheep. We ambled past the eroding tombstone of William Wordsworth and the very daffodil fields that inspired his famous poem.

    Village of Grasmere, fields

    The remainder of the day was spent driving up and around roads (a generous term!) that are supposed to accommodate two cars but can barely fit one, a virtual game of shark as we held our breath around each curve, praying no one was coming from the other direction. There is no shoulder, no give—in fact only stone walls, so that if you do come face to face with another car, (and you will) someone has to back up indefinitely in order to let the other pass. And here I thought the hiking was going to be the most treacherous part of the trip!

    Wray Castle

    Meandering our way around the snake-like roads that hug the lakes, trying to find the elusive, and unfortunately for us, closed in June, car ferry to take us back to our hotel, we stumbled upon Wray Castle. Best seen from the outside than in, it is a Gothic Revival castle that was built in 1840. The grounds and exterior are beautiful but the inside was never restored to it’s 19c glory and is disappointingly used mainly as an exhibition space and for kid’s events.

    Orrest Head hike view

    The peaks of Cumbria

    We were told that there are maybe fifteen days a year of cloudless skies in the Lake District, and we were lucky enough to get them, especially since we had a few days of strenuous hiking ahead. Our past track records for hiking having not been so fortunate, hiking three plus hours to the summit only to see a lovely view of drizzle and fog. My husband told me after our trip that at least three people and a dog were blown to their death off Helvellyn last year due to weather conditions. I’m relieved not to have known that sobering fact earlier. But in our case, the UK weather reported, “another glorious day with spells of unbroken sunshine.” British weather reports are truly inspired.

    Orrest Head hike view

    Orrest Head was a warm-up hike the day before our trek up to Helvellyn, which is the third tallest peak in England. There we saw panoramic views of Windermere Lake and various peaks in the distance. We could just make out a string of sailboats in the distance as we took a seat on a wooden bench and admired the hushed landscape, the immense sky swallowing the sun, the birdsong in the foreground and the baa-ing of sheep in the background. The well-known British fellwalker (well-known mainly in the UK, I’m guessing), Alfred Wainwright, wrote of Orrest Head, ‘…quite suddenly, we emerged from the shadow of the trees and were on a bare headland, and, as though a curtain had dramatically been torn aside, beheld a truly magnificent view…”

    The Gilpin Hotel

    Spending time in Crook

    We checked into our room at our hotel, The Gilpin, which is located in the fantastically named village of Crook in County Cumbria. The Gilpin is a place of opposites. At first a lovely old historic inn with 26 rooms and a Michelin-starred restaurant, and second, a modern feat of architecture, with separate unique, geometric stand alone rooms made of wood and glass, cedar hot tubs and modern amenities, somehow living together in harmony in this bucolic part of the country. It has been family run for 100 years, and you immediately feel as if you are part of their family.

     The Gilpin Hotel patio for drinks Canapes at the Gilpin Hotel

    The communal sitting areas, complete with coffee tables and books, comfy chairs and sofas on which to nap, make you feel as if you are in your own home. There is an inviting and elegant bar, wine room, and a gorgeous garden patio to have pre-dinner drinks and canapés. The owners are always wandering around and happy to chat about your day. The atmosphere is as warm and inviting as you could possibly want.

    The Gilpin Hotel sitting room

    Our room had a spacious outdoor patio and a two-person round cedar hot tub that was sunken into the deck and somehow always at the perfect temperature. Bamboo and other wildflowers dotted the property, the air was dry and sunny, and it was nearly impossible to drag ourselves to the 60 second walk to dinner that evening.

    Restaurant HRiSHi The Gilpin Hotel wine room and cocktail bar Restaurant HRiSHi wine table

    A star among the lakes

    Part of the allure of Gilpin, other than it’s lovely location nestled in the heart of the lakes, was the on-site restaurant HRiSHi, which boasts a Michelin star, among other awards, for it’s executive chef Hrishikesh Desai. Never ones to pass on a chef’s tasting menu (wine-paired!), we put ourselves in the chef’s hands for the night.

    Restaurant HRiSHi tasting menu Restaurant HRiSHi tasting menu Wye Valley Asparagus, with pickled mushrooms and saffron aioli

    As a true nod to the chef’s talent, it was the first time we have ever chosen a vegetarian tasting menu. It was just too good to pass up, even for a carnivore like me. So we split the difference, my husband ordering the Signature Tasting Menu and me ordering the vegetarian option. Highlights were many, too many to count, but if I had to pick, the Lemon Gnocchi with marinated halloumi and wild mushrooms over cépe foam, paired with a delicate Albarino from Rias Baixas, Spain was an instant favorite. That, as well as the Wye Valley Asparagus, with pickled mushrooms and saffron aioli, on toasted almond cream, paired with a lovely white from Puglia, Italy. Each course more decadent and artfully designed than the last. Two plus hours later we trekked the 60 second uphill back to our room, wondering how we were going to manage in the morning.

    Gilpin House breakfast in a sun-lit room

    Tackling Helvellyn

    The next day started off with a lovely breakfast in a sun-lit room in the main house before we drove to the base of Helvellyn in Ambleside. I overheard a grandmother, who sounded eerily like Maggie Smith, explaining to her granddaughter, the game of cricket, “Nothing much happens. And it takes about three days to do it. “

     Hiking Helvellyn Hiking Helvellyn, views

    It was a gorgeous day and once at the top, we were assured we’d be able to see as far as the Irish Sea. We reached the trailhead via Kirkstone Pass, which was a road with one of the most dramatic views of the Lake District. At that time of day, it was just us and the cyclists, which made the drive even more serene, the lakes seemingly frozen in time and the reflections razor sharp. We parked, and then began our trek along the Hobbit-like countryside, passing wildflowers, sheep, lambs, waterfalls and streams, stone walls that curled along the route like a miniature Great Wall of China, watching the villages recede further into the distance as we gained altitude and took in the drama of it all. Two and half hours of uphill later, we found ourselves scrambling over the jagged rocks and tricky knife edge ridge known on the map as Striding Edge, the place where some have met an untimely death. ‘Striding’ seemed a bit too ambitious a term, as I was on all fours, refusing to look any way but dead ahead, and cursing my husband underneath my breath. 

    Striding Edge Hiking descent views of greenery

    Thankfully there was no wind and conditions were in our favor, but admittedly it was the most exhilarating part of the hike, every sense on high alert to make it at last to the summit at 3,120 feet, passing high above the Red Tarn and looking down into the valleys. Truth be told, the views were worth every gray hair I earned that day. The way down, the hike making a natural loop, was a little more leisurely, apart from the scramble along Swirral Edge, and filled with the most verdant of landscapes. Foxgloves popped out like hot purple pokers from in and around the ancient stone walls. The villages materialized, and civilization and a cold beer were in our immediate sights.

    The Giplin House exterior

    world cup: England v. Belgium

    The last night of our time in the Lake District was spent at the casual restaurant at Gilpin, The Spice House, watching England lose to Belgium in a group match during the World Cup. I was assured this loss didn’t matter, which was confirmed as no one seemed particularly upset by it. The Indian menu was a nice contrast to our previous meals and the atmosphere relaxed and casual. We ordered a bottle of Grüner Veltliner and settled in for the match. Being as far north as we were, it amazed me to see light still clinging to the sky at nearly 11pm.

    Mountains and sheep

    The next day was an early rise and on to the next stop of our European journey. In some ways, I felt like the sole American discoverer of the glorious Lake District. I would encourage anyone to add it to their bucket list of travels while in the UK, as it is a fairy-tale inspired moment in time you will not easily forget. As we headed out of town, one last moment of being wonderstruck by the rolling hills, mountains, valleys, hamlets and mirror-calm lakes, I saw a sign for The Sun Inn and smiled. Maybe I was in a Harry Potter novel after all.

    Cumbrian countryside

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    Five Reasons to get lost:

    • Spending time pre-dinner on the patio at the Gilpin and watching mama birds feed their babies under the eaves.
    • The hair-raising drives around the lakes, wanting to watch the view but needing to watch the roads!
    • Making it to the summit of Helvellyn on a rare sunny day and popping open a well-deserved can of Coke.
    • Having warm gingerbread at the birthplace of gingerbread, then roaming the very streets that Wordsworth and Beatrix Potter once walked.
    • Hearing phrases like ‘dilly-dally’ and ‘higgledy-piggledy’ used in every day conversation.

    Where will you find yourself next?

    Consider a short flight from London to Milan and head to Lake Como for a few days.

    Live in an ancient 15th c. village in Montenegro while overlooking the Adriatic Sea.

    Take on the Medina, and more, in Marrakech.

     

  • An hour’s drive and a thousand miles away from Marrakech

    An hour’s drive and a thousand miles away from Marrakech

    Travel research makes me happy, and I can spend hours finding ‘the best’ of anything. Sometimes though, my husband just nails it, and discovers the best places to stay, or eat. In the case of Morocco’s Atlas Mountains, he won, finding the hidden, beautiful gem, Kasbah bab Ourika, just outside of Marrakech.


    Kasbah Bab Ourika, Atlas Mountains, Morocco / 

    Thirty minutes into the hour-long journey to Ourika from Marrakech, the road narrowed to a single lane, and became dark red packed earth. We slowed to about 5 mph and ambled past donkeys carrying bushels of barley, women with terra cotta tagines balanced gracefully on their heads, and the village elder, a 106 year-old man, staring absentmindedly into space. Welcome to village life around Ourika, nestled gently in the High Atlas Mountains.  

    Kasbah Bab Ourika interior common room Kasbah Bab Ourika interior detail Kasbah Bab Ourika detail

    Kasbah Bab Ourika is a unique rustic oasis. The rooms are classic Berber, but with a twist. Wool rugs, and lovely woven tapestries as you’d expect, but then they add in a stack of vintage radios, black and white 12-inch TVs, a phonograph player, and the occasional antique steamer trunk. And yes, somehow this mismatched decor works together beautifully. Hidden alcoves for playing cards and board games, drinking the ever-present mint tea, or reading. Fireplaces in the common rooms add to the cozy and intimate ambience. Think Berber shabby chic.

    Kasbah Bab Ourika pool suite Suite fireplace Bathroom with a view

    Rooms are minimal, yet thoughtfully-appointed, warm and sun-drenched. A daybed nook complete with novels and a reading lamp were especially inviting. We were welcomed to our room with rose petals flung all about, a deep sunken bathtub revealing a mountain panorama, and a garden roof top that boasted both sunrise and sunset views! At any moment, the attentive staff is happy to light the fire in your room, to warm up the cool nights.

    Kasbah Bab Ourika exterior view

    Mountain views

    Sweeping views

    But for all of the beauty that the kasbah has within it’s dusty orange earthen walls, it is equally, if not more about what is outside. The snow-capped mountain peaks, the flower gardens and olive groves, the mature fig trees that dot the property along with essence of lemon and orange trees. The quintessential reds and oranges of the kasbah juxtaposed beautifully against the cerulean blue sky. The air is crisp and clean, and you can hear the water flowing from the mountain into the gushing river nearby (which can oddly sound like traffic to those familiar with city life).

    Kasbah Bab Ourika exterior view Kasbah Bab Ourika garden view

    Clouds roll through, creating magical textured layers of blues and lavenders, while a sharp mountain silhouette completes the picture. Rosemary hedges surround the property and no matter where you are you can catch a telltale wisp of the herb.  Desert cacti, evergreens and tropical palms somehow live in harmony here, naturally irrigated by the mountain run-off. Lush, rich, verdant and alive…  the vegetable and herb gardens are the source of the decadent meals we came to love each day. Three course lunches and dinners, with just the perfect amount of variety, so much so, that we never tired of the Moroccan cuisine in our five night stay. Highlights, aside from the classic tagines, were lamb chops with roasted potatoes, slow-cooked chicken in herbs, homemade soups, and the many enticing salads that accompanied each meal. We drank Moroccan wine, which complimented the flavors of the tagines to perfection! 

    Kasbah Bab Ourika tagine dinner Dining room view Dining room view

    Dining took place in different areas around the property. Lunches under a bamboo-thatched rooftop on the patio facing the mountains and valleys, candlelit dinners in the inner courtyard, and places for cocktails in so many unique little spots that we often couldn’t choose. Kasbah Bab Ourika employs 60 villagers from the surrounding villages, which means 60 local families have steady income outside of farming. The staff is friendly and courteous, there to cater to your every need: mint tea in the library, a bottle of rosé on your terrace, or to light the fireplace in your room each night before you return from dinner. A prehistoric glow from the tiled fireplace casting an ethereal warmth on the earth-toned walls. Our hiking guides were also from the Berber villages, and were gentle and mindful, allowing us to get lost in our thoughts, and yet giving us enough local information as we wandered.

    Hiking the Atlas Mountains and villages Hiking the Atlas Mountains and villages Sheep

    At one point we hiked through a steep mountain village, passing it’s ubiquitous tall, rectangular mosque, and came upon a dramatic vista. I saw five village elders in their dark woolen robes, cowls draped over their heads. They were ratcheted one by one up a gentle slope with their backs to me, admiring the sweeping mountain peaks in front of them. The unending layered hues of green and blues in all their majesty, a mystical cloud of fog hovering below the peaks, it was a photo worthy of National Geographic, I was convinced! But, as I was well aware, it is considered rude to take photos of the Berbers without permission, and so with a sigh of defeat slowly lowered my camera in respect, and took a mental photo instead.

    Local home Mint tea ceremony in local village

    Hiking to a Berber Village

    On one morning hike, we trekked two or three hours into the mountains, and were welcomed by a village family. No roads to be found, only donkey tracks and the occasional moped. They taught us the ceremonial process of making Berber mint tea, which you can find in every incarnation throughout the country. The technique involved pouring and re-pouring, first of green teas leaves to coat the tea pot, then hot water, then the mint leaves themselves, then the steeping, straining and adding of sugar. Lastly, was the theatrical way the tea is poured, which was from much higher above the glass cup then is necessary, but adds such drama! The result? Well suffice it to say, it put Tazo to shame.

    Homemade bread Village women

    We were then served homemade breads along with freshly churned butter and pressed olive oil from the trees surrounding the village. The homes looked in a half-state of completion with up to six or more members of the family under the one roof, along with their livestock. It was a mystical experience, especially made so by the low-lying clouds that added to the striking backdrop. We felt like we were happily hidden away in the middle of nowhere.

    We had unseasonably cool weather for April, which made the hiking easier, yet we were still able to spend a few days lazing by the pool in an intimate setting among the wildflowers, vivd red poppies and olive groves. Since the only place you could capture any wi-fi was a twenty square foot area in the kasbah courtyard, everywhere else you felt completely disconnected from the outside world, which was heavenly. The courtyard became a hive of social activity for the guests, all trying to get their internet fix, post a pic, or send a text.

    The Berber Museum The Berber Museum

    The Berber Museum

    As difficult as it was to leave, we did manage a few other excursions from the kasbah grounds. While none of us had much of a desire to see the Berber Museum, it turned out to be a true highlight. Set in a small village, and having once been a traditional Berber home, our guide was charismatic and charming, and taught us much about Berber life in under an hour (which is my bandwidth for any museum). The stories of the tapestries being particularly fascinating, as the patterns woven determined if the rug was for a man, women, pregnant woman, or a even a wedding gift. The tapestries telling the stories of the villagers.

    Paradis du Safran Paradis du Safran garden patio Paradis du Safran garden patio

    Paradis du safran, a hidden gem

    We then went to Paradis du Safran, a hidden gem well off the main roads of Ourika, which was conceived and designed in 2012 by an entrepreneurial Swiss woman named Christine Ferrari. From nothing, she built the most awe-inspiring and verdant oasis. Paths of herbs, fruit trees, vivid gardens with flowers of every species, donkeys that look healthy (in contrast to nearly every other donkey we saw in Morocco), and even a resident peacock who kindly opened up it’s feathers to full plume as if on command. Ms. Ferrari served us rose petal water followed later by thyme tea as we sat and took in the expansive, colorful grounds.

    Paradis du Safran footpath Paradis du Safran foot bath

    She has uniquely created a textural path, meant to be walked through barefoot. Stepping on pinecones, straw, ropes and twigs, among other things, was a sensory obstacle course for your feet. Afterwards, you can soak in a sequence of herbal foot baths that re-invigorates your senses, before dining at her al fresco restaurant or perusing her small yet well-curated boutique. It is a blissful, natural wonderland she has built, and while it seemed off the beaten path, she has a devoted following as we could see from the pinned map of the world she has at her entry. People have traveled from all ends of the earth to visit. And it is not surprising why, as it is just about as close to garden perfection as you can get, set magically against the snow-capped Atlas Mountains. 

    Sunset over Kasbah Bab Ourika

    Cocktails and sunsets

    The famous African sunsets did not let us down, and were an illustrious show to be seen nightly. We would spend an hour or so watching the sun make it’s fiery descent, each night more spectacular than the last. Each time saying that it couldn’t get any better and yet, somehow it did. And while the sun went down, watching how the mottled clay facets of the kasbah walls changed with each passing minute.

    Sunset over Kasbah Bab Ourika

    Some sunsets looked dusty rose, while the others took on a much darker hue depending on where the light was coming from. The packed earth on the mountains taking an almost merlot to deep purple palette, the cocoa colored latticework of the windows adding to the contrast. Then the icy blues and layers of the Atlas mountains…. it looked like my daughter’s latest eyeshadow palette, all the colors of the terra cotta mixing and blending together at once. On one particular sunset, a layer of clouds formed and we oooh-ed and ahhh-ed as we saw the sun disappear and then re-appear from below it, forming a magical golden lining.

    Kasbah Bab Ourika view Church view

    We woke before sunrise on our final morning to catch an early flight. Dark at first, the full moon still casting an ethereal glow. Then the sun edged out the moon, it’s rays gently hitting the tips of the snow caps in all shades of pink. We slowly tumbled down the mountain road, careful not to hit any farmers, their donkeys in tow, on their way to the morning market. Past the vegetable sellers opening their stalls, the women laying out their wares, and groups of men crouching at the pop-up roadside stalls having breakfast. As we drove, a final poetic slice of life in Morocco: a group of twenty or more brown woolen cloaked sheep herders, each with their prize sheep at their feet. A tornado of activity as the trading began to unfold, furious waving and posturing, sheep wrangling, baaa-ing, and milling about. Watching the scene grow distant as I looked out the rear window, I smiled. Over three thousand miles away from my home, and I was already trying to figure out a way to come back. 

    Kasbah Bab Ourika gardens

    Five Reasons to get lost:

    • Hiking to a remote Berber village and being welcomed like family.
    • Meandering though the omnipresent arches of the kasbah, and finding a nook to enjoy nightly cocktails.
    • Indulging in a glass of mint tea with the locals.
    • Spontaneously coming upon a sheepherder and his flock in the mountains.
    • Catching a glimpse of market life at 6am on Mondays.


    Bonus:

    Spend a few nights in colorful Marrakech. The Mandarin Oriental was the perfect distance from the hustle and bustle, a true oasis in the city.

    Sheep Mountain views